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Father, in Your kindness, soften my matrimonial love (we committed to each other before You in the presence of many witnesses as You remember), me, and our families to repentance, the purpose which the kindness of God is intended, Rom 2:4. Steer her heart (and all our hearts) as You do kings' hearts like channels of water. Help her to come home and be willing to meet together with our pastors like we've promised, put everything on the table, James 5:15-16.

Do as You did for Lot in helping him to escape Sodom. You helped him out of indecision by literally seizing him by angels, Gen 19:16... Do as You did for the fisherman who You chose to lead the disciples -- he was proud and boasted, said he was better than all the others, and then denied you repeatedly --- but You didn't give up on him. You gave a similar experience to his first call to be a fisher of men, and then reinstated him three times with gracious humility and even expanded his tent to shepherding others, showing us how to evangelize in early Acts, and how to be a pastor in 1st and 2nd Peter… Thank You for not giving up on Peter…

You mercifully and powerfully confronted Saul on the way to Damascus to persecute your brethren, Acts 9:1-31. Later, after blinding him, letting him mess up, make tents and then giving him some private discipleship — “while they were worshipping the Lord and fasting, The Holy Spirit set Barnabas and him apart for the work to which I called them,” Acts 13:2-3. You made him the Paul we all know and love -- a light to all the people groups... A name change signifies a change in calling and identity -- Thank You for not giving up on Paul…

Don’t give up on the one I love and am so ready and willing to forgive... I truly believe You are MORE willing than I… Grant me strength, endurance, patience, understanding and the right words at the right times, like apples of gold in settings of silver, Ps 12:11, and may it always be from a right heart, mind and motive: Love from a purified heart, a sincere faith and a good conscience, 1 Tim 1:15.

It was while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting -- please help me hunger and thirst for righteousness in these situation, and help others share this burden with me for her, me, our child, the entire situation and all that’s transpired, good, bad and ugly, to be turned for glory, praise and honor, Isa 58:6-14.

The early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to our prayers." Let that be shown to be true not only yesterday, but today and forever. Please work powerfully within me, humbling my soul with fasting, sanctifying residual pockets of darkness with light, helping the word become flesh, as John says, to love The LORD and my neighbor with ALL my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, physical strength and finances -- my thoughts, words, deeds, actions and especially my reactions -- let the word be engrafted, James 1:22-23.

Loose angels to assist her return before group this week, Gen 19:16, Heb 1:14... Place and use the love of Jesus in me to publicly demonstrate true love of the gospel, Gal 3:1. Let me model it and teach it to myself, her, every family member, those near and dear and those far off and beyond to extended family, friends especially any who might consider me an enemy -- let me be a living ambassador Your love to be known and read by all people groups, everywhere, 2 Cor 3:2, “What to say and how to say it,” John 12:49.

Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one, John 17:15. Sanctify us by the truth; Your word is truth, John 17:17. Let the Word of Christ be engrafted, James 1:22-23, that we may be effective doers. Keep her, them and us from evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, temptation, Matt 6:13, sin Zeph 3:13 and the evil one, Matt 6:13. Thank you for the angels in advance -- they're real and really do get sent ahead, Heb 13, and thank You in advance for the fact "You like to make their faces change," in Jesus' Name.

"I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me has commanded me what to say and how to say it," John 12:49 [1]. May I speak truth the right way (in love, humility and kindness) at the right time (when one isn't tired or in the right place to receive it), Prov 25:11, Thank You and you all in Jesus' Name.

 

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We come before the Lord with a heavy yet hopeful heart, lifting up this marriage that was committed before Him in the presence of witnesses. Father, Your Word tells us that the kindness of God leads to repentance (Romans 2:4), and we pray that same kindness would soften hearts—beginning with this husband, his wife, and their families. Lord, You steer the hearts of kings like channels of water (Proverbs 21:1), and we ask You to direct their hearts toward reconciliation, humility, and a willingness to lay everything bare before You and their pastors, as James 5:16 exhorts us to confess our sins to one another and pray for one another.

We stand on the promise that You do not abandon Your people. Just as You seized Lot by the hand to deliver him from Sodom (Genesis 19:16), we ask You to intervene in this situation with divine urgency. Send Your angels, who are ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation (Hebrews 1:14), to guard, guide, and compel this wife to return home. Let her heart be stirred to honor the commitment made before You, to seek counsel, and to walk in repentance where needed.

We are reminded of Peter, who denied You three times yet was restored three times, and of Paul, who persecuted Your church yet became its greatest missionary. Neither man was beyond Your grace, and neither is this marriage. Father, we ask that You would work powerfully in both spouses, convicting of sin through the Holy Spirit (John 16:8), and drawing them back to Your truth. Give this husband wisdom to speak words like apples of gold in settings of silver (Proverbs 25:11)—words seasoned with grace, love, and patience. Let his actions and reactions reflect Christ, not fleshly frustration or bitterness.

Lord, as the early church ministered to You in fasting and prayer (Acts 13:2), we join in that same posture. We fast and pray, not as a ritual, but as an act of humility, declaring our dependence on You. Sanctify this husband through the truth of Your Word (John 17:17), and let the engrafted Word bear fruit in his life (James 1:22). Help him to love his wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), to forgive as he has been forgiven (Colossians 3:13), and to walk in the fullness of the Spirit (Galatians 5:16).

We rebuke any spirit of division, hardness of heart, or unforgiveness that may be at work in this marriage. We declare that no weapon formed against this union shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). We pray for their child, that this little one would be shielded from harm and surrounded by Your peace. Let this family be a testimony of Your redeeming love, a light to extended family and friends, and a living epistle of Your grace (2 Corinthians 3:2).

Father, keep them from the evil one (John 17:15) and deliver them from temptation (Matthew 6:13). Let Your Word be a lamp to their feet and a light to their path (Psalm 119:105). We thank You in advance for the angels You have dispatched, for the hearts You are softening, and for the restoration You are bringing. May this marriage reflect Your glory, and may all who see it give praise to Your holy name.

We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we have access to the Father (John 14:6), the only name by which we are saved (Acts 4:12). It is through His blood that we have redemption and the forgiveness of sins (Ephesians 1:7), and it is by His power that this marriage will be healed. Amen.

 

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Father, we join our hearts together in prayer for this marriage, asking that Your kindness would soften both hearts, drawing them back to the love they once shared. We pray that You would give this husband wisdom and patience, as he navigates this challenging time. Help him to speak words of love and understanding, seasoned with grace, as he reaches out to his wife. Let his actions and reactions reflect the love of Christ, not the bitterness of the world.

We also pray for this wife, that You would send Your angels to guide her and stir her heart towards repentance and reconciliation. May she find the courage to return home and face the issues at hand, with a willingness to seek counsel and make things right.

Father, we ask that You would work powerfully in both hearts, convicting of sin and drawing them back to Your truth. Help them to forgive as they have been forgiven, and to walk in the fullness of the Spirit. Let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming love, a light to their families and friends, and a living epistle of Your grace.

We thank You in advance for the restoration You are bringing to this marriage, and we trust that You will continue to work in their lives, for Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Yiamen]

amen ### restore what needs to be restored in the people and the situation via the power of your Holy Spirit in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

[Yaothor]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

Father, in Your kindness, soften my matrimonial love (we committed to each other before You in the presence of many witnesses as You remember), me, and our families to repentance, the purpose which the kindness of God is intended, Rom 2:4. Steer her heart (and all our hearts) as You do kings' hearts like channels of water. Help her to come home and be willing to meet together with our pastors like we've promised, put everything on the table, James 5:15-16.

Do as You did for Lot in helping him to escape Sodom. You helped him out of indecision by literally seizing him by angels, Gen 19:16... Do as You did for the fisherman who You chose to lead the disciples -- he was proud and boasted, said he was better than all the others, and then denied you repeatedly --- but You didn't give up on him. You gave a similar experience to his first call to be a fisher of men, and then reinstated him three times with gracious humility and even expanded his tent to shepherding others, showing us how to evangelize in early Acts, and how to be a pastor in 1st and 2nd Peter… Thank You for not giving up on Peter…

You mercifully and powerfully confronted Saul on the way to Damascus to persecute your brethren, Acts 9:1-31. Later, after blinding him, letting him mess up, make tents and then giving him some private discipleship — “while they were worshipping the Lord and fasting, The Holy Spirit set Barnabas and him apart for the work to which I called them,” Acts 13:2-3. You made him the Paul we all know and love -- a light to all the people groups... A name change signifies a change in calling and identity -- Thank You for not giving up on Paul…

Don’t give up on the one I love and am so ready and willing to forgive... I truly believe You are MORE willing than I… Grant me strength, endurance, patience, understanding and the right words at the right times, like apples of gold in settings of silver, Ps 12:11, and may it always be from a right heart, mind and motive: Love from a purified heart, a sincere faith and a good conscience, 1 Tim 1:15.

It was while they were ministering to the Lord and fasting -- please help me hunger and thirst for righteousness in these situation, and help others share this burden with me for her, me, our child, the entire situation and all that’s transpired, good, bad and ugly, to be turned for glory, praise and honor, Isa 58:6-14.

The early church said, "fasting and giving lends wings to our prayers." Let that be shown to be true not only yesterday, but today and forever. Please work powerfully within me, humbling my soul with fasting, sanctifying residual pockets of darkness with light, helping the word become flesh, as John says, to love The LORD and my neighbor with ALL my heart, soul, mind, will, emotions, physical strength and finances -- my thoughts, words, deeds, actions and especially my reactions -- let the word be engrafted, James 1:22-23.

Loose angels to assist her return before group this week, Gen 19:16, Heb 1:14... Place and use the love of Jesus in me to publicly demonstrate true love of the gospel, Gal 3:1. Let me model it and teach it to myself, her, every family member, those near and dear and those far off and beyond to extended family, friends especially any who might consider me an enemy -- let me be a living ambassador Your love to be known and read by all people groups, everywhere, 2 Cor 3:2, “What to say and how to say it,” John 12:49.

Do not take us out of the world, but keep us from the evil one, John 17:15. Sanctify us by the truth; Your word is truth, John 17:17. Let the Word of Christ be engrafted, James 1:22-23, that we may be effective doers. Keep her, them and us from evil people, 2 Thes 3:2, temptation, Matt 6:13, sin Zeph 3:13 and the evil one, Matt 6:13. Thank you for the angels in advance -- they're real and really do get sent ahead, Heb 13, and thank You in advance for the fact "You like to make their faces change," in Jesus' Name.

"I don’t speak on My own authority. The Father who sent Me has commanded me what to say and how to say it," John 12:49 [1]. May I speak truth the right way (in love, humility and kindness) at the right time (when one isn't tired or in the right place to receive it), Prov 25:11, Thank You and you all in Jesus' Name.

Read Romans 2:4