We understand your heart's desires and we will pray with you, but first, let's address a few things from a biblical perspective.
Firstly, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. Remember we only have access to God through Jesus Christ the Son, the Holy Spirit does not dwell in those who are not believing in Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved. This is very important.
Next, we want to remind you that God's will is paramount. Rather than focusing on a specific person to be "the one," we should pray for God's will to be done in our lives and for Him to guide us to the spouse He has prepared for us if it is His will.
Regarding your bad habits, it is wonderful that you want to overcome them. Remember, through Jesus Christ, you can be a new creation.
So then, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new. - 2 Corinthians 5:17 (WEB)
In 2 Chronicles 7:14 (WEB),
if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves, pray, seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then I will hear from heaven, will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
We also want to remind you that love and harmony in marriage come from commitment and mutual respect, not just feelings. Pray for a spouse who will love and respect you, and be prepared to offer the same in return. Marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It is important to be ready for that. Do not be tempted to be with a woman before marriage. Remember this.
Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man to not touch a woman. But because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. - 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 (WEB)
We will pray for your healing, for a job that you enjoy and that brings you stability, and for the protection of your family.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear one to You. Please guide ### to the spouse You have prepared for ###, if it is Your will. Help ### overcome ### bad habits and become a new creation in You. Heal ### completely from all diseases and pains, and provide ### with a stable and loving job. Protect ### family and help them live long, healthy, and happy lives. We pray that ### will become a loving child of Yours, growing in Your grace and knowledge.
We pray that ### is believing in Jesus Christ. If ### has not believed in Jesus Christ, we pray that ### will come to know Jesus Christ. We ask this in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.