We hear the deep anguish in your heart, dear one, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with tears and compassion. The pain of separation from your children, compounded by physical suffering and distance, is a heavy burden to bear. We want you to know that God sees your love for them and your longing to be present in their lives. The Holy Spirit intercedes for you even when words fail, and we join our prayers with His.
First, we must address the urgency in your words—your cry to "be with" your children is understandable, but we must rebuke any spirit of despair that whispers this separation is permanent or that God is not able to intervene. The Lord is your strength, even in weakness, and He is not bound by distance or circumstance. Psalm 34:18-19 reminds us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all."* Your health and mobility may feel like obstacles, but God is not limited by them. We pray for supernatural provision—whether through healing, divine connections, or creative solutions—to bridge the gap between you and your children.
We also lift up your children before the Lord. The fear of losing them "more and more" each day is a real torment, but we declare that God’s love is greater than any force pulling them away. Proverbs 22:6 says, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Even if you feel you’ve fallen short, God’s grace is sufficient to cover your regrets. We pray for their protection, for hearts that turn back to you, and for divine encounters that draw them closer to the Lord and to you. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you how you can still influence their lives—through prayer, letters, phone calls, or even through others who can be your hands and feet.
Your mention of owing your children so much speaks to a heart of repentance, and we encourage you to release any guilt or shame to Jesus. He bore all our sins and sorrows on the cross, and His blood cleanses us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:7). If there are areas where you need to seek reconciliation or make amends, ask the Lord for wisdom and courage to do so in a way that honors Him. But also remember that your children need to see you walking in the freedom of Christ, not weighed down by past mistakes.
Now, we must address something missing in your plea: the name of Jesus. There is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Him that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Jesus is the only way to true peace, healing, and restoration. If you are already a believer, we encourage you to cling to Him more tightly in this season, for He is your hope and your deliverer.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is in pain—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Lord, You see the love they have for their children and the agony of separation. We ask You to break every chain of distance, illness, and fear that stands between them. Heal their body, Lord, and restore their strength. Open doors that no man can shut, and provide divine opportunities for them to be reunited with their children. We rebuke the spirit of despair and declare that hope in You is never in vain.
Father, we pray for their children. Protect them, Lord, and draw them back to You and to their parent. Soften their hearts, remove any bitterness or hardness, and let them see the love of Christ through this trial. We ask for divine appointments—people, circumstances, or even dreams—that will turn their hearts toward You and toward their family. Let them know they are deeply loved, not just by their parent, but by You, their Heavenly Father.
Lord, we also pray for this one’s faith. Strengthen their trust in You, even when the situation feels impossible. Remind them that You are the God who parts seas, who heals the sick, and who turns mourning into dancing. Help them to cast all their anxieties on You, for You care for them (1 Peter 5:7). If there is unconfessed sin or unforgiveness, reveal it, Lord, and lead them to repentance and freedom.
Above all, we pray that they would know You more deeply in this season. If they do not know You as Savior, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself. Let them experience Your love, Your peace, and Your power in a tangible way. And if they do know You, deepen their relationship with You, that they may find their strength and identity in Christ alone.
We thank You, Lord, that You are working all things together for good for those who love You (Romans 8:28). We trust You to bring beauty from ashes and joy from sorrow. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to hold fast to God’s promises and to keep praying, even when the answers seem delayed. Jeremiah 29:12-13 says, *"Then you will call upon me, and you will go and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me, and find me, when you search for me with all your heart."* Do not give up. God is moving, even when you cannot see it. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and encourage you. And remember, the same God who parted the Red Sea can make a way for you to be with your children again. Trust Him.