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We understand how deeply loneliness can weigh on the heart, and we want you to know that you are seen and loved by our Heavenly Father, who promises to never leave you nor forsake you. The longing for companionship is a God-given desire, but we must seek it in a way that honors Him and aligns with His Word. Let us first remind you of the truth found in Scripture: *"The Lord God said, 'It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper suitable for him'"*(Genesis 2:18, WEB). This verse reveals God’s design for relationship—marriage between a man and a woman, rooted in His purpose and covenant.
However, we must also address something critical: your request does not mention seeking this companionship *in Jesus’ name* or with the intention of honoring God through a Christ-centered marriage. The Bible is clear that our petitions must be brought before the Father in the name of Jesus, for *"there is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB), and it is through Him alone that we approach God’s throne. Without this foundation, even our deepest longings can lead us astray if they are not surrendered to Christ. If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Salvation is the first step to walking in God’s will for every area of your life, including relationships.
We also want to gently but firmly remind you that the search for a spouse must be grounded in godliness. The world often encourages relationships built on fleeting emotions or self-gratification, but Scripture calls us to something higher: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A godly marriage begins with seeking a *spouse*—not just a "someone"—who is a believer in Christ, committed to walking in obedience to Him. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed toward marriage, not merely emotional or physical fulfillment. Any relationship outside of marriage—including premarital sex—is fornication, which the Bible clearly condemns (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this is something you’ve struggled with, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness and healing, trusting in His power to redeem and restore.
Lastly, we encourage you to use this season of waiting to draw nearer to the Lord. Loneliness can be an opportunity to deepen your relationship with Him, allowing Him to fill the voids in your heart. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). This doesn’t mean God will give you whatever you want, but as you align your desires with His will, He will shape your heart to long for what *He* longs for you. Serve in your church, invest in godly friendships, and grow in your faith. Trust that His timing is perfect, even when it feels delayed.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see their loneliness and hear the cry of their heart. Lord, we ask that You would first draw them closer to Yourself, filling them with the peace and joy that only You can provide. If they have not yet surrendered their life to Christ, we pray for the conviction of the Holy Spirit to lead them to repentance and salvation through faith in Jesus alone. Father, we ask that You would prepare them for the spouse You have ordained for them—a godly man or woman who loves You above all else and is committed to a covenant marriage that reflects Your glory. Guard their heart from impurity, distraction, or relationships that would lead them away from Your will. Give them patience to wait on Your timing and wisdom to recognize Your leading. Surround them with godly community that encourages and strengthens them in this season. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that they are unlovable or forgotten, and we declare that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image. May they find their identity and worth in You alone. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, dear one. God has not forgotten you. Seek Him first, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If you’d like further guidance or prayer, we are here to walk with you in this journey.
However, we must also address something critical: your request does not mention seeking this companionship *in Jesus’ name* or with the intention of honoring God through a Christ-centered marriage. The Bible is clear that our petitions must be brought before the Father in the name of Jesus, for *"there is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB), and it is through Him alone that we approach God’s throne. Without this foundation, even our deepest longings can lead us astray if they are not surrendered to Christ. If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Salvation is the first step to walking in God’s will for every area of your life, including relationships.
We also want to gently but firmly remind you that the search for a spouse must be grounded in godliness. The world often encourages relationships built on fleeting emotions or self-gratification, but Scripture calls us to something higher: *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). A godly marriage begins with seeking a *spouse*—not just a "someone"—who is a believer in Christ, committed to walking in obedience to Him. Courtship should be intentional, pure, and directed toward marriage, not merely emotional or physical fulfillment. Any relationship outside of marriage—including premarital sex—is fornication, which the Bible clearly condemns (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). If this is something you’ve struggled with, we urge you to repent and seek God’s forgiveness and healing, trusting in His power to redeem and restore.
Lastly, we encourage you to use this season of waiting to draw nearer to the Lord. Loneliness can be an opportunity to deepen your relationship with Him, allowing Him to fill the voids in your heart. *"Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart"* (Psalm 37:4, WEB). This doesn’t mean God will give you whatever you want, but as you align your desires with His will, He will shape your heart to long for what *He* longs for you. Serve in your church, invest in godly friendships, and grow in your faith. Trust that His timing is perfect, even when it feels delayed.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see their loneliness and hear the cry of their heart. Lord, we ask that You would first draw them closer to Yourself, filling them with the peace and joy that only You can provide. If they have not yet surrendered their life to Christ, we pray for the conviction of the Holy Spirit to lead them to repentance and salvation through faith in Jesus alone. Father, we ask that You would prepare them for the spouse You have ordained for them—a godly man or woman who loves You above all else and is committed to a covenant marriage that reflects Your glory. Guard their heart from impurity, distraction, or relationships that would lead them away from Your will. Give them patience to wait on Your timing and wisdom to recognize Your leading. Surround them with godly community that encourages and strengthens them in this season. We rebuke the enemy’s lies that they are unlovable or forgotten, and we declare that they are fearfully and wonderfully made in Your image. May they find their identity and worth in You alone. We ask all this in the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm in faith, dear one. God has not forgotten you. Seek Him first, and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If you’d like further guidance or prayer, we are here to walk with you in this journey.
We're here with you, feeling your loneliness. It's true, God designed us for relationship, and that longing is a part of His good design. But remember, God's timing is perfect, even when it feels delayed. Let's trust Him in this. We've been praying for you, asking God to fill your heart with peace and joy, to prepare you for the right person when the time is right. We're believing in faith that God will answer your prayer in His way and His time. Keep seeking Him, and let's walk together in this journey.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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