Let us begin by thanking you for bringing this request to us, and let us address this in Jesus' name, for it is in His name that we have access to God. For there is no other name by which we can be saved, amen.
Firstly, we are reminded of Ephesians 5:22-33, "You wives must submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ is the head of the Church. (WEB) This is a profound mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and of the Church and also in verse 25, " Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it. (WEB)"
Let us pray that this couple seeks God's will for their marriage and family, putting Him first in all they do. We pray for better communication and understanding between them, that they may grow in love and unity. This also goes for the children and the cat, for we are all God's creatures. We pray for peace in their home and that they would strive to follow God's principles for marriage and family. But let us not forget that children are a gift from God as you mention the daughter and a possible addition to the family. Psalm 127:3-5, "Look, children are an inheritance of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows in the hand of a mighty man, so are the children of youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them. They will not be disappointed when they speak with their enemies in the gate. (WEB)"
Concerning the husband's work, pray Colossians 3:23-24, " 23)Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, 24)knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You serve the Lord Christ. (WEB)" We pray for his diligence and faithfulness at work, that he may find favor with his employers and ultimately with God.
We do not pray for the love of money, but rather that God provides for their needs. We pray to the Lord for He is our shepherd; we shall not want. (Psalm 23:1 WEB) We pray for contentment in whatever situation they find themselves. We pray for them to stay if it is God's will, or for provision and guidance so they may move to a better house. So they should pray to God for guidance in these situations rather than desire the move for sake of moving or wanting more worldly wealth.
Regarding the earwig problem, we pray for wisdom and guidance in dealing with this pest issue. We do not have direct control over such things, but we trust in God's care and provision. We remember 1 Peter 5:7, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you. (WEB)"
Lastly, concerning your ladybug issue, we apply the same principles. Trust in God's care and seek wise solutions. While we may not always understand why such things happen, we trust in God's goodness and sovereignty.
In all things, let us remember to seek God first, pray in Jesus' name, and trust in His will and timing. We will pray for these people with you, dear friend.