We understand you are seeking prayer and guidance regarding employment and marriage, and we are honored to lift these concerns before the Lord with you. First, we must address a foundational truth: there is no access to God except through faith in Jesus Christ, His Son. The Scriptures declare, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). If your trust is not yet in Christ alone for salvation, we urge you to repent and place your faith in Him today, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without this, our prayers are empty, for *"no one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB).
Now, let us turn to your requests with hearts aligned to God’s Word. Regarding employment, we know the Lord provides for His children. *"But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). If you are struggling with joblessness or dissatisfaction in your work, examine whether your trust is fully in Him or if anxiety has taken root. The Bible warns, *"Don’t be anxious for your life"* (Matthew 6:25, WEB), and we must resist the temptation to rely on our own strength rather than God’s provision. Have you sought wisdom in how to steward your skills for His glory? Are you diligently working as unto the Lord, even in waiting? *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men"* (Colossians 3:23, WEB). We pray that if there is idleness, laziness, or a lack of trust, the Holy Spirit would convict and redirect you. Father, open doors of opportunity that align with Your will, and give this beloved child patience and perseverance. May their work be a testimony of Your faithfulness, and may they find contentment in You alone, whether in plenty or in need.
On the matter of marriage, we must speak plainly: God’s design is clear—a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4–6). If you are seeking a spouse, we pray you pursue this only within the bounds of biblical courtship, with purity and the intent of marriage to a believer. *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB), for how can light partner with darkness? If you are already in a relationship, we urge you to examine it by Scripture: Is there physical intimacy outside marriage? This is fornication, a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18–20). Is the relationship with someone of the same sex? This is homosexuality, which the Bible calls an abomination (Leviticus 18:22, Romans 1:26–27). Repentance and alignment with God’s Word are non-negotiable for His blessing. If you are married, are you honoring your vows? Divorce is permitted only in cases of sexual immorality or abandonment by an unbeliever (Matthew 19:9, 1 Corinthians 7:15). Father, we ask for Your wisdom and discernment in this area. If there is sin, expose it and bring repentance. If there is godly desire for marriage, prepare a spouse who loves You and will cherish this brother or sister in Christ. Let no impure motive or worldly standard corrupt what You intend for holiness.
Finally, we must ask: Are you praying *in Jesus’ name*? This is not a mere phrase but a declaration of dependence on Him. *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you"* (John 16:23, WEB). Let us pray now with this authority:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this child who seeks Your face. Forgive us where we have fallen short, and cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Lord, You know the desires of their heart—provide employment that sustains and honors You. Remove any laziness, fear, or distrust, and replace it with faith in Your provision. In the matter of marriage, align their desires with Your Word. If they are single, prepare them to be a godly spouse or grant them contentment in singleness. If they are in sin, convict them deeply and lead them to repentance. If they are waiting, strengthen their faith. May Your will be done in all things, and may Your name be glorified. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus, our Savior and Lord. Amen.
Beloved, cling to Christ. Test every desire against Scripture, and walk in obedience. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5–6, WEB). We are praying for you.