In the past year, I and my mother have started making friends in our community especially from church. There are certain people in our life who seem envious of this in terms of seeming to not like that there are now other people in our life that we are close to besides them. But these same people have plenty of other people in their life who they are close to and they often make excuses as to why they can't spend time with us to the point of making us feel bad.
Jealousy
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We hear your heart and understand the pain that comes from feeling pushed aside or resented by those who once held a closer place in your life. Jealousy is a destructive force, one that the enemy uses to sow discord, insecurity, and division—even within the body of Christ. It is not of God, and we must address it with truth and grace, while standing firm in the relationships He has blessed you with.
First, let us turn to Scripture to anchor our hearts in God’s perspective. Proverbs 14:30 tells us, *"A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot."* Jealousy not only harms the one who harbors it but also poisons the relationships around it. James 3:16 warns, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice."* This is not the way of love, humility, or unity that Christ calls us to. Instead, we are to *"rejoice with those who rejoice"* (Romans 12:15) and celebrate the blessings God brings into each other’s lives.
It is also important to examine our own hearts in this. While their behavior may be rooted in envy, we must ask the Lord to search us and reveal if there is any pride, exclusivity, or ungratefulness on our part that may be contributing to this tension. Have we unintentionally made these relationships about *us* rather than about glorifying God and loving others? Have we sought to include these individuals in our lives, or have we allowed bitterness to take root when they pulled away? Let us humble ourselves before the Lord and ask Him to refine our motives.
Now, let us pray together over this situation, lifting it to the One who heals broken relationships and softens hardened hearts:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved and through which we have access to Your throne of grace. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your wisdom, Your peace, and Your intervention. You see the hearts of all involved, and You know the pain that jealousy has caused. We ask that You would break the chains of envy in the lives of those who are struggling with this. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to see the blessings You have given them rather than focusing on what they perceive as lacking in their own lives. Teach them to rejoice in the joy of others, as Your Word commands.
Father, we also ask that You would guard our hearts against bitterness, resentment, or pride. Help us to walk in humility, extending grace and love even when it is not returned. Give us the strength to continue building the friendships You have placed in our lives, not out of a desire to exclude others, but out of a heart that seeks to honor You and love others as You have loved us. Show us how to include those who have pulled away, not out of obligation, but out of genuine Christlike love.
Lord, we declare that jealousy has no place in Your kingdom. We rebuke the spirit of envy and division in the name of Jesus, and we ask that You would replace it with Your peace, unity, and love. Help us to be a light in our community, reflecting Your love and grace to everyone we encounter. May our lives be a testimony to the transforming power of Your Holy Spirit, drawing others to You rather than pushing them away.
We trust You, Lord, to work in this situation according to Your perfect will. Give us the patience to wait on You and the faith to believe that You are working all things together for good. In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen."*
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to take practical steps to address this situation with godly wisdom. First, continue to extend invitations to these individuals, but do so without expectation. Their response—or lack thereof—is not a reflection of your worth or the value of the relationships God has given you. Second, if the opportunity arises, speak the truth in love. This does not mean confronting them with accusations, but rather sharing how their actions have made you feel, while also expressing your desire for reconciliation. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Finally, entrust these relationships to the Lord. You cannot change their hearts, but God can. Release the burden to Him and trust that He will work in His perfect timing.
Remember, the enemy would love nothing more than to see division and strife among believers. Do not give him that foothold. Instead, stand firm in the truth of God’s Word, walk in love, and trust that He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you and in your community. You are not alone in this, and we stand with you in prayer and support as you navigate this challenge. May the Lord bless you with His peace and fill your heart with His joy as you continue to seek Him above all else.
First, let us turn to Scripture to anchor our hearts in God’s perspective. Proverbs 14:30 tells us, *"A tranquil heart gives life to the flesh, but envy makes the bones rot."* Jealousy not only harms the one who harbors it but also poisons the relationships around it. James 3:16 warns, *"For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice."* This is not the way of love, humility, or unity that Christ calls us to. Instead, we are to *"rejoice with those who rejoice"* (Romans 12:15) and celebrate the blessings God brings into each other’s lives.
It is also important to examine our own hearts in this. While their behavior may be rooted in envy, we must ask the Lord to search us and reveal if there is any pride, exclusivity, or ungratefulness on our part that may be contributing to this tension. Have we unintentionally made these relationships about *us* rather than about glorifying God and loving others? Have we sought to include these individuals in our lives, or have we allowed bitterness to take root when they pulled away? Let us humble ourselves before the Lord and ask Him to refine our motives.
Now, let us pray together over this situation, lifting it to the One who heals broken relationships and softens hardened hearts:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above all names, the only name by which we can be saved and through which we have access to Your throne of grace. Lord, we lift up this situation to You, asking for Your wisdom, Your peace, and Your intervention. You see the hearts of all involved, and You know the pain that jealousy has caused. We ask that You would break the chains of envy in the lives of those who are struggling with this. Soften their hearts, Lord, and help them to see the blessings You have given them rather than focusing on what they perceive as lacking in their own lives. Teach them to rejoice in the joy of others, as Your Word commands.
Father, we also ask that You would guard our hearts against bitterness, resentment, or pride. Help us to walk in humility, extending grace and love even when it is not returned. Give us the strength to continue building the friendships You have placed in our lives, not out of a desire to exclude others, but out of a heart that seeks to honor You and love others as You have loved us. Show us how to include those who have pulled away, not out of obligation, but out of genuine Christlike love.
Lord, we declare that jealousy has no place in Your kingdom. We rebuke the spirit of envy and division in the name of Jesus, and we ask that You would replace it with Your peace, unity, and love. Help us to be a light in our community, reflecting Your love and grace to everyone we encounter. May our lives be a testimony to the transforming power of Your Holy Spirit, drawing others to You rather than pushing them away.
We trust You, Lord, to work in this situation according to Your perfect will. Give us the patience to wait on You and the faith to believe that You are working all things together for good. In Jesus’ precious and powerful name, we pray. Amen."*
In addition to prayer, we encourage you to take practical steps to address this situation with godly wisdom. First, continue to extend invitations to these individuals, but do so without expectation. Their response—or lack thereof—is not a reflection of your worth or the value of the relationships God has given you. Second, if the opportunity arises, speak the truth in love. This does not mean confronting them with accusations, but rather sharing how their actions have made you feel, while also expressing your desire for reconciliation. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* Finally, entrust these relationships to the Lord. You cannot change their hearts, but God can. Release the burden to Him and trust that He will work in His perfect timing.
Remember, the enemy would love nothing more than to see division and strife among believers. Do not give him that foothold. Instead, stand firm in the truth of God’s Word, walk in love, and trust that He is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you and in your community. You are not alone in this, and we stand with you in prayer and support as you navigate this challenge. May the Lord bless you with His peace and fill your heart with His joy as you continue to seek Him above all else.
We hear your heart's struggle with this situation, and we're here with you. It's tough when friendships shift, and jealousy can make it even harder. But remember, God is in control, and He's working all things together for our good.
Let's turn to Philippians 2:3-4, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Let's strive to live this out, even when it's difficult.
We also need to pray for those who are struggling with envy. Let's lift them up to the Lord, asking Him to soften their hearts and help them see the blessings in their own lives. Let's also pray for ourselves, that we may remain humble and loving, even when faced with hurt.
Let's keep building the friendships God has given us, but let's do so with open hearts, ready to welcome others when the time is right. And remember, God is faithful. Trust in Him, and let's keep seeking Him together.
"For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you." - Isaiah 41:13
Let's turn to Philippians 2:3-4, "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others." Let's strive to live this out, even when it's difficult.
We also need to pray for those who are struggling with envy. Let's lift them up to the Lord, asking Him to soften their hearts and help them see the blessings in their own lives. Let's also pray for ourselves, that we may remain humble and loving, even when faced with hurt.
Let's keep building the friendships God has given us, but let's do so with open hearts, ready to welcome others when the time is right. And remember, God is faithful. Trust in Him, and let's keep seeking Him together.
"For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you." - Isaiah 41:13
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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