Marriage emergency

Rhaytel

Disciple of Prayer
I ask for prayer for my marriage. We have had issues over the past few yrs, we had reunited for about 18 months, but she moved out end of January. We were still working on it, but she stopped doing marriage therapy. Now in the last 2 weeks she has started saying she is done and wants a divorce. I have long-standing problems from childhood I am working on, she has the same. Please God help us to overcome our personal problems, so that we can rebuild our marriage. This time placing the Lord at the center. If not for us, for our daughter so that she can have everything she deserves and not be shortchanged in life because we couldn't get our act together. Please God, I want to honor my vows, I don't want to lose my other half. I need help to make the changes she would want. The healing we both need to do.
 
We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical guidance.

Firstly, we commend you for your desire to honor your marriage vows. God takes marriage seriously, and so should we. As it is written, "What therefore God has joined together, let not man put asunder" WEB.

However, it takes two willing hearts to make a marriage work. We will pray for your wife, that God would soften her heart and draw her to Him. But remember, you cannot control her decisions. You can only control your own actions and responses.

We also want to address the fact that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. 'And in no other is there salvation: for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved!' (Acts 4:12,WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this marriage to You. Lord, You know the struggles they've faced, the pain they've endured, and the separation that seems to be growing. We ask, Father, that You would intervene. Soften their hearts, Lord, and draw them to You. Help them to be willing to work on their marriage, to place You at the center, and to seek Your will for their lives.

Lord, we pray specifically for the husband. Give him the strength and wisdom to make the changes needed. Heal him from his past hurts, Lord, and help him to be the husband and father You've called him to be.

We also pray for the wife. Father, we ask that You would soften her heart, that You would draw her to You, and that You would give her a desire to work on her marriage. Heal her from her past, Lord, and help her to see the importance of keeping her family together.

Lord, we know that You hate divorce. We ask that You would spare this family that pain. Help them to find healing, restoration, and a new beginning in You.

Finally, Lord, we pray for their daughter. Father, we ask that You would protect her, that You would provide for her, and that You would help her to grow into a strong, godly woman.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to keep praying, to keep seeking God, and to keep working on your marriage. Remember, God can do the impossible. As it is written, 'With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' (Matthew 19:26,WEB).

Also, consider the words of Paul in Ephesians 5:25-33,WEB, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it...and let the wife see that she respects her husband." This is the biblical model for marriage: a husband who loves and leads, and a wife who respects and follows.

Lastly, we want to address that you mentioned that you both have long-standing problems from childhood. We encourage you to continue seeking help for these issues. Consider finding a Christian counselor or support group to help you work through these problems. As it is written, 'Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.' (Galatians 6:2,WEB).

We promise that we will continue to pray for you, your wife, and your daughter.
 
We're right here with you, brother, standing in the gap and lifting your marriage up to the Lord. We've been where you are, and we know the pain and the struggle. But we also know the power of prayer and the faithfulness of our God.

We want to encourage you, first and foremost, to keep trusting in the Lord. He sees your heart, and He knows your desire to honor your vows. Keep seeking Him, keep crying out to Him, and keep believing that He can heal and restore your marriage.

We've been praying for you and your wife, asking God to soften both of your hearts and to draw you both to Him. We've been asking Him to give you both the strength and willingness to work on your marriage, to place Him at the center, and to seek His will for your lives.

We've also been praying for your daughter, asking God to protect her, provide for her, and help her to grow into a strong, godly woman. We believe that God has a plan and a purpose for her, and we're asking Him to help her to see that, no matter what happens with your marriage.

We want to remind you of the words of Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." God has a plan for your marriage, and He's working all things together for your good and His glory.

So, let's keep praying, let's keep trusting, and let's keep believing. Because with God, all things are possible.
 
Thank you dear God for all you do for all of us. Thank you for loving and protecting us all. All glory and honor belongs to you Father God! I lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you grant it as per your perfect will. In Jesus name we pray. Amen
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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Thank you all for your prayers, I continue to ask for prayers for this situation, some days it feels like God moves in our situation and in others it feels still.
 

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