LOST FRIEND & STILL NOT RECOVERED

[Leah B.]

A while back I explained a situation with my friend and asked for prayer. To recap: I was very sick with a COPD flare-up, and the prednisone was hitting me hard. I suffered from insomnia, agitation and hyper-anxiety. My schedule was mega-stressful, non-stop doctor's appointments including getting a temporary crown and then going back the next day to get a new temporary crown because the one from the day before fell off. My house was a mess. I was so far behind due to illness. I had invited my father, my niece and my great niece and great nephew to dinner for our "Little Christmas" on the 17th and was afraid I would have to cancel. In the middle of all this, my friend -- probably now ex-friend -- kept calling me and asking me to visit her. She lives in my building. I did go a few times, one time spending 45 minutes wearing a face mask. I was so scared of germ exposure. Anyway, this all came down to her badgering me by phone and by text to come see her yet again. I politely declined. I explained why. She texted me, asking if we were "good." I told her how I felt. I was firm but kind. I ended by telling her I still loved her. She replied with a diatribe about what a terrible person I am, and she was insulting and dismissive of my lung condition. I told her I would never forgive her for making light of my COPD and so I hope she got a lot of satisfaction out of throwing a gut punch like that at me. I also told her, "Face it. You harassed a sick person into the ground." She countered with something lame. I responded, but I'm like 99% sure she blocked my texts. I pray in Jesus's name once again for God's will to be done here. I don't think I will ever really trust her even if we do make up. She could have apologized. She could have taken my initial very kind, very measured words to heart. Instead she became cruel and petty and vindictive. My heart is broken. Okay. In other news, I don't think I am fully recovered from the COPD flare. One minute I am fine, but I just got short of breath with a little chest tightness when lifting a heavy casserole dish out of the oven. It's so bizarre. I did 40 chair squats three times today with only my baseline shortness of breath at the end. Yesterday I was cleaning and cleaning, scrubbing the floor, lifting things, etc. I was fine. Anyway, please pray in Jesus's name yet again that I not only recover, but also actually improve from my baseline. [Not giving up. Using three different lung trainer devices on top of my regular routine.] Please pray a blessing over my "Little Christmas" with my family tomorrow. I am thankful to God I recovered enough to pull off this dinner. I missed my great niece and great nephew so much because I missed out on seeing them when I was really ill. You know what hurts? If my friend had responded differently to me, we could maybe have worked on the relationship. I took that macaroni and cheese out of the oven, and my first thought was to go over to her place and give her some. She would have loved it. Oh, well.

 

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We hear your heartache and understand the deep pain of a friendship that has fractured under the weight of misunderstanding and hurtful words. It is especially difficult when someone you care for responds to your kindness with cruelty, particularly when they dismiss the very real struggles you face with COPD. We stand with you in prayer, lifting this broken relationship before the Lord, asking for His healing and wisdom.

First, we want to acknowledge the grace you extended in your initial response—firm yet kind, honest yet loving. Scripture tells us in Romans 12:18, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* You did your part, and it is not your responsibility to carry the weight of her reaction. Her choice to respond with insults and dismissal reveals a hardness of heart that only God can soften. We pray that the Lord would convict her of her words and actions, not to shame her, but to lead her to repentance and restoration. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Her response was not a reflection of your worth or character, but of her own struggles, whether she realizes it or not.

Yet, we must also speak truth into the pain you feel. Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a choice, a command from God. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* This does not mean you must trust her again or even reconcile if she remains unrepentant. Trust is rebuilt over time through consistent, Christ-like behavior. But forgiveness frees *you* from the bitterness that can take root in your heart. We pray that God would give you the strength to release this hurt to Him, not for her sake alone, but for your own peace and healing.

We also lift up your physical health, asking the Lord to strengthen your lungs and restore you beyond your baseline. COPD is a daily battle, and it is understandable that you feel frustrated when your body responds unpredictably. Philippians 4:13 declares, *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."* We pray that God would fill you with His strength, not just to endure, but to thrive in the midst of this trial. Your commitment to using lung trainers and staying active is commendable, and we ask that the Lord would bless these efforts, making your lungs stronger and your breath more steady. May He give you wisdom in managing your symptoms and discernment in knowing your limits.

For your "Little Christmas" gathering, we rejoice with you that you were able to host your family despite the challenges. These moments of connection are precious, and we pray that the Lord would bless your time together with joy, laughter, and sweet memories. May He fill your home with His presence, turning this dinner into a time of refreshment and gratitude. We ask that He would deepen your relationships with your father, niece, and great-niece and nephew, knitting your hearts together in love.

Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain in her heart over this broken friendship, and You know the weight of her physical struggles. We ask that You would heal her lungs, restoring her breath and strength beyond what she has known before. Give her wisdom in managing her health and peace in the midst of uncertainty. Lord, we also ask that You would work in the heart of her friend. Soften her heart, convict her of her words, and lead her to repentance. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the grace to release it to You without bitterness.

Father, we pray for her "Little Christmas" gathering, that You would bless it abundantly. Fill her home with Your presence, joy, and love. May this time with her family be a source of healing and encouragement. Lord, we also ask that You would guard her heart against discouragement. Help her to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of her faith. Remind her that she is deeply loved, not just by those around her, but by You, the One who calls her by name. Strengthen her in every way—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—and let her see Your hand at work in her life.

We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation with your friend. It's never easy when a friendship fractures, especially when it happens due to misunderstandings and hurtful words. I can only imagine how much it hurts to have someone you care about respond to your kindness with cruelty, and dismiss your very real struggles with COPD.

I want you to know that you handled the situation with grace and maturity. You were firm but kind, honest but loving. You did your part, and it's not your responsibility to carry the weight of her reaction. Her choice to respond with insults and dismissal reveals a hardness of heart that only God can soften. I pray that God would convict her of her words and actions, leading her to repentance and restoration. But remember, forgiveness is a choice, a command from God. It doesn't mean you have to trust her again or even reconcile if she remains unrepentant. Trust is rebuilt over time through consistent, Christ-like behavior. But forgiveness frees you from the bitterness that can take root in your heart. I pray that God would give you the strength to release this hurt to Him, not just for her sake, but for your own peace and healing.

I'm also lifting up your physical health in prayer. COPD is a daily battle, and it's understandable that you feel frustrated when your body responds unpredictably. I pray that God would strengthen your lungs and restore you beyond your baseline. Your commitment to using lung trainers and staying active is commendable, and I ask that God would bless these efforts, making your lungs stronger and your breath more steady. May He give you wisdom in managing your symptoms and discernment in knowing your limits.

For your "Little Christmas" gathering, I rejoice with you that you were able to host your family despite the challenges. These moments of connection are precious, and I pray that God would bless your time together with joy, laughter, and sweet memories. May He fill your home with His presence, turning this dinner into a time of refreshment and gratitude. I ask that He would deepen your relationships with your father, niece, and great-niece and nephew, knitting your hearts together in love.

Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain in her heart over this broken friendship, and You know the weight of her physical struggles. We ask that You would heal her lungs, restoring her breath and strength beyond what she has known before. Give her wisdom in managing her health and peace in the midst of uncertainty. Lord, we also ask that You would work in the heart of her friend. Soften her heart, convict her of her words, and lead her to repentance. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the grace to release it to You without bitterness.

Father, we pray for her "Little Christmas" gathering, that You would bless it abundantly. Fill her home with Your presence, joy, and love. May this time with her family be a source of healing and encouragement. Lord, we also ask that You would guard her heart against discouragement. Help her to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of her faith. Remind her that she is deeply loved, not just by those around her, but by You, the One who calls her by name. Strengthen her in every way - physically, emotionally, and spiritually - and let her see Your hand at work in her life.

We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Amen.

 

[Leah B.]

We hear your heartache and understand the deep pain of a friendship that has fractured under the weight of misunderstanding and hurtful words. It is especially difficult when someone you care for responds to your kindness with cruelty, particularly when they dismiss the very real struggles you face with COPD. We stand with you in prayer, lifting this broken relationship before the Lord, asking for His healing and wisdom.

First, we want to acknowledge the grace you extended in your initial response—firm yet kind, honest yet loving. Scripture tells us in Romans 12:18, *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men."* You did your part, and it is not your responsibility to carry the weight of her reaction. Her choice to respond with insults and dismissal reveals a hardness of heart that only God can soften. We pray that the Lord would convict her of her words and actions, not to shame her, but to lead her to repentance and restoration. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Her response was not a reflection of your worth or character, but of her own struggles, whether she realizes it or not.

Yet, we must also speak truth into the pain you feel. Forgiveness is not a feeling; it is a choice, a command from God. In Matthew 6:14-15, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* This does not mean you must trust her again or even reconcile if she remains unrepentant. Trust is rebuilt over time through consistent, Christ-like behavior. But forgiveness frees *you* from the bitterness that can take root in your heart. We pray that God would give you the strength to release this hurt to Him, not for her sake alone, but for your own peace and healing.

We also lift up your physical health, asking the Lord to strengthen your lungs and restore you beyond your baseline. COPD is a daily battle, and it is understandable that you feel frustrated when your body responds unpredictably. Philippians 4:13 declares, *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."* We pray that God would fill you with His strength, not just to endure, but to thrive in the midst of this trial. Your commitment to using lung trainers and staying active is commendable, and we ask that the Lord would bless these efforts, making your lungs stronger and your breath more steady. May He give you wisdom in managing your symptoms and discernment in knowing your limits.

For your "Little Christmas" gathering, we rejoice with you that you were able to host your family despite the challenges. These moments of connection are precious, and we pray that the Lord would bless your time together with joy, laughter, and sweet memories. May He fill your home with His presence, turning this dinner into a time of refreshment and gratitude. We ask that He would deepen your relationships with your father, niece, and great-niece and nephew, knitting your hearts together in love.

Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain in her heart over this broken friendship, and You know the weight of her physical struggles. We ask that You would heal her lungs, restoring her breath and strength beyond what she has known before. Give her wisdom in managing her health and peace in the midst of uncertainty. Lord, we also ask that You would work in the heart of her friend. Soften her heart, convict her of her words, and lead her to repentance. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the grace to release it to You without bitterness.

Father, we pray for her "Little Christmas" gathering, that You would bless it abundantly. Fill her home with Your presence, joy, and love. May this time with her family be a source of healing and encouragement. Lord, we also ask that You would guard her heart against discouragement. Help her to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of her faith. Remind her that she is deeply loved, not just by those around her, but by You, the One who calls her by name. Strengthen her in every way—physically, emotionally, and spiritually—and let her see Your hand at work in her life.

We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Amen.

Thank you for your prayers and your support

 

[Leah B.]

I'm really sorry to hear about your situation with your friend. It's never easy when a friendship fractures, especially when it happens due to misunderstandings and hurtful words. I can only imagine how much it hurts to have someone you care about respond to your kindness with cruelty, and dismiss your very real struggles with COPD.

I want you to know that you handled the situation with grace and maturity. You were firm but kind, honest but loving. You did your part, and it's not your responsibility to carry the weight of her reaction. Her choice to respond with insults and dismissal reveals a hardness of heart that only God can soften. I pray that God would convict her of her words and actions, leading her to repentance and restoration. But remember, forgiveness is a choice, a command from God. It doesn't mean you have to trust her again or even reconcile if she remains unrepentant. Trust is rebuilt over time through consistent, Christ-like behavior. But forgiveness frees you from the bitterness that can take root in your heart. I pray that God would give you the strength to release this hurt to Him, not just for her sake, but for your own peace and healing.

I'm also lifting up your physical health in prayer. COPD is a daily battle, and it's understandable that you feel frustrated when your body responds unpredictably. I pray that God would strengthen your lungs and restore you beyond your baseline. Your commitment to using lung trainers and staying active is commendable, and I ask that God would bless these efforts, making your lungs stronger and your breath more steady. May He give you wisdom in managing your symptoms and discernment in knowing your limits.

For your "Little Christmas" gathering, I rejoice with you that you were able to host your family despite the challenges. These moments of connection are precious, and I pray that God would bless your time together with joy, laughter, and sweet memories. May He fill your home with His presence, turning this dinner into a time of refreshment and gratitude. I ask that He would deepen your relationships with your father, niece, and great-niece and nephew, knitting your hearts together in love.

Father God, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister in Christ. Lord, You see the pain in her heart over this broken friendship, and You know the weight of her physical struggles. We ask that You would heal her lungs, restoring her breath and strength beyond what she has known before. Give her wisdom in managing her health and peace in the midst of uncertainty. Lord, we also ask that You would work in the heart of her friend. Soften her heart, convict her of her words, and lead her to repentance. If it is Your will, restore this relationship, but if not, give our sister the grace to release it to You without bitterness.

Father, we pray for her "Little Christmas" gathering, that You would bless it abundantly. Fill her home with Your presence, joy, and love. May this time with her family be a source of healing and encouragement. Lord, we also ask that You would guard her heart against discouragement. Help her to fix her eyes on You, the Author and Perfecter of her faith. Remind her that she is deeply loved, not just by those around her, but by You, the One who calls her by name. Strengthen her in every way - physically, emotionally, and spiritually - and let her see Your hand at work in her life.

We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus, the One who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds. Amen.

Thank you for praying

 

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