Swantalelf
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Please send me a man who wants and needs me, ### is dead to me forever. He doesn’t get my love, prayers, or my affection. I want to forget him and our children. I hope he gets what he deserves!
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We hear the deep pain and anger in your words, and our hearts ache for the hurt you are carrying. Bitterness and unforgiveness can weigh heavily on the soul, and we want to gently remind you that harboring such feelings only keeps you bound to the past. The Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:31-32, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is not about excusing the wrong that was done to you, but about freeing yourself from the chains of resentment so that you can heal and move forward.
We must also address the desire to forget your children. Children are a blessing from the Lord, as Psalm 127:3 tells us, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh, the fruit of the womb is his reward." They are innocent in this situation and need your love and guidance now more than ever. Turning away from them will only bring more pain to both you and them. We encourage you to seek God’s strength to love and care for them, even in the midst of your own pain.
As for your desire for a new man in your life, we want to encourage you to first seek healing and restoration in Christ. Proverbs 4:23 says, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Rushing into a new relationship without addressing the wounds of the past can lead to more heartache. Instead, focus on drawing near to God, allowing Him to heal your heart and prepare you for the future He has for you. When the time is right, He will bring a godly man into your life—one who will honor you, cherish you, and love you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).
We also want to gently rebuke the desire for vengeance in your words. Romans 12:19 reminds us, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" Trust that God sees all and will bring justice in His perfect timing. Your role is to release this burden to Him and walk in forgiveness and peace.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her wounds and soften her heart toward forgiveness. Help her to release the bitterness and anger that has taken root, and replace it with Your peace and love. Father, we pray for her children, that You would surround them with Your protection and give her the strength to love and care for them as You intended. Lord, we ask that You would guide her steps and prepare her heart for the future You have planned. If it is Your will, bring a godly man into her life who will cherish and honor her as You do. Help her to trust in Your timing and to find her worth and identity in You alone. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, allowing His truth to speak life into your situation. Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." You are not alone, and God sees your pain. Lean on Him, and allow His love to restore you. If you feel led, seek out a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend who can walk alongside you during this time. You do not have to carry this burden alone.
We must also address the desire to forget your children. Children are a blessing from the Lord, as Psalm 127:3 tells us, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh, the fruit of the womb is his reward." They are innocent in this situation and need your love and guidance now more than ever. Turning away from them will only bring more pain to both you and them. We encourage you to seek God’s strength to love and care for them, even in the midst of your own pain.
As for your desire for a new man in your life, we want to encourage you to first seek healing and restoration in Christ. Proverbs 4:23 says, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." Rushing into a new relationship without addressing the wounds of the past can lead to more heartache. Instead, focus on drawing near to God, allowing Him to heal your heart and prepare you for the future He has for you. When the time is right, He will bring a godly man into your life—one who will honor you, cherish you, and love you as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25).
We also want to gently rebuke the desire for vengeance in your words. Romans 12:19 reminds us, "Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'" Trust that God sees all and will bring justice in His perfect timing. Your role is to release this burden to Him and walk in forgiveness and peace.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, we ask that You would pour out Your healing balm upon her wounds and soften her heart toward forgiveness. Help her to release the bitterness and anger that has taken root, and replace it with Your peace and love. Father, we pray for her children, that You would surround them with Your protection and give her the strength to love and care for them as You intended. Lord, we ask that You would guide her steps and prepare her heart for the future You have planned. If it is Your will, bring a godly man into her life who will cherish and honor her as You do. Help her to trust in Your timing and to find her worth and identity in You alone. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, allowing His truth to speak life into your situation. Psalm 34:18 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." You are not alone, and God sees your pain. Lean on Him, and allow His love to restore you. If you feel led, seek out a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend who can walk alongside you during this time. You do not have to carry this burden alone.
We're here with you, sister, holding your heart in ours. We understand the pain of feeling unseen, unloved, and the struggle to let go of bitterness. It's like carrying a heavy backpack, isn't it? But remember, Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-29, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Let's lay down that burden together, one step at a time.
We know it's hard to forgive, especially when it feels like the other person doesn't deserve it. But forgiveness isn't about them, it's about you. It's about setting yourself free from the chains that bind you. As it says in Isaiah 43:25, "I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more."
And your children, they need you, now more than ever. They're innocent in all this, and they deserve to be loved and cared for. It won't be easy, but with God's strength, you can do it. As it says in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
We're praying for you, sister. We're asking God to heal your heart, to fill you with His love and peace, and to give you the strength to forgive and to love your children. We're asking Him to guide your steps and to bring the right person into your life at the right time. We trust in His timing, and we know that He has a beautiful future planned for you.
You're not alone, and you don't have to carry this burden alone. We're here for you, and so is God. Lean on Him, and let His love restore you. If you feel led, reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend. They can walk alongside you during this time.
Let's keep praying, keep trusting, and keep moving forward, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We know it's hard to forgive, especially when it feels like the other person doesn't deserve it. But forgiveness isn't about them, it's about you. It's about setting yourself free from the chains that bind you. As it says in Isaiah 43:25, "I, even I, am he who blots out your transgressions, for my own sake, and remembers your sins no more."
And your children, they need you, now more than ever. They're innocent in all this, and they deserve to be loved and cared for. It won't be easy, but with God's strength, you can do it. As it says in Philippians 4:13, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
We're praying for you, sister. We're asking God to heal your heart, to fill you with His love and peace, and to give you the strength to forgive and to love your children. We're asking Him to guide your steps and to bring the right person into your life at the right time. We trust in His timing, and we know that He has a beautiful future planned for you.
You're not alone, and you don't have to carry this burden alone. We're here for you, and so is God. Lean on Him, and let His love restore you. If you feel led, reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or Christian friend. They can walk alongside you during this time.
Let's keep praying, keep trusting, and keep moving forward, one step at a time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
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