Make my life happy and joyful, no parasites
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We hear your heart’s cry for joy, beauty, and freedom from those who drain your energy and resources, and we join you in lifting this before the Lord. Your request is rooted in a deep longing for a life that reflects the abundance Christ promises, and we commend you for seeking His will in this. However, we must first address something vital: while your prayer invokes the name of Jesus, it is essential to remember that our joy and fulfillment are not found in circumstances alone but in *Him alone*. Jesus said in John 15:11, *"I have spoken these things to you, that my joy may remain in you, and that your joy may be made full."* True joy is not the absence of hardship or difficult people but the presence of Christ in and through all things.
Your mention of "parasites" and "vampires" suggests there are relationships or influences in your life that are toxic, self-serving, or even exploitative. The Bible warns us about such associations. Proverbs 13:20 says, *"One who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Similarly, 1 Corinthians 15:33 reminds us, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil company corrupts good morals.’"* If there are people in your life who consistently take from you—whether emotionally, spiritually, or materially—without reciprocity or godly love, it is wise to prayerfully evaluate those relationships. Jesus calls us to love others, but that love should never enable sin, manipulation, or harm. Ephesians 5:11 instructs us, *"Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them."*
That said, we must also examine our own hearts. Are there areas where *we* have allowed bitterness, unforgiveness, or selfishness to take root? Sometimes, the "parasites" we perceive in others are magnified by our own unresolved struggles. Matthew 7:3-5 challenges us: *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."* Let us ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal if there is anything in *us* that needs to be surrendered to Him.
As for your desire for happiness and beauty, we must remember that these are fruits of a life surrendered to Christ, not ends in themselves. Psalm 16:11 declares, *"You will show me the path of life. In your presence is fullness of joy. In your right hand there are pleasures forevermore."* Joy is not a fleeting emotion but a deep, abiding confidence in God’s goodness, even in trials. If you are seeking happiness apart from Him, you will always come up empty. But if you seek *Him first*, Matthew 6:33 promises, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."*
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious soul who longs for a life filled with Your joy, beauty, and peace. Lord, You are the source of all good things, and we ask that You would align their heart with Yours, that their joy may be made full in *You alone*. Remove from their life any influence that seeks to drain, manipulate, or harm—whether through relationships, habits, or ungodly patterns. Give them discernment, Lord, to recognize those who are truly for them and those who are not. Surround them with godly, life-giving relationships that point them to You.
Father, if there is any bitterness, unforgiveness, or selfishness in their heart, we ask that You would convict and cleanse them. Help them to walk in love, wisdom, and boundaries that honor You. Let them not be deceived by the enemy’s lies but stand firm in Your truth. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may overflow with the fruit of joy, peace, and patience, regardless of their circumstances.
We rebuke any spiritual attack against their mind, emotions, or resources. No weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Let their life be a testament to Your goodness, Lord, and let them find their satisfaction in You above all else.
Finally, Father, we pray that if this dear one does not yet know You as their Savior, that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Open their eyes to see that true joy is found in repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. Remind them that apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5), but in Him, we have everything we need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3).
We ask all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Seek His kingdom above all else, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If there are specific relationships or situations that feel like "parasites," pray for wisdom on how to address them biblically—whether through confrontation, boundaries, or even separation, if necessary. And always remember: your worth is not in what others take from you or give to you, but in Christ, who gave *everything* for you. Walk in that truth, and let His joy be your strength (Nehemiah 8:10).
Your mention of "parasites" and "vampires" suggests there are relationships or influences in your life that are toxic, self-serving, or even exploitative. The Bible warns us about such associations. Proverbs 13:20 says, *"One who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm."* Similarly, 1 Corinthians 15:33 reminds us, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil company corrupts good morals.’"* If there are people in your life who consistently take from you—whether emotionally, spiritually, or materially—without reciprocity or godly love, it is wise to prayerfully evaluate those relationships. Jesus calls us to love others, but that love should never enable sin, manipulation, or harm. Ephesians 5:11 instructs us, *"Have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather even reprove them."*
That said, we must also examine our own hearts. Are there areas where *we* have allowed bitterness, unforgiveness, or selfishness to take root? Sometimes, the "parasites" we perceive in others are magnified by our own unresolved struggles. Matthew 7:3-5 challenges us: *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye? Or how will you tell your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye;’ and behold, the beam is in your own eye? You hypocrite! First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother’s eye."* Let us ask the Lord to search our hearts and reveal if there is anything in *us* that needs to be surrendered to Him.
As for your desire for happiness and beauty, we must remember that these are fruits of a life surrendered to Christ, not ends in themselves. Psalm 16:11 declares, *"You will show me the path of life. In your presence is fullness of joy. In your right hand there are pleasures forevermore."* Joy is not a fleeting emotion but a deep, abiding confidence in God’s goodness, even in trials. If you are seeking happiness apart from Him, you will always come up empty. But if you seek *Him first*, Matthew 6:33 promises, *"But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."*
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious soul who longs for a life filled with Your joy, beauty, and peace. Lord, You are the source of all good things, and we ask that You would align their heart with Yours, that their joy may be made full in *You alone*. Remove from their life any influence that seeks to drain, manipulate, or harm—whether through relationships, habits, or ungodly patterns. Give them discernment, Lord, to recognize those who are truly for them and those who are not. Surround them with godly, life-giving relationships that point them to You.
Father, if there is any bitterness, unforgiveness, or selfishness in their heart, we ask that You would convict and cleanse them. Help them to walk in love, wisdom, and boundaries that honor You. Let them not be deceived by the enemy’s lies but stand firm in Your truth. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may overflow with the fruit of joy, peace, and patience, regardless of their circumstances.
We rebuke any spiritual attack against their mind, emotions, or resources. No weapon formed against them shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Let their life be a testament to Your goodness, Lord, and let them find their satisfaction in You above all else.
Finally, Father, we pray that if this dear one does not yet know You as their Savior, that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Open their eyes to see that true joy is found in repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. Remind them that apart from Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5), but in Him, we have everything we need for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3).
We ask all these things in the precious and mighty name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Beloved, we encourage you to spend time in God’s Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Seek His kingdom above all else, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If there are specific relationships or situations that feel like "parasites," pray for wisdom on how to address them biblically—whether through confrontation, boundaries, or even separation, if necessary. And always remember: your worth is not in what others take from you or give to you, but in Christ, who gave *everything* for you. Walk in that truth, and let His joy be your strength (Nehemiah 8:10).
We hear your heart's cry for a life filled with joy, beauty, and freedom from those who drain your energy and resources. We join you in lifting this up to the Lord, asking Him to reveal any influences in your life that are not of Him, and to empower you to walk in His truth and love. May you find your joy and satisfaction in Him alone, as He promised in John 10:10, "I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full."
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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