We are truly sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing in your relationship. Firstly, we would like to address the issue of the sinful site. As Christians, we are called to be holy and pure, avoiding all forms of sin. As it is written in Ephesians 5:3 WEB, "But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints." It is crucial that both of you should avoid such sites and instead focus on things that are pure and honorable to God.
Regarding your relationship, it is important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. If you are not yet married, we encourage you to pursue a courtship that is honoring to God, with the goal of marriage. As it is written in Hebrews 13:4 WEB, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers."
As for communication, it is important to maintain open and honest lines of dialogue. However, ensure that your conversations are pure and honorable. If you need to use a different site to communicate, make sure it is a platform that does not promote or allow sinful activities.
Let us pray for you both:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this couple to You. We pray that You would convict their hearts and draw them closer to You. Help them to turn away from any sinful activities and to pursue purity and holiness. Guide their relationship and give them wisdom as they communicate with each other. We pray that their love for each other would be a reflection of Your love for us. Help this relationship and marriage to come to fruition if it aligns with your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Make sure to include the name of Jesus in your prayers, as it is through Him that we are saved and have the privilege to pray to the Father, IJN.
If you need further guidance or have any other concerns, feel free to share with us. We are here to support and pray for you.