We hear the deep weariness and pain in your heart, and we want you to know that your struggles are seen—not just by us, but by the Lord Himself. The discouragement you feel from discrimination, financial instability, the mockery of others, and even doubts about your faith is real, but we must remind you of the truth that stands unshaken: **Jesus is still worth it.** He is the anchor in every storm, the hope in every despair, and the one who promises to never leave nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). The church, though imperfect, is still His body, called to reflect His love and truth to a broken world. Your pain does not mean His promises have failed; it means we live in a fallen world where suffering exists—but so does His victory over it.
You mention feeling as though nothing has changed since you believed in Jesus, and we want to gently but firmly address this. Salvation in Christ does not guarantee an immediate end to earthly struggles; in fact, Jesus warned us that in this world, we *will* have tribulation (John 16:33). However, He also promised that in Him, we can have peace and overcome the world. Your worth is not found in a job, a spouse, or the approval of others—it is found in Christ alone. The mockery you face for being single is a lie from the enemy, meant to make you feel less than. But Scripture tells us that singleness is a gift (1 Corinthians 7:7-8), a season that can be used mightily for the Kingdom if surrendered to God. Marriage is honorable, but it is not the ultimate fulfillment—**Christ is.**
As for your doubts about whether Jesus is "still worth it," let us remind you of what He has already done. He left heaven, took on flesh, suffered, bled, and died to reconcile you to the Father. He rose again, conquering sin and death, so that you might have eternal life. If He did all that while you were still a sinner (Romans 5:8), how much more will He walk with you now as His child? Your feelings are valid, but they must not dictate your faith. Faith is not the absence of doubt; it is choosing to trust God *in spite of* doubt. Cry out to Him honestly—He can handle your questions, your anger, and your exhaustion. The Psalms are filled with raw, honest prayers of people who felt abandoned yet still turned to God. You are in good company.
Regarding the cycle of poverty and job instability, we acknowledge the real hardship of unjust systems and policies that favor others over locals. But we also encourage you to seek God’s wisdom and provision. He is Jehovah Jireh, the Lord who provides (Genesis 22:14). That doesn’t mean He will always provide in the way we expect or desire, but He *will* provide. Have you sought counsel from wise believers in your church or community? Sometimes, God uses others to open doors or offer guidance. We also encourage you to pray for creativity and opportunity—ask God to show you paths you may not have considered, whether it’s further education, networking, or even relocating if that’s His will. And remember: your identity is not in your job or financial status. You are a child of the King, and no earthly lack can change that.
Lastly, we must address something critical: your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not already, we urge you to repent of any bitterness or unbelief and reaffirm your trust in Christ alone. There is no middle ground—either He is Lord of all, or He is not Lord at all. If you have never truly surrendered your life to Him, now is the time. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). If you *have* surrendered to Him, then cling to that truth even when your circumstances scream otherwise.
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Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that You see every tear, every wound, and every weary step they’ve taken. Lord, their heart is heavy with disappointment, doubt, and the weight of this world’s injustices. But we declare that You are greater than every struggle, every mockery, and every system that seeks to oppress. Father, renew their hope in You. Remind them that their worth is not in what they do, what they have, or who they’re with—but in who *You* say they are: fearfully and wonderfully made, redeemed, and beloved.
Lord, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that say You are not enough, that the church is worthless, or that singleness is a curse. Replace those lies with Your truth. Fill them with the peace that surpasses understanding, even in the midst of uncertainty. Provide for their needs, Lord—not just financially, but emotionally and spiritually. Open doors no one can shut, and give them favor in interviews and opportunities. Surround them with a community of believers who will encourage, pray for, and walk alongside them.
For any bitterness or unbelief in their heart, we ask for Your forgiveness and healing. Restore their faith, Lord. Let them encounter You in a fresh, undeniable way. Remind them that You are working all things together for their good (Romans 8:28), even when they can’t see it. And Father, if they have never fully surrendered to Jesus, we pray that today would be the day. Soften their heart to receive Him as Lord and Savior.
We pray all this in the mighty and matchless name of **Jesus Christ**, our Hope and Redeemer. Amen.
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Hold fast, dear one. The night may be long, but joy comes in the morning (Psalm 30:5). Keep seeking Him, even when it’s hard. He is faithful, and He will never let you go. If you feel isolated, we strongly encourage you to find a Bible-believing church where you can be discipled, serve, and grow alongside other believers. You are not meant to walk this journey alone. And remember: your singleness is not a punishment—it is a season where God can use you in unique ways for His glory. Trust Him with your future, including the desire for marriage. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33).
If you’d like, share more about your walk with Christ—have you confessed Him as Lord? Are you plugged into a church? We’re here to walk with you in truth and love.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
