Know The Difference Between Things Out Of Your Control And Things You Can Change

[Cowgirlboots]

We ALL need to learn the difference in things that are out of our control AND the things we can change! If you are an adult and you are being abused in anyway, CHANGE it!

You do not have to stay and put up with it.

If your family you are born into treat you badly change it. YOU CAN LEAVE!

If you own your own home and the neighborhood is terrible you kind of stick with it till you can sell and move BUT if you dont own it WHY would you hand around?

If your sister treats you like crap? Dont let her into your life, cut her out of your life.

If your spouse treats you like crap? LEAVE!

So often on this site I read someone is in a delima and the delima is that they are being mistreated by a parent or a sister or cousin. SIMPLE if you have tried an exhausted all avenues? CUT them out of your life.

That easy.

If you say I love them and can not bare to leave them... You are the problem. You are allowing them to hurt you so STOP that and leave them just like you would a neighbor or a friend that was once a friend but has turned on you. If you dont like my advice then stop whining you are being abused by a relative, old friend, neighbor. It may be difficult if you have come from a disfunctional family such as and older sis and younger sis but think about all the wasted life.

If they are not whom you would chose for a friend and they treat you badly CUT THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE. SOUND TOO HARSH? How does, year after year of enduring abuse sound to you? Stop wasting every effort to get along with them and find actual friends. They are enjoying every minte of hurting you and you have to stop whining and DO something with your life with people that do not hurt you.

 

[loveangel]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[sharonjoan]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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