We come before the Lord with you in this moment of deep disappointment and the weighty task ahead, knowing that His wisdom far surpasses our own understanding. The rejection you’ve faced may feel like a crushing blow, but we are reminded that God’s ways are higher than ours, and He often uses what seems like closed doors to redirect our steps toward His perfect will. As you prepare to respond to this lawyer, let us first anchor ourselves in the truth of Scripture, for it is the Lord who grants wisdom, discernment, and the right words to speak in every situation.
The book of James tells us, *"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him"* (James 1:5, WEB). This is not a vague promise but a direct invitation from our Heavenly Father to seek His mind in all things. Additionally, Proverbs 15:23 declares, *"A man has joy in an apt answer; and a word in due season, how good it is!"* Your desire for a response full of wisdom and righteousness aligns with God’s heart, and we trust He will provide exactly what is needed. However, we must also consider whether pursuing this lawsuit is the path the Lord would have you take. Scripture calls us to seek peace and reconciliation where possible, and to trust in God’s justice rather than our own efforts. Romans 12:19 reminds us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*
Before drafting your reply, we encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this legal battle is something the Lord is leading you into or if He is calling you to release it into His hands. If you proceed, do so with a heart that seeks justice tempered by grace, not bitterness or retaliation. Your words should reflect the character of Christ—firm in truth but seasoned with salt, as Colossians 4:6 instructs: *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one."*
Let us also address the deeper wound here: the pain of being dismissed and the frustration of feeling unheard or invalidated. The enemy would love to use this moment to sow seeds of doubt, anger, or despair in your heart. But we stand on the truth of Psalm 34:18: *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* You are not forgotten or abandoned. The Lord sees your struggle, and He is your advocate, your defender, and your justice. Even if no human court validates your experience, God’s court is the highest authority, and He will vindicate His children in His perfect timing.
Now, let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift our brother/sister before Your throne of grace, asking that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit as they prepare to respond to this lawyer. Lord, You are the God of all wisdom, and we ask that You would place the right words in their mouth—words that are truthful, measured, and aligned with Your will. If this lawsuit is not the path You have for them, soften their heart to release it into Your hands. If it is Your will for them to proceed, grant them clarity, favor, and the endurance to walk this difficult road without bitterness or fear.
We rebuke any spirit of discouragement, rejection, or hopelessness that would try to take root in their heart. Instead, fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding and the assurance that You are fighting for them, even when the battle feels unseen. Remind them that their identity is not found in the opinions of others or the outcomes of this world’s systems, but in Christ alone. You, Lord, are their justification, their redemption, and their hope.
We also pray for the lawyer and all involved in this situation. Soften their hearts to see the truth and to act with integrity. If there is any opportunity for reconciliation or a godly resolution, let Your Spirit move mightily to bring it about. But above all, let Your will be done, not ours.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds in our brother’s/sister’s heart—wounds from the past that have led to this moment, and fresh wounds from this rejection. Restore their trust in You and renew their strength. Let them know, beyond any doubt, that You are their ever-present help in trouble, and that no weapon formed against them will prosper.
We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who intercedes for us even now at Your right hand. Amen.
As you move forward, we encourage you to spend time in Scripture, particularly in the Psalms, where David often cried out to God in the midst of injustice and betrayal. Let his prayers become yours, and let the Lord’s responses to him strengthen your faith. Also, consider seeking godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk alongside you in this process. You do not have to carry this burden alone—the body of Christ is here to support you.
If the Lord leads you to reply to the lawyer, we suggest the following principles for your letter:
1. **Be concise and factual**: Stick to the relevant details without emotional language.
2. **Speak with respect**: Even if you disagree, honor the position of the person you’re addressing.
3. **Clarify your position**: If you believe you have a valid case, explain why, but avoid sounding accusatory.
4. **Leave room for God’s sovereignty**: Acknowledge that you are seeking justice but trust in God’s ultimate plan.
For example, you might say:
*"Dear [Lawyer's Name], thank you for taking the time to review my case. While I understand the challenges presented by the lack of documentation, I believe there is merit to my experience and the harm that was done. I am seeking justice not out of malice, but because I believe it is the right and godly thing to do. I would appreciate any guidance you can offer on how to proceed, or if there are alternative avenues I might explore. Regardless of the outcome, I trust in God’s justice and His timing. Thank you for your consideration."*
Lastly, we urge you to guard your heart in this process. Bitterness and resentment can easily take root when we feel wronged, but Ephesians 4:31-32 commands us: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This does not mean you cannot seek justice, but it means you must do so with a heart that remains surrendered to Christ.
We are standing with you in prayer, believing that God will lead you every step of the way. Trust in Him, even when the path is unclear. His ways are perfect, and His love for you is unwavering.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
