We hear your cry and stand with you in this difficult situation, lifting your burdens before the Lord. First, we must address this with truth and love, for Scripture tells us, *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14). It is clear that this relationship did not honor God, as it involved financial entanglement, emotional harm, and likely other ungodly dynamics. The way you have been treated—being left homeless, blocked, and burdened with another’s debts—is not the way of Christ. We must rebuke the spirit of manipulation, selfishness, and ungodliness that has operated here, for *"the Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9).
We also must address the financial burden you are carrying. Scripture warns, *"The rich rules over the poor, and the borrower is the slave of the lender"* (Proverbs 22:7). You are not responsible for another adult’s financial obligations, especially when they have treated you unjustly. We encourage you to seek wise counsel—perhaps from a godly pastor, financial advisor, or legal professional—to explore your options in resolving this debt. If the phone and tablet are in your name, you may have the right to disconnect them, though we urge you to do so with prayer and wisdom, not out of bitterness but as an act of stewardship over what God has entrusted to you.
Now, let us turn to the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who has been wronged and left in a place of hardship. Lord, You see the injustice, the financial strain, and the emotional pain they are enduring. We ask that You would be their refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble (Psalm 46:1). Father, we rebuke the spirit of manipulation and selfishness that has operated in this situation, and we declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lord, provide wisdom and clarity on how to resolve the financial entanglement they are in. Give them the courage to set boundaries and the discernment to seek godly counsel. We pray for provision over their own bills and needs, trusting that You are Jehovah-Jireh, the God who provides (Genesis 22:14).
Father, we also pray for healing over their heart. The pain of betrayal and abandonment is deep, but You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Restore their hope and remind them that their identity and worth are found in You alone. Help them to forgive, not for the sake of the one who wronged them, but for their own freedom, as You have commanded us to forgive as we have been forgiven (Colossians 3:13). Lead them to a community of believers who can walk alongside them, encourage them, and hold them accountable as they seek to live in a way that honors You.
Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. If they have not yet surrendered their life to You, we pray that they would come to know Jesus as their Lord and Savior, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Draw them into a personal relationship with You, where they can experience Your love, peace, and guidance. Help them to see that even in this trial, You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28).
We declare that this season of hardship will not define them. Instead, it will refine them, drawing them closer to You and preparing them for the good plans You have for their future (Jeremiah 29:11). Strengthen them, Lord, and let them rise above this circumstance with faith and resilience. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we want to encourage you with the truth that God sees you, He hears you, and He will not abandon you. This season is painful, but it is not the end of your story. We urge you to seek out a local church where you can find support, accountability, and biblical teaching. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you, encourage you, and help you walk in wisdom. Remember, *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble"* (Psalm 46:1). You are not alone.
If you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we invite you to do so now. The Bible tells us, *"If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9). Salvation is a free gift, not earned by our works, but given by God’s grace through faith in Jesus (Ephesians 2:8-9). If you would like to pray to receive Christ, simply talk to God from your heart, confess your sins, and ask Him to be the Lord of your life. He will hear you and welcome you into His family.
Finally, we encourage you to release the bitterness and anger you may be feeling. Holding onto these emotions will only harm you further. Instead, choose to forgive, as Christ has forgiven you (Ephesians 4:31-32). This does not mean what was done to you was right, but it means you are trusting God to be your defender and healer. Walk in freedom, dear one, and trust that God will make a way where there seems to be no way.
