I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this

[Anonymous]

I hate God for putting me go through this,

 

[Articles]

We understand that you are in deep pain, and we grieve with you over the suffering you are enduring. It is heartbreaking to hear such raw anguish, and we want you to know that your feelings are seen and heard. However, we must lovingly but firmly address the heart of your words, for they reveal a dangerous place of bitterness and rebellion against God, who is the very source of hope, comfort, and salvation.

The pain you are experiencing is real, and we do not minimize it. The Bible acknowledges the depth of human suffering—Job cried out in his agony, David poured out his lament in the Psalms, and even Jesus, in His humanity, wept and asked the Father, *"If it is possible, let this cup pass away from me"* (Matthew 26:39, WEB). Yet in all these moments, they turned *to* God, not *against* Him. Job, after losing everything, fell to the ground and worshipped, saying, *"Naked I came out of my mother’s womb, and naked shall I return there. The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the Lord’s name"* (Job 1:21, WEB). This was not a denial of his pain but an acknowledgment that God remains sovereign and good, even in suffering.

Your statement, *"I hate God for putting me through this,"* is a cry of a wounded heart, but it is also a lie from the enemy, who seeks to drive a wedge between you and the One who loves you most. The truth is, God does not delight in your suffering. He is not a cruel taskmaster but a Father who *"so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life"* (John 3:16, WEB). Jesus Himself carried our sorrows and was *"a man of suffering, and familiar with disease"* (Isaiah 53:3, WEB). He understands your pain because He endured it Himself—betrayal, abandonment, physical agony, and the weight of sin He did not commit. He did this so that you would never have to face your suffering alone.

The apostle Paul, who endured beatings, imprisonments, shipwrecks, and a "thorn in the flesh" that tormented him, pleaded with God to remove it. God’s response was not to take away the pain but to say, *"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness"* (2 Corinthians 12:9, WEB). Paul’s conclusion? *"Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me."* This is not a call to enjoy suffering but to trust that God’s purpose in it is greater than the pain itself. He is refining you, drawing you closer to Himself, and preparing you for an eternal weight of glory that far outweighs these temporary troubles (2 Corinthians 4:17).

We must also warn you: bitterness toward God is a poison that will destroy you from within. Hebrews 12:15 (WEB) says, *"Looking carefully lest anyone falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it."* Bitterness blinds us to God’s love, hardens our hearts, and cuts us off from the very comfort we desperately need. It is a tool of the enemy to keep you in bondage. But Jesus came to *"bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to those who are bound"* (Isaiah 61:1, WEB). He is reaching out to you even now, asking you to surrender your pain to Him.

You may ask, *"Why is God allowing this?"* We do not always know the specific reasons for suffering in this fallen world, but we know this: God is good, His love for you is unfailing, and He is working all things together for your ultimate good (Romans 8:28). He has not abandoned you. In fact, He is closer than you realize. Psalm 34:18 (WEB) says, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is not your enemy—He is your Redeemer.

We urge you to cry out to God in honesty, but also in repentance for the hatred in your heart. He can handle your raw emotions—He already knows them—but He calls you to trust Him even when you don’t understand. Pour out your heart to Him like this:
*"Hear my prayer, Lord! Won’t you listen to my cry for help? Don’t be silent at my tears. For I am a stranger with you, a foreigner, as all my fathers were. Oh spare me, that I may recover strength, before I go away and exist no more"* (Psalm 39:12-13, WEB). Then, like the psalmist, turn your lament into worship: *"But I trust in you, Lord. I said, 'You are my God.' My times are in your hand"* (Psalm 31:14-15, WEB).

If you are feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or even suicidal, please reach out to a trusted believer, pastor, or counselor immediately. You are not alone, and your life has infinite value to God. The enemy wants to destroy you, but God wants to restore you. *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light"* (Matthew 11:28-30, WEB).

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious soul to You, knowing that You see their pain and collect every tear in Your bottle (Psalm 56:8). Lord, their heart is broken, and they are crying out in anger and despair. We ask You to break through the darkness with Your marvelous light. Soften their heart, Lord, and replace their hatred with a revelation of Your love. Remind them that You are not the author of their suffering but the One who walked through suffering for them. Jesus, You bore our griefs and carried our sorrows—meet them in this moment and carry them when they cannot stand.

Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and rebellion that seeks to take root. Uproot it by Your power and replace it with peace that surpasses understanding. Holy Spirit, comfort them with the truth that they are not abandoned, that You are near to the brokenhearted, and that You are working all things for their good. Give them the strength to surrender their pain to You and to trust You even when they cannot see the way forward.

Lord, if they have never surrendered their life to You, we pray that today would be the day they turn from their sin and place their faith in Jesus Christ as their Savior. Remind them that You are the only source of true hope and healing. If they are Your child but have wandered, draw them back to Yourself. Restore their joy in You, Lord, and help them to see this trial through the lens of Your sovereignty and love.

We declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17) and that You will turn their mourning into dancing (Psalm 30:11). Give them the courage to seek godly counsel and support, and surround them with believers who will uplift them in prayer. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen.

Friend, we implore you: do not let this season of pain define you or drive you away from God. He is your only true hope. Cling to Him, even if it feels like you are holding on by a thread. Read His Word, even when it feels empty—His promises are true, and His love for you is unwavering. *"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord"* (Romans 8:38-39, WEB).

If you need someone to talk to or pray with you further, please reach out. You are loved, and you are not alone. *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). God is waiting with open arms. Turn to Him.

 

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We're here with you, friend. We know that sometimes it feels like God is far away, or even that He's the one causing your pain. But we want you to know that's not true. God is close, and He's hurting with you. He's not the author of your pain, but the One who promises to be with you in it. In the Bible, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." (Matthew 11:28) He's inviting you to lay your burdens down, to trust Him even when it's hard. We're praying for you, that you would feel God's comfort and peace in a real way today. And remember, you're not alone. We're here for you too.