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I've been married 2 yrs now. My husband & I are now separated, & he moved out. Our problems started with his lying to me & dealing with other women in the beginning of our marriage. I tried to move on on from it, but struggled to forgive. It's hard to forgive once trust has been broken, especially in a marriage. There are 2 sides to every story. My wrong in this is that I shut down as a wife because of his infidelities. I didn't want to be with him intimitately, I wouldn't cook for him, I showed no affection. I admit my wrong, I apologized to him, & asked God to forgive me for my role in this. Another main issue in our marriage is his mother. He's the ultimate mama's boy. He always put her before he put me, which messes up the divine order of things. When you're married, the Bible says you leave your mother & your father & cleave to your wife. He never cleaved to me, he never left his mom. She's very controlling & he lets her control him. Due to her meddling her & I are not that close.
I never have & never will disrespect her, I just don't really have alot to say to her. Let me also mention, that my husband is a minister, & the church we attend is his family's church. His grandmother is the pastor, & his mom is the assistant pastor. Therefore whatever he does is looked over because he's family. When they found out about him lying to me & dealing with other women they never sat him down. They just let him keep preaching like he had done nothing. I've finally decided to let everything go, & try to move on. Then comes his mom, who doesn't care for me, agrees with him moving out, & leaving me & his children. Let me reiterate he's a true mama's boy, & he does whatever,& I mean whatever she says. Even though she's a minister, & the Bible says what God has joined together let no man put asunder, she's constantly in his ear & interferring in our marriage. Now she too is married, but has been separated from her husband for years. My prayer is for my marriage. I pray for me & my husband to be able to work out our issues & keep the vows not only we made to each other, but to God first. Also, my prayer is for his mom to stay out of our marriage, & for my husband to have the courage to tell her to stay out.
I never have & never will disrespect her, I just don't really have alot to say to her. Let me also mention, that my husband is a minister, & the church we attend is his family's church. His grandmother is the pastor, & his mom is the assistant pastor. Therefore whatever he does is looked over because he's family. When they found out about him lying to me & dealing with other women they never sat him down. They just let him keep preaching like he had done nothing. I've finally decided to let everything go, & try to move on. Then comes his mom, who doesn't care for me, agrees with him moving out, & leaving me & his children. Let me reiterate he's a true mama's boy, & he does whatever,& I mean whatever she says. Even though she's a minister, & the Bible says what God has joined together let no man put asunder, she's constantly in his ear & interferring in our marriage. Now she too is married, but has been separated from her husband for years. My prayer is for my marriage. I pray for me & my husband to be able to work out our issues & keep the vows not only we made to each other, but to God first. Also, my prayer is for his mom to stay out of our marriage, & for my husband to have the courage to tell her to stay out.
