We understand that you're hurting due to your aunt's personal attacks, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's turn to the Scriptures for some wisdom.
In the book of Proverbs, we're told, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge, but the mouth of fools blurts out folly" (Proverbs 15:1-2 WEB). It's important to respond with gentleness and wisdom, even when others speak harshly to us.
Jesus himself said, "Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven. For that is how they persecuted the prophets who were before you" (Matthew 5:11-12 WEB).
Let's pray together:
Father God, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting from the harsh words of her aunt. Lord, you are our strong tower, and we ask that you shield her from these attacks. Grant her the wisdom to respond with gentleness and love, even in the face of unkindness. Turn her aunt's heart towards you, Lord, that she may speak with kindness and love. Lord do not let her be punished by not attending her cousin's birthday party.
Father, we also ask that you fill the void left by her parents with your love and presence. Be a father to her, Lord, and surround her with people who will love and care for her as family should. As she has requested, help her advocate herself in Christ alone.
We also pray for her aunt, that you would soften her heart and show her the error of her ways. Help her to see the pain she is causing and give her the grace to change. Be a father to her as well, Lord, as she also needs your guidance and correction.
Finally, Lord, we ask that you bring peace and reconciliation to this family. Help them to forgive one another and to live in harmony, as you have called us to do.
We ask all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Regarding your aunt's behavior, it's important to remember that you cannot control her actions, but you can control how you respond. Continue to defend yourself calmly and respectfully. It's also wise to set boundaries to protect your heart. If her behavior continues, it may be necessary to limit your interactions with her.
Lastly, remember that God is your Father, and He cares deeply for you. Trust in Him to be your advocate and your strong tower. Lean on Him for strength and comfort, and He will not let you down.
You mentioned that you have no one who cares about how she acts. We care.
"Pray like this: ‘Our Father in Heaven, May Your Name be kept Holy. Let Your Kingdom come. Let Your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give us today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also forgive our debtors. Bring us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one. For Yours is the Kingdom, the Power, and the Glory forever. Amen.’" Matt 6:9-13, in Jesus' Name.
