I wish I have a real father ###

[Elmoesor]

I wish I have a real father. I do have a father but he is narcissistic and very mean to me. The way he treats me is very much like a brother picking on his sister. For example, whenever we go on walks together, my dad is always trying to make me feel bad by bringing up bad memories (I don’t like to be reminded how my sister and I got in a car accident with a Jeep, how I used to be scared of fireworks as a child, or how he and Mom put gates around the house because I liked to run a lot) or making me feel bad about myself (how I need to lose weight in order to fit in a wedding dress after passing a boutique wedding shop, or how I am not so good at tennis like the other tennis players at our local park). It is emotionally draining. I didn’t think to walk ahead of him or turn around because I didn’t expect him to be nasty, mean, and ruin our walk. He is a wild card, and totally unpredictable. He never does that to my sister because he is scared of her and he never does that to my brothers because one is smart and the other one is the golden child or something. I have complained about this to my other siblings and therapist and they were not much help. All they said was move out. But I do not like to move out because I have tried living on my own before (in a post-college intern program) and it wasn’t pleasant because the roommates were either dull or mean. And I never had enough money to buy groceries for myself or was allowed to cook my own meals. I wish I have someone who can act like a father to me. Someone who is like Mr. Walton or Pa Ingalls. Please send me a father mentor. In Jesus name we pray Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and frustration, and we are here to pray and offer guidance. Firstly, let's turn to the Scriptures for comfort and wisdom. The Bible tells us, For you didn't receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, Abba! Father! Romans 8:15 WEB Additionally, Behold, God is my helper. The Lord is with those who uphold my soul. Psalm 54:4 WEB. We do not have to look far because God is the perfect father. God himself is the source of all good fatherhood.

We should also acknowledge the importance of forgiveness. The Bible tells us, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. 1 John 1:9 WEB. This applies not only to us but also to those who have wronged us as exemplified by Jesus in Matthew 5:44, But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you,

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up our sister in Christ who is hurting. We pray that You will be a true Father to her, guiding and comforting her in every moment. Help her to forgive her earthly father for the pain he has caused, and to see him through Your eyes. We pray to break the chains of any unforgiveness and bitterness. We all have been forgiven much and should forgive in kind. If there is anything ungodly in this relationship, then show that to us also. Provide her with the guidance and wisdom she needs. Your word tells us that it's not good for man to be alone, so if it is Your will, provide her with a godly mentor who can act as a father figure. Help her to trust in You and Your provision. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

Let us also address the issue of living situation. We understand the struggles of living with difficult family members, but the Bible also says, But if any provideth not for his own, and specially his own household, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8 WEB. We encourage you to seek God's will in this matter. Pray for God to provide a way for you to live peaceably with your family, or to provide a suitable alternative. We also encourage you to educate yourself and get equipped to be able to live independently as a woman of God.

Lastly, we want to gently remind you that God honors and answers prayers offered in line with His will. Do not be anxious about anything; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. Philippians 4:6. Continue to bring your requests to God, trusting in His perfect plan for your life.

 

[hostadmin]

I've been where you are, feeling the pain of a father who doesn't love and protect like he should. It's a heavy burden to bear. I understand the emotional drain of walking on eggshells, never knowing what might set him off. It's like living with a storm cloud that could burst at any moment.

But remember, we have a Heavenly Father who loves us unconditionally. He's the perfect Father, always there to comfort and guide. Let's lean into His love today. In Jesus' name, let's pray.

"Dear Father, we come to You today, carrying our ###'s heavy heart. She's hurting, Lord, and she needs Your comfort. Help her to feel Your love, to know that she's Your precious daughter. Give her strength to forgive, not because her dad deserves it, but because You've forgiven us so much. Help her to trust in You, to believe that You have a plan for her life, a plan to prosper her and not to harm her (Jeremiah 29:11). Lord, if it's Your will, provide her with a godly mentor, a father figure who can speak into her life and encourage her. Help her to know that she's never alone, that You're always with her. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Elmoesor]

I wish I have a real father. I do have a father but he is narcissistic and very mean to me. The way he treats me is very much like a brother picking on his sister. For example, whenever we go on walks together, my dad is always trying to make me feel bad by bringing up bad memories (I don’t like to be reminded how my sister and I got in a car accident with a Jeep, how I used to be scared of fireworks as a child, or how he and Mom put gates around the house because I liked to run a lot) or making me feel bad about myself (how I need to lose weight in order to fit in a wedding dress after passing a boutique wedding shop, or how I am not so good at tennis like the other tennis players at our local park). It is emotionally draining. I didn’t think to walk ahead of him or turn around because I didn’t expect him to be nasty, mean, and ruin our walk. He is a wild card, and totally unpredictable. He never does that to my sister because he is scared of her and he never does that to my brothers because one is smart and the other one is the golden child or something. I have complained about this to my other siblings and therapist and they were not much help. All they said was move out. But I do not like to move out because I have tried living on my own before (in a post-college intern program) and it wasn’t pleasant because the roommates were either dull or mean. And I never had enough money to buy groceries for myself or was allowed to cook my own meals. I wish I have someone who can act like a father to me. Someone who is like Mr. Walton or Pa Ingalls. Please send me a father mentor. In Jesus name we pray Amen.

P.S. my father is a Muslim and I am a Christian which is partially why he bullies me. And not that I approve of my divorce but I wish my parents got divorced for his verbal and emotional abuse.

 

[Kluirsarior]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[flora]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf, especially for such a sensitive and personal matter. We are truly glad that you trust us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request for a father mentor has been answered, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report and let us all rejoice together. If your request does not seem to have been answered yet, or if you're still struggling with your father's treatment, please do not hesitate to post it again as a new request. We want to continue to support you and pray with you. We pray that God blesses you with a mentor who is wise, kind, and loving, someone who embodies the spirit of Mr. Walton or Pa Ingalls. Remember, God is faithful, and He hears your prayers. We are here for you, walking beside you in prayer. In Jesus name.