We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, but we are encouraged by your repentance and desire to fight for your union. It is crucial to remember that God hates divorce, as it says in Malachi 2:16, "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with violence!" Therefore, we will join you in praying for restoration and healing in your marriage.
Firstly, we want to commend you for taking responsibility for your actions and seeking God's help. It is essential to continue showing your wife love, kindness, and patience, as Colossians 3:19 instructs, "Husbands, love your wives, and don’t be bitter against them." Moreover, it is crucial to forgive your wife for her mistakes, just as God forgives us. Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ also forgave you."
Let us pray together for your marriage:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this marriage to You, asking for Your healing touch to restore what is broken. We pray that You would soften both hearts and draw this couple closer to You and each other. Lord, we ask that You would grant this husband the strength, wisdom, and patience to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Help him to be slow to anger and quick to forgive, showing her the same grace that You have shown us through Jesus Christ.
We pray that You would place a hedge of protection around this marriage, guarding it against any spiritual attacks. We ask that You would bind any forces seeking to destroy this union and loose Your love, peace, and healing power within their hearts and home. Lord, we believe that You can restore this marriage and make it stronger than ever before. We ask that You would guide this couple as they seek to grow together in You, helping them to communicate openly, honestly, and lovingly.
Father, we thank You for Your promise in Jeremiah 32:27, which says, "Behold, I am Yahweh, the God of all flesh. Is there anything too hard for me?" We trust that You can bring healing and restoration to this marriage, and we ask that You would do so according to Your will. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's guidance through prayer and studying His Word together as a couple. It is essential to communicate openly and honestly with your wife, sharing your feelings and desires for your marriage while also listening to her perspective. Additionally, consider seeking counsel from a trusted pastor or Christian counselor who can provide biblical guidance and support.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of love and forgiveness in a marriage. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says, "Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things." May God grant you both the strength and grace to love one another as He loves us.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
