Please pray for me as I deeply want to leave everyone I interact with feeling happy. I never want to hurt anyone even unintentionally. I am always worried that I've upset someone or said something I shouldn't have and I try to be so careful. Please pray that I won't upset anyone ever unintentionally. Thank you.
Making people feel good
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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
Your heart’s desire to bring joy and avoid hurting others is a beautiful reflection of Christ’s love, and we commend you for seeking to live in a way that honors God through your words and actions. The Bible calls us to speak with grace, to build one another up, and to walk in love, just as Christ loved us. Ephesians 4:29 reminds us, *"Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."* Your concern for others is a gift, but we also sense a weight of anxiety in your request—one that may stem from a fear of man rather than a full trust in God’s sovereignty over every interaction.
While it is noble to seek peace and avoid causing pain, we must remember that we cannot control how others receive or interpret our words, no matter how carefully we choose them. Proverbs 16:1 tells us, *"The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from Yahweh."* Even Jesus, who spoke perfectly, was misunderstood, rejected, and even hated by some (John 15:18-19). Our goal should not be to please everyone—an impossible task—but to please God, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and trusting Him with the outcomes.
Your fear of unintentionally upsetting someone may also reveal a deeper struggle with perfectionism or self-reliance. Colossians 3:23-24 encourages us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* When we fix our eyes on serving God rather than the approval of others, we find freedom from the burden of trying to be flawless in every interaction. Rest in the truth that God’s grace covers our mistakes, and His Spirit is at work in us to grow us in wisdom and love.
There is also a danger in making "not upsetting anyone" the ultimate goal of our speech. Sometimes, speaking biblical truth—even lovingly—will bring conviction or discomfort to others. Jesus Himself warned that His words would divide even households (Matthew 10:34-36). Our responsibility is to speak with love and humility, not to shrink back from truth for fear of offense. As 2 Timothy 4:2 instructs, *"Preach the word; be urgent in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with all patience and teaching."*
Let us pray for you, that God would fill you with His peace, free you from the fear of man, and give you wisdom to speak in ways that honor Him—whether your words bring comfort or necessary conviction. May you rest in the knowledge that He is the one who ultimately changes hearts, not you.
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**Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul before You, asking that You would quiet their heart with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, You know the depth of their desire to reflect Your love and avoid causing pain, and we thank You for planting such compassion within them. But Father, we also ask that You free them from the snare of anxiety and the fear of man’s disapproval. Remind them that their words are not meant to earn love or avoid conflict at all costs, but to be faithful to You, speaking truth in love and trusting You with the results.
Grant them the wisdom of Proverbs 15:1, that their words may be soft and turn away wrath, but also the courage to speak boldly when Your truth demands it. Help them to release the impossible burden of perfectionism and to rest in Your grace, knowing that even when they stumble, You are faithful to redeem and teach. Fill them with Your Spirit, that their speech may always be seasoned with salt, full of grace, and rooted in love (Colossians 4:6).
Most of all, Father, may they find their security in You alone, not in the approval or happiness of others. Let them remember that it is Your commendation that matters most, and that You are the one who judges the heart. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who spoke both grace and truth perfectly, and who intercedes for us even now. Amen.**
While it is noble to seek peace and avoid causing pain, we must remember that we cannot control how others receive or interpret our words, no matter how carefully we choose them. Proverbs 16:1 tells us, *"The plans of the heart belong to man, but the answer of the tongue is from Yahweh."* Even Jesus, who spoke perfectly, was misunderstood, rejected, and even hated by some (John 15:18-19). Our goal should not be to please everyone—an impossible task—but to please God, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and trusting Him with the outcomes.
Your fear of unintentionally upsetting someone may also reveal a deeper struggle with perfectionism or self-reliance. Colossians 3:23-24 encourages us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* When we fix our eyes on serving God rather than the approval of others, we find freedom from the burden of trying to be flawless in every interaction. Rest in the truth that God’s grace covers our mistakes, and His Spirit is at work in us to grow us in wisdom and love.
There is also a danger in making "not upsetting anyone" the ultimate goal of our speech. Sometimes, speaking biblical truth—even lovingly—will bring conviction or discomfort to others. Jesus Himself warned that His words would divide even households (Matthew 10:34-36). Our responsibility is to speak with love and humility, not to shrink back from truth for fear of offense. As 2 Timothy 4:2 instructs, *"Preach the word; be urgent in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, and exhort, with all patience and teaching."*
Let us pray for you, that God would fill you with His peace, free you from the fear of man, and give you wisdom to speak in ways that honor Him—whether your words bring comfort or necessary conviction. May you rest in the knowledge that He is the one who ultimately changes hearts, not you.
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**Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul before You, asking that You would quiet their heart with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord, You know the depth of their desire to reflect Your love and avoid causing pain, and we thank You for planting such compassion within them. But Father, we also ask that You free them from the snare of anxiety and the fear of man’s disapproval. Remind them that their words are not meant to earn love or avoid conflict at all costs, but to be faithful to You, speaking truth in love and trusting You with the results.
Grant them the wisdom of Proverbs 15:1, that their words may be soft and turn away wrath, but also the courage to speak boldly when Your truth demands it. Help them to release the impossible burden of perfectionism and to rest in Your grace, knowing that even when they stumble, You are faithful to redeem and teach. Fill them with Your Spirit, that their speech may always be seasoned with salt, full of grace, and rooted in love (Colossians 4:6).
Most of all, Father, may they find their security in You alone, not in the approval or happiness of others. Let them remember that it is Your commendation that matters most, and that You are the one who judges the heart. We ask this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who spoke both grace and truth perfectly, and who intercedes for us even now. Amen.**
We're right there with you, friend, feeling that heartfelt desire to make everyone happy and avoid hurting anyone. It's a beautiful reflection of Christ's love, and we're cheering you on for seeking to live in a way that honors God. We understand the worry that often comes with wanting to do the right thing, but remember, even Jesus wasn't always understood or liked by everyone. Our goal isn't to please everyone, but to please God, speaking the truth in love and trusting Him with the outcomes.
Let's pray together that God would fill you with His peace, free you from the fear of man, and give you wisdom to speak in ways that honor Him. May you rest in the knowledge that He is the one who ultimately changes hearts, not you. Let's trust that His grace covers our mistakes, and His Spirit is at work in us, growing us in wisdom and love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Let's pray together that God would fill you with His peace, free you from the fear of man, and give you wisdom to speak in ways that honor Him. May you rest in the knowledge that He is the one who ultimately changes hearts, not you. Let's trust that His grace covers our mistakes, and His Spirit is at work in us, growing us in wisdom and love.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred opportunity to lift you up in prayer over these past days. Your heart for others is so evident, and we’ve been earnestly asking the Lord to fill you with His peace as you seek to reflect His love in every interaction. It’s clear you carry a tender spirit, and we’ve prayed that God would guard your heart from the weight of worry while also giving you wisdom and discernment in your words and actions.
If you’ve experienced God’s comfort or seen Him work in this area of your life, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share a praise report so we can give Him the glory together. And if this burden still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re here to keep standing with you. Don’t hesitate to post again so we can continue praying over you with persistence and faith.
May the Lord remind you daily that He is the one who perfects our love for others, and may you rest in the truth that He is faithful to complete the good work He’s begun in you. We’re trusting Him to replace anxiety with His peace as you surrender this desire to Him. In Jesus Name.
If you’ve experienced God’s comfort or seen Him work in this area of your life, we’d love to rejoice with you—please share a praise report so we can give Him the glory together. And if this burden still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re here to keep standing with you. Don’t hesitate to post again so we can continue praying over you with persistence and faith.
May the Lord remind you daily that He is the one who perfects our love for others, and may you rest in the truth that He is faithful to complete the good work He’s begun in you. We’re trusting Him to replace anxiety with His peace as you surrender this desire to Him. In Jesus Name.
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