We come before the Lord with you in this heavy burden, lifting up your heart’s cry for deliverance from the oppressive spirit at work in your brother’s life—a spirit that bears the marks of Jezebel, narcissism, and manipulation. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but we stand firm in the truth that Jesus has already overcome the world (John 16:33). Your struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities and powers (Ephesians 6:12), and we will fight this battle on our knees in the name of Jesus Christ, who alone has authority over every evil force.
The spirit of Jezebel is one of control, intimidation, and pride—just as the biblical Jezebel sought to dominate and destroy God’s prophets (1 Kings 18-19). Your brother’s behavior reflects this same spirit: demanding approval for every decision, acting as an "emperor" over you and your mother, and using manipulation to wear you down. But take heart, for the Lord sees all things. He is not blind to your suffering or your brother’s schemes. The Bible warns us that "God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble" (James 4:6). Your brother’s pride and self-exaltation will not go unchecked by the Lord. We pray that God would humble him, expose his motives, and bring conviction to his heart. May the Holy Spirit pierce his conscience so deeply that he has no choice but to repent and apologize for the harm he has caused.
You have done well to stand firm against his financial greed, protecting your mother’s resources for her care. This is honorable in the sight of God, who commands us to care for our parents (1 Timothy 5:8). Your brother’s anger over your refusal is further evidence of his selfish motives. The love of money is a root of all kinds of evil (1 Timothy 6:10), and if his heart is set on your mother’s inheritance, we pray the Lord would frustrate his plans. May any hidden schemes be brought to light, and may the Lord protect what rightfully belongs to your mother—and to you, as her caretaker.
We also recognize the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy wants to suffocate the Holy Spirit in you through constant pressure, fear, and exhaustion. But we declare over you the words of Jesus: "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). You are not alone in this fight. The Holy Spirit within you is greater than any spirit of oppression (1 John 4:4). We pray that the Lord would fill you with His peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and that He would renew your strength like the eagle’s (Isaiah 40:31). May He give you wisdom to navigate each decision, discernment to recognize manipulation, and the courage to set godly boundaries.
As for your mother, we pray for her protection and comfort. Alzheimer’s and diabetes are heavy burdens, but the Lord is her healer and her refuge. May He grant her moments of clarity and peace, and may He use this trial to draw her closer to Him. We also pray that your care for her would be a testimony of Christ’s love, even in the midst of your brother’s opposition.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is under such heavy attack. Lord, You see the spirit of Jezebel at work in her brother’s life—the manipulation, the pride, the greed, and the refined terror he inflicts. We bind that spirit in the name of Jesus and command it to flee. No weapon formed against our sister shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You shall condemn.
Father, we ask that You would turn the tables in her favor. Expose the darkness in her brother’s heart and bring him to repentance. Soften his heart, Lord, and let him see the error of his ways. May he apologize sincerely for the pain he has caused, not out of manipulation, but out of genuine conviction by Your Holy Spirit. Break the power of narcissism and control over him, and let him encounter the humility of Christ.
Lord, we pray for supernatural protection over our sister’s mind, emotions, and spirit. The enemy wants to wear her down, but You are her strength. Fill her with Your peace and give her wisdom to know how to respond to her brother’s demands. Show her when to speak, when to remain silent, and when to set firm boundaries. Let her not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21).
We also pray for her mother’s well-being. Protect her health, Lord, and let her feel Your presence even in her confusion. Provide for all her needs, and let no harm come to her through her son’s greed. If there are financial resources being misused or stolen, Lord, expose it and stop it. You are the righteous Judge, and we trust You to act on behalf of the vulnerable.
Father, we ask that You would surround our sister with Your angels, encamping around her (Psalm 34:7). Let her feel Your nearness in this season. Renew her strength, restore her joy, and let her know that You are fighting for her. May this trial be a refining fire that draws her closer to You, and may she emerge victorious, with a testimony of Your faithfulness.
We declare that the spirit of fear has no place in her life. The Lord has not given her a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Let her walk in that power, Lord, and let her brother’s schemes backfire against him. Turn his evil intentions into good for her and for her mother, just as You turned the evil intended against Joseph for good (Genesis 50:20).
Finally, Lord, we pray that You would bring justice. You are a God who defends the oppressed and sets the captive free. Let our sister see Your hand move mightily in this situation. Give her favor in every decision regarding her mother’s care, and let her brother’s control be broken. We ask that You would vindicate her, Lord, and let her live in peace, free from his manipulation.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. We trust in Your timing and Your ways, even when we cannot see the outcome. Let Your will be done in this situation, and let Your name be glorified. In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
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Our sister, we want to encourage you to keep standing firm in the Lord. The battle is real, but so is His power. Do not let your brother’s behavior cause you to doubt God’s goodness or His plan for you. The Lord sees your faithfulness in caring for your mother, and He will reward you (Hebrews 6:10). Continue to seek His face daily, and do not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9).
We also urge you to seek godly counsel in this situation. If possible, involve a trusted pastor, elder, or Christian counselor who can help you navigate the legal and spiritual aspects of your mother’s care. There may be practical steps you can take to protect her finances and your own well-being. Do not hesitate to reach out for support—you do not have to carry this alone.
Lastly, guard your heart against bitterness. It is easy to become resentful in the face of such treatment, but the Lord calls us to forgive, even as He has forgiven us (Colossians 3:13). This does not mean tolerating abuse or failing to set boundaries, but it does mean releasing your brother to the Lord’s justice. Pray for him—not because he deserves it, but because Christ commands us to pray for our enemies (Matthew 5:44). Ask the Lord to soften his heart and bring him to repentance.
You are not forgotten, sister. The Lord is with you, and He will fight for you. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He will bring you through this storm. We are standing with you in prayer.
