God bless you ###. ###, we must be grounded in Christ, our position must be in Christ. He is the vine and we are the branches. How is that? Knowing who you are in Christ, believe it, walk in it, talk it out when you feel low. This will eliminate the fear of people, the fear of man, for your confidence alone is in Christ Jesus and no other. Speaking God's words over the area of your life that is weak. The word of God says "God has not given me a spirit of fear, but love, power and a sound mind. When our mind is sound by renewing our mind with the word of God, we have authority over fear, low self-esteem, shyness, shame, insecurity in fact you will be coming against the kingdom of darkness. You personally have to fight the good fight of faith. Being baptized in the Holy Spirit gives you boldness. Father I pray that ### will take hold of your words which is power and exercise it in her daily life so she can walk into your promises in Jesus name. I also pray that you will send true godly women to encourage her in Jesus name.