I need prayers about my porn addiction which I am unwilling

[Anonymous]

I need prayers about my porn addiction which I am unwilling to let go because I have difficulties believing that Jesus would put anything better in place of that. I dont really enjoy it but do it anyway.

 

[Newbie]

I am praying for this. May God Bless You.​

 

[Hungry4love357]

I am in the exact same place you are right now.  Don't feel alone.  I have a hard time believeing that God will ever give me a wife, because I am so messed up in the head, and I too feel porn is is close as I will ever get to marriage.  I pray that God would help both of us out of this nasty addiction and restore our faith in him.

 

[Matthew01]

Through the Lord Jesus Christ, may this request be fulfilled. Amen

 

[Ira Ashby]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen. :heart:

 

[mitchandkay]

I don't understand , you are asking for prayer YET you say that you are unwilling to give it up , you said that you really don't enjoy it YET you say it is hard for you to imagine that God could replace it with something better . You obviously do not know Jesus because NOTHING in this entire world is greater than knowing and living for Jesus . The Lord is not going to make you stop looking at porn , you have a choice , and with our choices come consequences , sin separates us from a Holy God , what is your eternal soul worth to you ? The word of God tells us that we are not promised one more day , ask yourself this question ... If I were to die tonight , where would I spend eternity ? Sir , Jesus IS coming back soon and we need to be ready by living a life that is pleasing to Him . If you sincerely want to turn your life around and give this all to Jesus it is as simple as saying this prayer , you need to mean it with your whole heart . " Jesus , I know that I am a sinner , I ask You to forgive me of my sins { the word of God which is the bible tells us that ALL have sinned and come short of the glory of God } I believe that You died on the cross for my sins { He offered His life as a sacrifice to bring us back to a right relationship with Holy Father } I ask You to be my Lord and Savior but Lord I cannot do this on my own , I ask for Your help . Lord , help me to live for You . If you have said this prayer then your name is written down in heaven and you will spend eternity { forever } with the Lord  . Now you need to find a good bible teaching church and surround yourself with other followers in Christ to help you with your walk in the Lord . I pray that you really think about what I have said and that you give your heart to Jesus before this night is over .

 

[Anonymous]

I am in the exact same place you are right now.  Don't feel alone.  I have a hard time believeing that God will ever give me a wife, because I am so messed up in the head, and I too feel porn is is close as I will ever get to marriage.  I pray that God would help both of us out of this nasty addiction and restore our faith in him.

What hapened now? What helped you to believe? Do you have wife now? How did she react when u told her? Did u tell before or after getting married?

 

[Anonymous]

What hapened now? What helped you to believe? Do you have wife now? How did she react when u told her? Did u tell before or after getting married?

I am not married.  If you are married, and your wife does not know, the best way to talk to get would be counsoling, so it is constructive.  Be honest.  If you are not married, then tell her before, because of you wait you can personally damage your marriage, if you do so before you can get the help you need, also she will know what d has getting into.  Yes, there is the possibility of you tell her before she may leave you, but if it's the right person she will forgive you, and help you get past it.  If not, God will send you the right women.  I know this all sounds difficult, and it is, but honesty goes a long way with women.  The longer you wait to tell her, the more it's gonna hurt when she finds out later.  If she does not know now, tell her.  If she does the talk to her, and try to work through it.  Show her that you are trying to stop, and ask her for her help.  But don't keep it a secret, she needs to know.  Never keep anything from your wife.  I pray that things work out for you.  

 

[Anonymous]

Thanks! I am not married yet although I wish I were! I have always had question on when to tell her and now finally some Christian answered me! Yes, I also think that being honest is good because that would show that I trust her and if I trust her enough to tell her then it would show to her that she can trust me if I tell her I would only love her and not other woman.
Now I have only one question: What do you think would be best time to tell? before dating, during dating or during engagement (but before proposing her)?

 

[Anonymous]

Thanks! I am not married yet although I wish I were! I have always had question on when to tell her and now finally some Christian answered me! Yes, I also think that being honest is good because that would show that I trust her and if I trust her enough to tell her then it would show to her that she can trust me if I tell her I would only love her and not other woman.
Now I have only one question: What do you think would be best time to tell? before dating, during dating or during engagement (but before proposing her)?

I honesty do not know the answer to that question.  I would pray about it.  I think the best time to being it up is when you feel close enough to her, that you know you can share secrets without her judging you.  I would recommend asking her how she feels about the subject as opposed to just dropping it on her, and let it be a discussion rather than a cofession, that way you can test the water's so to speak.  If she's the right person she will understand.  Then again, I honestly don't know.  I would advise you to go to an addiction help program and try to stop before your relationship gets too serious, because trust me when I say women cannot, and will not compete with porn.  It's better if you get rid of it, so you don't have to worry about it ruining your future relationship.  I pray it all works out.