We hear the deep pain and desperation in your heart, and we are grieved by the struggles you are facing—yet we rejoice that you have turned to Jesus Christ in this moment, for He alone is your hope and deliverer. You have called upon the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved, and that is a powerful first step. The Scriptures remind us in **Acts 4:12**, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* And in **John 14:6**, Jesus declares, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* It is only through Him that we find true freedom, restoration, and purpose. Let us walk together through what you’ve shared, for God’s Word has answers, comfort, and a path forward for you.
First, let us address the alcoholism that has taken hold of your life. The Bible is clear that drunkenness is a sin that destroys not only the one enslaved by it but also those around them. **Ephesians 5:18** commands, *"Don’t be drunken with wine, in which is dissipation, but be filled with the Spirit."* And **Proverbs 20:1** warns, *"Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise."* Alcohol has become an idol in your life—a false comforter that only leads to ruin. But take heart, for Jesus came to set captives free! **1 Corinthians 6:9-11** tells us that some of us *were* drunkards, but we have been washed, sanctified, and justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God. You are not defined by your struggle; you are defined by Christ’s power to redeem you. This is not a battle you must fight alone. The Lord is with you, and He will strengthen you as you turn away from this sin and lean on Him. We strongly urge you to seek help—whether through a biblical recovery program, a trusted pastor, or a Christian counselor who can walk with you in accountability. Confess this struggle to your wife and ask for her support, for **James 5:16** tells us to *"confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."*
Your fear of losing your job—and the cycle of job loss you’ve experienced—is also a heavy burden. It’s clear that this has shaken your confidence and left you feeling hopeless. But the Bible tells us in **Philippians 4:13**, *"I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me."* And in **Proverbs 16:3**, we’re instructed to *"commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed."* Have you committed your work to the Lord? Are you seeking His will in how you labor, or have you been relying on your own strength? It’s possible that the instability in your employment is tied to the instability in other areas of your life, including the alcoholism. When we are not walking in obedience, it affects every part of our lives. But this can change! Seek the Lord first in all things, including your work. **Colossians 3:23-24** reminds us, *"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord, and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."* Do not quit your job unless the Lord clearly leads you to do so. Instead, ask Him to restore your work ethic, your witness, and your provision. Trust that He is able to sustain you, even in difficult circumstances. If you do face job loss, remember that God is your provider. **Matthew 6:31-33** assures us, *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."*
Your physical pain and the fear of surgery are also very real struggles. We know that living with chronic pain can be exhausting, and the fear of the unknown can be paralyzing. But the Lord is your healer. **Psalm 147:3** tells us, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* And **James 5:14-15** instructs, *"Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will heal him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up."* Have you sought prayer for healing? Have you asked the Lord to guide your doctors and to give you wisdom about your health? He cares deeply about your body, which is His temple (**1 Corinthians 6:19-20**). Trust Him with your pain, and do not let fear dictate your decisions. If surgery is needed, ask the Lord to guide the hands of the surgeons and to provide for the financial needs that come with it. He is able!
Your fear of losing your home is understandable, but we must remind you that even if the worst were to happen, the Lord is your refuge. **Psalm 91:1-2** declares, *"He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of Yahweh, ‘He is my refuge and my fortress; my God, in whom I trust.’"* God has not forgotten you or your family. He sees your needs, and He will provide. It may not look the way you expect, but He will never leave you nor forsake you (**Hebrews 13:5**). Instead of fixating on the "what ifs," focus on seeking the Lord’s kingdom first. He may open doors for you to find more affordable housing, or He may provide through your church or community. Do not let fear steal your faith. **2 Timothy 1:7** reminds us, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."*
We also want to address the weariness in your soul. You said, *"I’m ready, tired, and I don’t want to be like this anymore."* That is the cry of a heart that is ready for change, and that is a beautiful thing! The Lord hears you, and He is calling you to surrender *everything* to Him—not just your struggles, but your entire life. **Matthew 11:28** says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest."* Jesus is inviting you to lay down the weight of your sin, your fear, your pain, and your self-reliance. He is offering you rest—true, lasting rest—for your soul. But that rest comes when you turn away from sin and turn fully to Him. **Romans 12:1-2** urges us, *"Therefore I urge you, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service. Don’t be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."* This is your moment to be transformed. Will you surrender?
You mentioned your love for your wife and children, and that is a precious thing. But love is not just a feeling—it is an action. **1 John 3:18** tells us, *"Little children, let’s not love in word only, or with the tongue only, but in deed and truth."* Your family needs you to lead them spiritually, to love them sacrificially, and to walk in obedience to Christ. Alcoholism and fear are robbing you of the ability to be the husband and father God has called you to be. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. **Joshua 24:15** challenges us, *"If it seems evil to you to serve Yahweh, choose today whom you will serve... but as for me and my house, we will serve Yahweh."* Will you choose today to serve the Lord with your whole heart, for the sake of your family and your own soul? Your wife and children need to see you walking in faith, not in fear. They need to see you trusting God, not drowning in alcohol. They need to see you repenting and pursuing holiness. That is the greatest gift you can give them.
Now, let us pray for you, our brother:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is weary, broken, and crying out for help. Lord, You see the depths of his pain—the addiction that has enslaved him, the fear that has paralyzed him, the physical suffering that has worn him down, and the shame that has weighed him down. But Father, we declare that You are greater than all of these things! We ask You to break the chains of alcoholism in his life. Fill him with Your Holy Spirit and replace his desire for drink with a hunger for Your Word and Your presence. Lord, he cannot do this in his own strength, but You are his strength! We pray for supernatural deliverance and for the courage to seek help and accountability.
Father, we ask You to restore his work. Give him wisdom in his job, favor with his employers, and a renewed sense of purpose in how he labors for You. If there are areas where he has fallen short, convict him and lead him to repentance. Provide for his family, Lord. You are Jehovah Jireh, the God who provides. We pray that You would open doors for financial stability, whether through his current job or a new opportunity. Calm his fears about losing his home, and help him to trust You as his ultimate refuge.
Lord, we ask for healing for his body. Touch his back and his legs, and give him relief from pain. Guide his doctors and give him wisdom about any medical decisions. If surgery is needed, let it be successful, and provide the means for it. We pray for complete restoration, Father, in body, mind, and spirit.
We lift up his marriage and his children. Lord, heal any brokenness in his family that has come from his struggles. Give his wife strength and grace as she supports him. Help him to lead his family in Your ways, to love them as Christ loves the church, and to be a godly example to his children. Unite their hearts in You, Lord.
Most of all, Father, we pray that he would surrender fully to You. Break his heart for what breaks Yours, and fill him with Your peace. Let him know, deep in his soul, that he is not a bad person—he is Your beloved child, redeemed by the blood of Jesus. Remove the shame, Lord, and replace it with the joy of Your salvation. Renew his mind and transform his life, that he may walk in the freedom You have purchased for him.
We rebuked the spirit of fear, addiction, and hopelessness in the name of Jesus Christ. We declare that this man is a new creation in Christ, and old things are passing away—all things are becoming new (**2 Corinthians 5:17**). Give him the faith to believe this, Lord, and the courage to walk in it.
Thank You, Father, for hearing our prayers. Thank You for Your mercy and Your power to save. We trust You with this brother’s life, and we ask that You would glorify Yourself through his story. In the mighty and precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Finally, our brother, we urge you to take action. Repent of the sin of alcoholism and turn to Jesus for freedom. Seek help—whether through a Christian recovery program, your pastor, or a trusted believer who can walk with you. Confess your struggles to your wife and ask for her support. Commit your work to the Lord and trust Him with your provision. Spend time in His Word daily, and let it renew your mind. And above all, keep praying. **1 Thessalonians 5:17** tells us to *"pray without ceasing."* The Lord is near to the brokenhearted (**Psalm 34:18**), and He will lift you up as you humble yourself before Him (**1 Peter 5:6**).
You are not alone in this. The body of Christ is here to stand with you, and the Lord Himself is fighting for you. Do not give up. Do not lose hope. The same power that raised Christ from the dead lives in you (**Romans 8:11**), and He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that you ask or think (**Ephesians 3:20**). Keep your eyes on Jesus, and walk forward in faith. He is making all things new—including you.
