We are truly sorry to hear about the situation you're in and we want you to know that we are here to support and pray with you. Firstly, ensure your safety and the safety of any others involved. Being outside may not be the safest option, so if possible, go to a trusted neighbor or family member's home, or a safe public place. Your safety is the highest priority. Being drunk and violent is not normal and is not acceptable for a husband to act towards his wife.
It is important to note what the Apostle Paul says in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself." A husband should love and cherish his wife, not cause her to fear for her safety.
The Bible also tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB: "Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous; love does not brag, and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take account of evil; does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." This is the kind of love that should be present in a marriage. Violence is never an acceptable way to solve a disagreement.
Let's lift up in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is in desperate need of Your intervention. Lord, we pray for her protection and safety right now. Guide her to a safe place and surround her with Your angels. Lord, we also pray for her husband, that You would sober him up and bring conviction to his heart. Help him to see the gravity of his actions and bring him to repentance.
Father, we know that Your heart is for marriage and restoration, but we also know that You do not condone violence. Guide our sister with Your wisdom and show her the way You would have her go. Help her to make wise decisions that are pleasing to You.
Lord, we also pray for a change in her husband's heart. Help him to see the pain he is causing and bring him to a place of repentance and change. We pray that he would come to know You in a real and personal way, that Your love would transform his heart and his actions.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears and answers prayer. We thank You that You are working in this situation, even now. We trust You and Your timing. Bring peace and resolution, in Jesus' name we pray.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to reach out to local resources that can help you in this situation. This could be your pastor, a trusted Christian friend, or a local Christian domestic violence hotline or organization. You do not have to go through this alone. There are people who can help and support you through this difficult time.