Lady ### been feeling depressed about her ex

[Anonymous]

Lady been feeling depressed about her ex. She thinks her ex that's now a pastor has married a lady in ###. She has been feeling depressed and suicidal. They both lost 1 child. And she's is shocked how fast he moved on. He moved on even when she was still grieving for their baby. She had been crying this morning. He was a pastor but she doesn't want any one of faith to date if she were to move on and date.

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the profound pain and depression that this lady is experiencing. Firstly, we want to acknowledge the depth of her loss and the intensity of her emotions. The grief of losing a child is immense, and it is understandable that she is struggling, especially given the circumstances with her ex-husband. Grief and pain can feel like a deep pit, but we trust in God who is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. God does not want us to be destroyed by despair but He wants us to heal and have hope in Him.

However, we must address a few things that the lady has mentioned. It is important to remember that God does not want us to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. As it says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB
"Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"

If she is seeking to move on and date again, it is crucial that she seeks a godly spouse, someone who shares her faith and values. We understand that her past experiences may have left her hurt and disillusioned, but it is essential not to dismiss the importance of being equally yoked in faith. Additionally, it is important that she is willing to forgive her ex-husband. Forgiveness is a process and she may not be ready to do this immediately, but she needs to be in the process of forgiveness because unforgiveness is a sin and can block God's blessings in our lives.

Matthew 6:14-15 WEB
"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don't forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."

Moreover, we want to emphasize the importance of praying in the name of Jesus. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father and it is only through His name that we can be saved.
Acts 4:12 WEB
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"

Let us pray together for her:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this lady who is in deep pain and despair and we pray this all in the name of Jesus. Lord, You are close to the brokenhearted, and we ask that You comfort her in her grief. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, because You care for her. Lord, heal her heart, and help her to forgive as You have forgiven us. Guide her steps, and if it is Your will, lead her to a godly spouse who will love and cherish her as You do. Restore her hope and joy, and help her to trust in You with all her heart. We ask this all in the mighty name of your son Jesus.

We encourage her to seek godly counsel and support during this time, whether that be from a pastor, trusted friends, or a Christian counselor. It is important to be reminded of the truth of our hope in Jesus Christ. Scripture also teaches us that we are to cast all our cares upon God because He cares for us. We encourage her to pray and give all her burdens to God. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB
"casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."

Lastly, we encourage her to be in the Word daily. It is through the Word that God speaks to us and encourages us.

We take seriously the mention of suicidal thoughts. Suicide is never the answer and it is a sin. We urge her to seek help immediately from professionals or wise counsel in her church. We also encourage her to seek help from some trusted Christian sisters or brothers who can support her in this time.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about your heartache, dear sister. We're here for you, praying alongside you. We know the pain of losing a child is indescribable, and it's okay to feel overwhelmed. Remember, God is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). He sees your tears and He cares.

We want you to know that it's okay to feel angry, hurt, and even betrayed by your ex. It's a natural response to grief and pain. But we also want to remind you that holding onto unforgiveness can be like drinking poison, hoping the other person will die. It's not healthy for you, and it's not what God wants for you.

Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was okay, or that you have to trust your ex again. It means letting go of the bitterness and resentment, so you can heal and move forward. It's a process, and it's okay to take it one step at a time.

We also want to encourage you to seek support. Please reach out to a trusted pastor, counselor, or friend. You don't have to go through this alone. And if you're having suicidal thoughts, please reach out to a mental health professional immediately. You are precious, and your life matters to God and to us.

We're praying for you, sister. We're asking God to comfort you, to heal your broken heart, and to give you hope. We're asking Him to help you forgive, and to guide your steps as you move forward. We're believing in faith that God will restore the joy of your salvation (Psalm 51:12). You are loved, and you are not alone.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We feel truly honored that you shared your heart with us and allowed us to pray with you during this difficult time. We have been interceding for you, dear sister, and we want you to know that you are not alone. We are standing with you in prayer, lifting up your heart and mind to the Lord, and believing for His peace and comfort to surround you.

If you have seen any improvements in your emotional well-being or have felt the touch of God's healing hand, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar situations.

If, however, you are still feeling the weight of depression and the pain of your loss, we want you to know that we are still here for you. Please don't hesitate to post an update or a new request, allowing us to continue praying for you. We are fervently asking God to fill you with His strength, to help you fix your eyes on Jesus, and to guide you one step at a time.

Remember, sister, God sees your pain, He hears your cries, and He cares for you deeply. We are trusting God to work in your life, to heal your broken heart, and to reveal His purpose for you. We are also praying for your ex, his new life, and for the Lord to use your story for His glory.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him, and may you find comfort and hope in Jesus' Name. Amen.