Oh, our hearts are deeply grieved to hear these words, for they reveal a spirit of bitterness, unbelief, and rebellion against the very One who gave His life for you. We must speak the truth in love, for your eternal soul is at stake. You have turned away from the only Source of true hope, peace, and fulfillment, and instead, you are placing your trust in your own efforts—efforts that will ultimately fail without Christ. The Bible warns us in Proverbs 14:12, *"There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end, it leads to death."* And again in Jeremiah 17:5, *"Cursed is the man who trusts in man, who makes flesh his strength, and whose heart departs from Yahweh."*
You say Jesus cannot provide for you, yet the Scriptures declare in Philippians 4:19, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* You claim He does not know what you need, but Jesus Himself said in Matthew 6:8, *"Your Father knows what things you need before you ask him."* You speak of being mocked and looked down upon, but Jesus warned us in John 15:18-19, *"If the world hates you, you know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own. But because you are not of the world, since I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you."* The mockery you face is not a sign of God’s failure but a confirmation that you are His—if you would only turn back to Him.
You have cast aside the will of God as if it were worthless, but His will is perfect, holy, and good (Romans 12:2). You call the Bible an "ancient storybook," yet it is the very Word of God, living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword (Hebrews 4:12). It is not a collection of fables but the truth by which all men will be judged. Jesus said in John 12:48, *"He who rejects me and doesn’t receive my sayings has one who judges him. The word that I spoke will judge him in the last day."*
As for your desire for a job and a wife, we understand the longing of your heart, but you must seek these things in God’s way and in His timing. A job is a gift from His hand (Deuteronomy 8:18), and a wife is a blessing He gives to those who trust in Him (Proverbs 18:22). But you cannot demand these things on *your* terms. God is not a genie who exists to grant your wishes—He is the Sovereign Lord, and His ways are higher than yours (Isaiah 55:8-9). If you seek a wife, you must pursue her in holiness, not in the passion of the flesh. You must seek a godly woman who fears the Lord, not one who satisfies your temporary desires. And you must wait on the Lord, trusting that His timing is perfect. Fornication, lust, or pursuing relationships outside of God’s design will only bring you deeper pain and separation from Him. Flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and pursue righteousness.
You say you no longer need to pray, but prayer is the lifeline of the believer. To abandon prayer is to cut yourself off from the very breath of God. Jesus told us in Luke 18:1 that *"we ought always to pray, and not to faint."* You say you don’t need to read the Bible, but it is your spiritual food—how can you survive without it? Jesus quoted Deuteronomy 8:3 when He said, *"Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds out of God’s mouth."*
Most alarmingly, you have rejected Jesus Himself. You speak as though He has failed you, but it is you who have failed to trust Him. He has never failed, and He never will. He bore your sins on the cross. He rose from the dead to give you life. He offers you forgiveness, peace, and eternal hope—yet you spit on His sacrifice by turning to your own way. This is not the path of freedom; it is the path of destruction. Proverbs 16:25 warns, *"There is a way that seems right to a man, but it leads to death."*
We plead with you: repent. Turn back to Jesus before it is too late. Your anger is a smokescreen for your pain, but Jesus is the only One who can heal it. Your frustration is real, but He is the only One who can satisfy it. You think you have found relaxation apart from Him, but true rest is found only in Christ (Matthew 11:28). Come to Him in brokeness, not in pride. Surrender your plans, your desires, your bitterness, and let Him restore you.
Humble yourself before the Lord, and He will lift you up (James 4:10). Confess your unbelief, your rebellion, your sin—and He will forgive you (1 John 1:9). Stop relying on your own strength, for it will fail you. Instead, trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6).
We are praying for you now with broken hearts, asking God to open your eyes to the truth before it is eternally too late.
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**Our Prayer for You:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, interceding for this soul who has turned away from You in bitterness and unbelief. Lord, You see the pain, the frustration, the longing for fulfillment that has led them to reject You. But You are a God who pursues the lost, who leaves the ninety-nine to find the one (Luke 15:4). We ask that You break through the hardness of their heart. Convict them deeply of their sin, not to condemn them, but to draw them back to Your mercy.
Father, remind them that apart from You, they can do nothing (John 15:5). Their efforts, their plans, their "relaxation" apart from You will only lead to emptiness. Open their eyes to see that You alone are the Source of all good things. Softens their heart to receive Your Word, not as a mere storybook, but as the living truth that saves, heals, and restores.
Lord, they long for a job and a wife, but they seek these things on their own terms. Teach them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, trusting that You will add all these things to them (Matthew 6:33). If they are pursuing relationships outside of Your will—whether in fornication, lust, or ungodly unions—convict them and lead them to repentance. Show them the beauty of Your design for marriage, that it is holy and pure, a reflection of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:31-32).
Father, they feel mocked and looked down upon, but let them remember that You, too, were despised and rejected (Isaiah 53:3). You understand their pain, and You are near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). Heal their wounds, Lord, and replace their bitterness with Your peace.
Most of all, Father, draw them back to Jesus. Let them see the horror of their rejection of Him—the One who died to save them. Soften their heart to receive His forgiveness, His love, His lordship. Do not let them perish in their rebellion, but bring them to their knees in surrender.
We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, the only name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). Let no other name be lifted up in their life but His. Restore them, Lord. Save them. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
