I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this
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We understand that you are in deep pain, and we grieve with you over the suffering you are enduring. It is heartbreaking to hear such raw anguish, and we want you to know that your feelings are seen and heard. However, we must lovingly but firmly address the heart of your words, for they reveal a dangerous place of bitterness and rebellion against God, who is the very source of hope, comfort, and salvation.
The pain you are experiencing is real, and we do not minimize it. The Bible acknowledges the depth of human suffering—Job cried out in his agony, David poured out his lament in the Psalms, and even Jesus, in His humanity, wept and asked the Father, *"If it is possible, let this cup pass away from me"* (Matthew 26:39, WEB). Yet in all these moments, they turned *to* God, not *against* Him. Job, after losing everything, fell to the ground and worshipped, saying, *"Naked I came out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the Lord’s name"* (Job 1:21, WEB). This was not a denial of his pain but an acknowledgment that God remains sovereign and good, even in suffering.
Your statement, *"I hate God for putting me through this,"* is a cry of a wounded heart, but it is also a lie from the enemy, who seeks to drive a wedge between you and the One who loves you most. The truth is, God does not delight in your suffering. He is not a cruel taskmaster but a Father who *"so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16, WEB). Jesus Himself carried our sorrows and was *"a man of suffering, and familiar with disease"* (Isaiah 53:3, WEB). He understands your pain because He endured it Himself—betrayal, abandonment, physical agony, and the weight of sin He did not commit. He did this so that you would never have to face your suffering alone.
The apostle Paul, who endured beatings, imprisonments, shipwrecks, and a "thorn in the flesh" that tormented him, pleaded with God to remove it. God’s response was not to take away the pain but to say, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB). Paul’s conclusion? *"Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me."* This is not a call to enjoy suffering but to trust that God’s purpose in it is greater than the pain itself. He is refining you, drawing you closer to Himself, and preparing you for an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs these temporary troubles (2 Corinthians 4:17).
We must also warn you: bitterness toward God is a poison that will destroy you from within. Hebrews 12:15 (WEB) says, *"Looking carefully lest anyone falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness blinds us to God’s love, hardens our hearts, and cuts us off from the very comfort we desperately need. It is a tool of the enemy to keep you in bondage. But Jesus came to *"bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound"* (Isaiah 61:1, WEB). He is reaching out to you even now, asking you to surrender your pain to Him.
You may ask, *"Why is God allowing this?"* We do not always know the specific reasons for suffering in this fallen world, but we know this: God is good, His love for you is unfailing, and He is working all things together for your ultimate good (Romans 8:28). He has not abandoned you. In fact, He is closer than you realize. Psalm 34:18 (WEB) says, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is not your enemy—He is your Redeemer.
We urge you to cry out to God in honesty, but also in repentance for the hatred in your heart. He can handle your raw emotions—He already knows them—but He calls you to trust Him even when you don’t understand. Pour out your heart to Him like this:
*"Hear my prayer, Lord! Won’t you listen to my cry for help? Don’t be silent at my tears. For I am a stranger with you, a foreigner, as all my fathers were. Oh spare me, that I may recover strength, before I go away and exist no more"* (Psalm 39:12-13, WEB). Then, like the psalmist, turn your lament into worship: *"But I trust in you, Lord. I said, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hand"* (Psalm 31:14-15, WEB).
If you are feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or even suicidal, please reach out to a trusted believer, pastor, or counselor immediately. You are not alone, and your life has infinite value to God. The enemy wants to destroy you, but God wants to restore you. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see their pain and collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Lord, their heart is broken, and they are crying out in anger and despair. We ask You to break through the darkness with Your marvelous light. Soften their heart, Lord, and replace their hatred with a revelation of Your love. Remind them that You are not the author of their suffering but the One who walked through suffering for them. Jesus, You bore our griefs and carried our sorrows—meet them in this moment and carry them when they cannot stand.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and rebellion that seeks to take root. Uproot it by Your power and replace it with peace that surpasses understanding. Holy Spirit, comfort them with the truth that they are not abandoned, that You are near to the brokenhearted, and that You are working all things for their good. Give them the strength to surrender their pain to You and to trust You even when they cannot see the way forward.
Lord, if they have never surrendered their life to You, we pray that today would be the day they turn from their sin and place their faith in Jesus Christ as their Savior. Remind them that You are the only source of true hope and healing. If they are Your child but have wandered, draw them back to Yourself. Restore their joy in You, Lord, and help them to see this trial through the lens of Your sovereignty and love.
We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). Give them the courage to seek godly counsel and support, and surround them with believers who will uplift them in prayer. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we implore you: do not let this season of pain define you or drive you away from God. He is your only true hope. Cling to Him, even if it feels like you are holding on by a thread. Read His Word, even when it feels empty—His promises are true, and His love for you is unwavering. *"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord"* (Romans 8:38-39, WEB).
If you need someone to talk to or pray with you further, please reach out. You are loved, and you are not alone. *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). God is waiting with open arms. Turn to Him.
The pain you are experiencing is real, and we do not minimize it. The Bible acknowledges the depth of human suffering—Job cried out in his agony, David poured out his lament in the Psalms, and even Jesus, in His humanity, wept and asked the Father, *"If it is possible, let this cup pass away from me"* (Matthew 26:39, WEB). Yet in all these moments, they turned *to* God, not *against* Him. Job, after losing everything, fell to the ground and worshipped, saying, *"Naked I came out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the Lord’s name"* (Job 1:21, WEB). This was not a denial of his pain but an acknowledgment that God remains sovereign and good, even in suffering.
Your statement, *"I hate God for putting me through this,"* is a cry of a wounded heart, but it is also a lie from the enemy, who seeks to drive a wedge between you and the One who loves you most. The truth is, God does not delight in your suffering. He is not a cruel taskmaster but a Father who *"so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16, WEB). Jesus Himself carried our sorrows and was *"a man of suffering, and familiar with disease"* (Isaiah 53:3, WEB). He understands your pain because He endured it Himself—betrayal, abandonment, physical agony, and the weight of sin He did not commit. He did this so that you would never have to face your suffering alone.
The apostle Paul, who endured beatings, imprisonments, shipwrecks, and a "thorn in the flesh" that tormented him, pleaded with God to remove it. God’s response was not to take away the pain but to say, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB). Paul’s conclusion? *"Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me."* This is not a call to enjoy suffering but to trust that God’s purpose in it is greater than the pain itself. He is refining you, drawing you closer to Himself, and preparing you for an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs these temporary troubles (2 Corinthians 4:17).
We must also warn you: bitterness toward God is a poison that will destroy you from within. Hebrews 12:15 (WEB) says, *"Looking carefully lest anyone falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness blinds us to God’s love, hardens our hearts, and cuts us off from the very comfort we desperately need. It is a tool of the enemy to keep you in bondage. But Jesus came to *"bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound"* (Isaiah 61:1, WEB). He is reaching out to you even now, asking you to surrender your pain to Him.
You may ask, *"Why is God allowing this?"* We do not always know the specific reasons for suffering in this fallen world, but we know this: God is good, His love for you is unfailing, and He is working all things together for your ultimate good (Romans 8:28). He has not abandoned you. In fact, He is closer than you realize. Psalm 34:18 (WEB) says, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is not your enemy—He is your Redeemer.
We urge you to cry out to God in honesty, but also in repentance for the hatred in your heart. He can handle your raw emotions—He already knows them—but He calls you to trust Him even when you don’t understand. Pour out your heart to Him like this:
*"Hear my prayer, Lord! Won’t you listen to my cry for help? Don’t be silent at my tears. For I am a stranger with you, a foreigner, as all my fathers were. Oh spare me, that I may recover strength, before I go away and exist no more"* (Psalm 39:12-13, WEB). Then, like the psalmist, turn your lament into worship: *"But I trust in you, Lord. I said, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hand"* (Psalm 31:14-15, WEB).
If you are feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or even suicidal, please reach out to a trusted believer, pastor, or counselor immediately. You are not alone, and your life has infinite value to God. The enemy wants to destroy you, but God wants to restore you. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30, WEB).
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see their pain and collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Lord, their heart is broken, and they are crying out in anger and despair. We ask You to break through the darkness with Your marvelous light. Soften their heart, Lord, and replace their hatred with a revelation of Your love. Remind them that You are not the author of their suffering but the One who walked through suffering for them. Jesus, You bore our griefs and carried our sorrows—meet them in this moment and carry them when they cannot stand.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and rebellion that seeks to take root. Uproot it by Your power and replace it with peace that surpasses understanding. Holy Spirit, comfort them with the truth that they are not abandoned, that You are near to the brokenhearted, and that You are working all things for their good. Give them the strength to surrender their pain to You and to trust You even when they cannot see the way forward.
Lord, if they have never surrendered their life to You, we pray that today would be the day they turn from their sin and place their faith in Jesus Christ as their Savior. Remind them that You are the only source of true hope and healing. If they are Your child but have wandered, draw them back to Yourself. Restore their joy in You, Lord, and help them to see this trial through the lens of Your sovereignty and love.
We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). Give them the courage to seek godly counsel and support, and surround them with believers who will uplift them in prayer. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.
Friend, we implore you: do not let this season of pain define you or drive you away from God. He is your only true hope. Cling to Him, even if it feels like you are holding on by a thread. Read His Word, even when it feels empty—His promises are true, and His love for you is unwavering. *"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord"* (Romans 8:38-39, WEB).
If you need someone to talk to or pray with you further, please reach out. You are loved, and you are not alone. *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). God is waiting with open arms. Turn to Him.
We're here with you, friend. We know that sometimes it feels like God is far away, or even that He's the one causing your pain. But we want you to know that's not true. God is close, and He's hurting with you. He's not the author of your pain, but the One who promises to be with you in it. In the Bible, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) He's inviting you to lay your burdens down, to trust Him even when it's hard. We're praying for you, that you would feel God's comfort and peace in a real way today. And remember, you're not alone. We're here for you too.
The Encourager
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred honor of lifting you up before the Lord during this deeply painful season. Our hearts have been heavy as we’ve prayed for you, knowing the weight of sorrow and confusion you’re carrying—especially when the suffering feels unbearable and the questions seem to have no answers. We’ve asked God to meet you in the raw honesty of your grief, to remind you that He sees your tears, hears your anger, and is near even when it feels like He is far. He is not afraid of your honest cries, and neither are we.
If the Lord has brought even a glimmer of comfort, a moment of peace, or a sense of His presence in the midst of this storm, we’d love for you to share it with us. Sometimes His answers come quietly, in ways we don’t expect, and your testimony could encourage others who are walking a similar path. But if the pain still feels overwhelming and the burden just as heavy, please don’t hesitate to share your heart again. We are here to stand with you, to weep with you, and to keep pleading for God’s mercy and healing on your behalf. You are not alone in this.
We’re praying that in the days ahead, the Lord will replace your hatred with hope—not by removing the pain immediately, but by revealing Himself as the One who walks *with* you through it. May He remind you that even Jesus, in His darkest hour, cried out to the Father in anguish, yet trusted Him still. We’re asking God to give you the strength to do the same, one moment at a time.
Please know we’re still holding you close in prayer. Keep seeking Him, even in the anger, even in the doubt. He is big enough to handle it all, and His love for you is deeper than your pain. We’re here with you, believing for His redemption in your story. In Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has brought even a glimmer of comfort, a moment of peace, or a sense of His presence in the midst of this storm, we’d love for you to share it with us. Sometimes His answers come quietly, in ways we don’t expect, and your testimony could encourage others who are walking a similar path. But if the pain still feels overwhelming and the burden just as heavy, please don’t hesitate to share your heart again. We are here to stand with you, to weep with you, and to keep pleading for God’s mercy and healing on your behalf. You are not alone in this.
We’re praying that in the days ahead, the Lord will replace your hatred with hope—not by removing the pain immediately, but by revealing Himself as the One who walks *with* you through it. May He remind you that even Jesus, in His darkest hour, cried out to the Father in anguish, yet trusted Him still. We’re asking God to give you the strength to do the same, one moment at a time.
Please know we’re still holding you close in prayer. Keep seeking Him, even in the anger, even in the doubt. He is big enough to handle it all, and His love for you is deeper than your pain. We’re here with you, believing for His redemption in your story. In Jesus’ name.
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