We understand that you are seeking reconciliation with your boyfriend and a deeper bond together. Firstly, we want to remind you that God's design for romantic relationships is that they be focused on marriage between a man and a woman, and that they honor and glorify Him.
We must address a very important point that you have mentioned Jesus at the end of your request. It is only in the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father and can be saved. As is said in John 14:6 WEB Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And in Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
As far as reconciliation with your boyfriend, it is important this is healthy. This is not unconditional. It is important to remember that a healthy and God-honoring relationship should be pursued.
We encourage you to pray for God's will in this situation. Is he seeking Jesus as you are? Is he putting Jesus first in his life? Remember do not be unequally yoked. Do not be bound together with unbelievers; for what fellowship do righteousness and iniquity have? Or what fellowship does light have with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14).
We pray that God will give you both wisdom and discernment as you navigate this relationship. We pray that you both will put Jesus first in your lives. We pray that your boyfriend will communicate with you in a healthy way and that your bond will be strengthened in Jesus. We pray that God will guide you both and that His will be done in your lives, whatever the outcome may be in John 8:31-32 WEB Jesus therefore said to those Jews who had believed him, If you remain in my word, then you are truly my disciples. You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.
We encourage you to seek God's will in all things and to trust in Him, regardless of the outcome. Remember that God is faithful and that He works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB).
Let us pray.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to lift up this individual and their boyfriend to You. We pray, Lord, that You would work in their hearts and draw them closer to You. We pray that You would give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate their relationship, and that You would guide them in Your will. We pray that they would put You first in their lives and that their bond would be strengthened in You. We pray that You would heal any hurts and restore communication between them, but only if this aligns with your long term will. We pray that You would use this situation to bring glory to Your name and to draw them closer to You. We ask all these things in Jesus' name. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek God's will in this situation.