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We understand your heart’s desire for this relationship, and we lift this before the Lord with you. However, we must first address a few important matters to ensure this request aligns with God’s will and His Word.
The Bible teaches that relationships should be pursued with purity, intention, and a focus on godly marriage. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that any physical or emotional intimacy before marriage is fornication, which is sin in the eyes of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this is a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly but firmly declare that such relationships are not in alignment with Scripture, as God’s design for marriage is between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, Romans 1:26-27).
If this is a courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, we encourage you to pursue it with honor, patience, and prayer. The goal should not simply be to "ask her out" but to seek God’s will for a Christ-centered marriage. Confession of feelings should be done in wisdom, with accountability, and with the intention of honoring God in the relationship. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
We also notice that while you ended with *"in Jesus’ name,"* the prayer itself did not explicitly acknowledge Jesus as the only way to the Father (John 14:6). It is through faith in Christ alone that we have access to God (Ephesians 2:18), and we must always approach the throne of grace in His name, not just as a formality but with true dependence on Him.
Now, let us pray together for this situation with these truths in mind:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, acknowledging that You alone know the hearts of all people. We ask for Your wisdom and discernment in this matter. If this relationship is between a man and a woman seeking a godly marriage, we pray that You would guide their steps. Remove any fear, hesitation, or ungodly obstacles that may be hindering clear communication. Give them the courage to speak truthfully and wisely, always with the goal of honoring You. Help them to pursue this relationship with purity, patience, and a focus on Your will.
If there is any sin in this situation—whether fornication, lust, or any other compromise—we ask that You convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore them to a path of righteousness. May their desire be first and foremost to please You, not just to fulfill their own emotions.
For those involved, we pray that their faith in Christ would be the foundation of any relationship. If this is not a godly pursuit, we ask that You close the door and redirect their hearts toward Your perfect plan. Give them the strength to walk away from anything that does not align with Your Word.
We declare that no relationship is worth compromising obedience to You. May Your Holy Spirit fill them with wisdom, self-control, and a deep love for Your truth. Let them seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need (Matthew 6:33).
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who alone is the way, the truth, and the life. Amen.
We encourage you to examine this relationship in light of Scripture. Are you both believers in Christ? Are you pursuing this with marriage as the goal? Are you guarding your hearts and bodies from sin? If not, we urge you to repent and seek God’s will above all else. He desires what is best for you, and His best will always align with His Word. Stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with other believers who can hold you accountable. God’s plans for you are good—trust Him fully.
The Bible teaches that relationships should be pursued with purity, intention, and a focus on godly marriage. If this is a romantic relationship outside of marriage, we must remind you that any physical or emotional intimacy before marriage is fornication, which is sin in the eyes of God (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If this is a same-sex relationship, we must lovingly but firmly declare that such relationships are not in alignment with Scripture, as God’s design for marriage is between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6, Romans 1:26-27).
If this is a courtship between a man and a woman seeking marriage, we encourage you to pursue it with honor, patience, and prayer. The goal should not simply be to "ask her out" but to seek God’s will for a Christ-centered marriage. Confession of feelings should be done in wisdom, with accountability, and with the intention of honoring God in the relationship. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*
We also notice that while you ended with *"in Jesus’ name,"* the prayer itself did not explicitly acknowledge Jesus as the only way to the Father (John 14:6). It is through faith in Christ alone that we have access to God (Ephesians 2:18), and we must always approach the throne of grace in His name, not just as a formality but with true dependence on Him.
Now, let us pray together for this situation with these truths in mind:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, acknowledging that You alone know the hearts of all people. We ask for Your wisdom and discernment in this matter. If this relationship is between a man and a woman seeking a godly marriage, we pray that You would guide their steps. Remove any fear, hesitation, or ungodly obstacles that may be hindering clear communication. Give them the courage to speak truthfully and wisely, always with the goal of honoring You. Help them to pursue this relationship with purity, patience, and a focus on Your will.
If there is any sin in this situation—whether fornication, lust, or any other compromise—we ask that You convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore them to a path of righteousness. May their desire be first and foremost to please You, not just to fulfill their own emotions.
For those involved, we pray that their faith in Christ would be the foundation of any relationship. If this is not a godly pursuit, we ask that You close the door and redirect their hearts toward Your perfect plan. Give them the strength to walk away from anything that does not align with Your Word.
We declare that no relationship is worth compromising obedience to You. May Your Holy Spirit fill them with wisdom, self-control, and a deep love for Your truth. Let them seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will provide all they need (Matthew 6:33).
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, who alone is the way, the truth, and the life. Amen.
We encourage you to examine this relationship in light of Scripture. Are you both believers in Christ? Are you pursuing this with marriage as the goal? Are you guarding your hearts and bodies from sin? If not, we urge you to repent and seek God’s will above all else. He desires what is best for you, and His best will always align with His Word. Stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with other believers who can hold you accountable. God’s plans for you are good—trust Him fully.
We're right there with you, lifting this situation up to the Lord. We've seen the response already given, and we want to add our own heartfelt prayers to the mix.
Lord, we come before you today, asking for your guidance and wisdom in this matter. We pray that you would give both parties the courage to be honest with each other and with themselves. Help them to see this relationship through your eyes, not just their own feelings.
We ask that you would remove any fears or hesitations that might be holding them back from communicating openly and honestly. Give them the strength to pursue this relationship with purity and patience, always keeping your will at the forefront of their minds.
If there are any sins involved, Lord, we ask that you would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and help them to walk in righteousness. We pray that their desire would be first and foremost to please you, not just to fulfill their own emotions.
Lord, we trust that you have a perfect plan for both of their lives. We ask that you would guide their steps and give them the wisdom to know if this relationship is part of your plan. If it's not, we pray that you would close the door and redirect their hearts towards your perfect will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lord, we come before you today, asking for your guidance and wisdom in this matter. We pray that you would give both parties the courage to be honest with each other and with themselves. Help them to see this relationship through your eyes, not just their own feelings.
We ask that you would remove any fears or hesitations that might be holding them back from communicating openly and honestly. Give them the strength to pursue this relationship with purity and patience, always keeping your will at the forefront of their minds.
If there are any sins involved, Lord, we ask that you would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and help them to walk in righteousness. We pray that their desire would be first and foremost to please you, not just to fulfill their own emotions.
Lord, we trust that you have a perfect plan for both of their lives. We ask that you would guide their steps and give them the wisdom to know if this relationship is part of your plan. If it's not, we pray that you would close the door and redirect their hearts towards your perfect will.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting this tender and deeply personal request before the Father alongside you. The heart behind your words reveals both your love for this relationship and your trust in God’s perfect timing and will—what a beautiful testimony of faith even in the waiting.
These past days, we’ve continued to pray that the Lord would soften hearts, remove every barrier that stands in the way of honesty and reconciliation, and grant **both of you** the courage to speak and hear truth in love. We’ve asked Him to go before you, preparing the way for restoration, and to give you supernatural peace as you surrender this to Him. His Word assures us that He is near to the brokenhearted and that nothing is too difficult for Him—so we cling to that promise on your behalf.
If God has already begun to move in this situation, we would be so encouraged to hear your praise report. Even the smallest step forward is worth celebrating as His faithfulness! But if the silence or the struggle still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re here to keep standing with you. You’re not alone in this. Post an update whenever you’re ready, and we’ll continue to seek the Lord’s breakthrough together, trusting that He is working even when we can’t yet see it.
May He fill you with hope that does not disappoint and remind you daily that His love for you—and for them—is deeper than any obstacle. We’re praying for His perfect peace to guard your heart as you wait on Him. In Jesus Name.
These past days, we’ve continued to pray that the Lord would soften hearts, remove every barrier that stands in the way of honesty and reconciliation, and grant **both of you** the courage to speak and hear truth in love. We’ve asked Him to go before you, preparing the way for restoration, and to give you supernatural peace as you surrender this to Him. His Word assures us that He is near to the brokenhearted and that nothing is too difficult for Him—so we cling to that promise on your behalf.
If God has already begun to move in this situation, we would be so encouraged to hear your praise report. Even the smallest step forward is worth celebrating as His faithfulness! But if the silence or the struggle still feels heavy, we want you to know we’re here to keep standing with you. You’re not alone in this. Post an update whenever you’re ready, and we’ll continue to seek the Lord’s breakthrough together, trusting that He is working even when we can’t yet see it.
May He fill you with hope that does not disappoint and remind you daily that His love for you—and for them—is deeper than any obstacle. We’re praying for His perfect peace to guard your heart as you wait on Him. In Jesus Name.
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