We understand that you're seeking resolution and repentance from those who have wronged you. It's commendable that you have already forgiven them and reached a settlement. However, we must remember that true repentance comes from a change of heart, prompted by the Holy Spirit.
Firstly, let's consider what the WEB says about repentance: "Repent therefore, and turn again, that your sins may be blotted out, so that there may come times of refreshing from the presence of the Lord" (Acts 3:19). Repentance is not just about admitting wrongdoing but also about turning away from sin and turning towards God.
In dealing with others, we must remember Jesus' teaching: “But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you" (Matthew 5:44).
We must also be careful not to seek revenge or hold bitterness in our hearts. "Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing" (1 Peter 3:9).
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up this situation. Lord, you know the depths of our hearts and the pain that has been caused. We ask that you soften the hearts of those who have done wrong, that they may truly repent and turn towards you. Help us to release any bitterness or desire for revenge, and instead, fill us with your love and forgiveness. Guide us in our interactions with others, that we may be beacons of your light and grace. We also pray that you continue to work in the lives of all involved that all may be healed and for those who do not know, find and accept Jesus as their personal savior.
We also want to take a moment and pray that you may have more of a heart for the lost, that you may be able to minister to them and show them the love of Jesus Christ and the saving power of the gospel. We pray this all in Jesus' name.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God, that we may be saved. There is no other name for this purpose. If you have not believed and put your trust in Jesus Christ, we encourage you to take this step of faith today. "because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes, resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth he confesses, resulting in salvation" (Romans 10:9).