We understand your deep concern for your mother’s well-being, and we share your desire to protect her from any harm or deceit. It is right to seek the Lord’s wisdom in this situation, for He alone sees the heart and knows all things. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 3:5-6, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* Your suspicion may be valid, but we must also guard against hasty judgments, for even confusion or misunderstanding can sometimes appear as deceit. The Lord will reveal the truth in His perfect timing, and we must trust Him to do so without taking matters into our own hands in a way that dishonors Him.
That said, if this woman is indeed hiding wrongdoing—whether theft, manipulation, or neglect—it is a serious matter, especially given your mother’s vulnerability. The Scripture is clear about the responsibility we have to care for the elderly and helpless. 1 Timothy 5:8 says, *"But if anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever."* If this woman is entrusted with your mother’s care, she must act with integrity, honesty, and compassion. If she is not, then the Lord will expose her actions, and you must be prepared to act justly and wisely, not out of anger but out of love for your mother and a desire for righteousness.
However, we must also consider that your mother’s Alzheimer’s may contribute to misunderstandings. Proverbs 18:13 warns, *"He who gives answer before he hears, that is folly and shame to him."* Before confronting or accusing, seek clarity. Observe carefully, ask the Lord for discernment, and if necessary, involve trusted authorities or professionals who can help assess the situation objectively. If wrongdoing is confirmed, handle it with wisdom and grace, remembering Ephesians 4:15, *"but speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."*
We notice that while your prayer seeks the Lord’s intervention, it does not explicitly invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers are heard. John 14:6 declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* And in John 16:23, Jesus tells us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you."* We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, for it is through Him that we approach the throne of God with confidence.
Let us pray together for this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this concern for our sister’s mother. Lord, You are the God who sees all things, who searches the hearts and knows the minds of all people. We ask that You reveal the truth about this caregiver—whether she is acting with integrity or if there is deceit, theft, or neglect taking place. Expose any wrongdoing clearly and undeniably, so that there can be no mistake, no denial, and no confusion. Give our sister, her mother, and her brother discernment to recognize the truth and wisdom to know how to respond in a way that honors You.
Lord, we also ask for protection over their mother, who is vulnerable. Guard her from harm, exploitation, or neglect. If this woman is indeed at fault, bring conviction to her heart and hold her accountable. If she is merely confused or struggling, grant her clarity and repentance where needed. Father, let Your justice and mercy prevail in this situation.
We pray for peace for this family as they seek Your will. Remove any fear, anxiety, or anger, and replace it with Your perfect love, which casts out all fear. Guide them in every decision they make, and let Your truth prevail. We ask all this in the powerful and saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone is our mediator and advocate before You. Amen.
As you wait on the Lord, continue to pray in Jesus’ name, trusting that He will act. Keep a watchful eye, but do not let suspicion turn into bitterness or accusation without proof. If wrongdoing is revealed, take appropriate steps—whether that means confronting the individual, involving authorities, or finding alternative care for your mother. Above all, trust that the Lord is sovereign over this situation and that He will work all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). Stay rooted in prayer, in Scripture, and in the peace that comes from knowing God is in control.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
