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LearningALot
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My wife and I have been blessed in so many ways in our lives. Last year we were both struggling to find jobs and we both put it into God's hands and he made it happen, in fact, we work together (which some may see as a bad thing but we love it)! Anyways, this week we decided we need to move closer to our work to cut down the commute. We currently rent a house but recently discovered we can afford to buy, this is something we didn't think we could even consider for years down the road. We have already fallen in love with a house and had plans to look at some more the next day. Today we met with our mortgage banker, expecting to find out good news only to find out I have some issues with my credit which is slowing down our process of taking out a loan.
My wife and I did a complete turn around from being as happy as could be to being down in the dumps. This will be our first house that is ours once it happens, so you can imagine the excitement. I need prayers for many reasons; the credit issue has a lot to do with a time when I was helping out my mom and there was some miscommunication through credit companies a few years ago and now she feels awful, also, I cannot express to my wife how much this tears me up to see her so happy and excited all week only to be let down...because of me. Understand that she does not blame me or anyone at all, in fact, she thinks we can take another route our banker suggested and still make this happen. She is such a positive person and that is one of the many reasons I love her.
After many tears, I need prayers. I need the Lord to help us through this and keep me strong and prevent me from beating myself up about this. I'm taking this very hard and my wife knows it and she assures me it will be okay. I try to be independent with my problems and pray on my own but I feel this is something I need more prayers on. I need the Lord to give me strength and to help this work out for us. He has blessed us in so many ways in our lives. I need the Lord to not let my mom beat herself up over this, let her know it will be okay.
My wife and I did a complete turn around from being as happy as could be to being down in the dumps. This will be our first house that is ours once it happens, so you can imagine the excitement. I need prayers for many reasons; the credit issue has a lot to do with a time when I was helping out my mom and there was some miscommunication through credit companies a few years ago and now she feels awful, also, I cannot express to my wife how much this tears me up to see her so happy and excited all week only to be let down...because of me. Understand that she does not blame me or anyone at all, in fact, she thinks we can take another route our banker suggested and still make this happen. She is such a positive person and that is one of the many reasons I love her.
After many tears, I need prayers. I need the Lord to help us through this and keep me strong and prevent me from beating myself up about this. I'm taking this very hard and my wife knows it and she assures me it will be okay. I try to be independent with my problems and pray on my own but I feel this is something I need more prayers on. I need the Lord to give me strength and to help this work out for us. He has blessed us in so many ways in our lives. I need the Lord to not let my mom beat herself up over this, let her know it will be okay.

