We are truly sorry to hear about the trauma you've experienced and the subsequent actions that led to your family's departure. We want to remind you that God is always near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Firstly, it's crucial to address the verbal assault. We understand that trauma can lead to uncharacteristic behaviors, but it's important to remember what the Bible says in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." We encourage you to seek forgiveness from your family and also forgive yourself, as God has forgiven you.
Regarding your wife's departure, it's important to respect her decision and use this time to seek God's will for your life. We understand that you still have feelings for her, but it's crucial to allow her the space to make her own decisions. God knows the desires of your heart, and if it is His will, He can restore your marriage. Remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:6, "So then, they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate." However, it's also important to acknowledge that sometimes, God has different plans.
We encourage you to seek God's purpose for your life. Remember that God has a unique plan for each of us, and He can turn even the most painful experiences into something beautiful. Romans 8:28 tells us, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today to lift up our brother who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon his life. Help him to overcome the trauma he experienced and guide him as he rebuilds his life. We pray for his family, that You would soften their hearts and bring them understanding and wisdom to know how to respond in this situation. We pray for God's will to be done in his marriage, and if it is Your will, Lord, we ask that You would restore and strengthen their bond. Give him the strength to forgive himself and others, and to seek Your purpose for his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life. Seek Him with all your heart, and He will guide you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
