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We understand your deep longing for love and affection from your husband, and we want you to know that God sees your heart and cares deeply for your marriage. The Lord designed marriage to be a reflection of Christ’s love for His Church—a bond of selfless devotion, respect, and cherished companionship. Yet we also know that marriages can go through seasons of struggle, distance, or even neglect, and in those times, we must turn to the Lord for wisdom, strength, and restoration.

First, we want to encourage you to examine your own heart and your role in the marriage. Scripture tells us in **Ephesians 5:22-24 (WEB)**, *"Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, and Christ also is the head of the assembly, being himself the savior of the body. But as the assembly is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything."* This does not mean blind submission, but rather a heart posture of respect and honor toward your husband, just as the Church submits to Christ. Similarly, **Ephesians 5:33 (WEB)** says, *"Nevertheless each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."* Respect is a powerful force in a marriage, and often, when a wife shows genuine respect, it softens a husband’s heart and opens the door for love to be rekindled.

At the same time, we must acknowledge that your husband has a biblical responsibility to love you as Christ loves the Church. **Ephesians 5:25 (WEB)** commands, *"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it."* If your husband is withholding love, affection, or emotional connection, this is not aligning with God’s design for marriage. It may be that he is struggling with his own wounds, distractions, or sin that is hindering his ability to love you well. In such cases, prayer is your most powerful tool.

Before we pray, we must also ask: Have you spoken to your husband about your feelings in a gentle, non-accusatory way? **James 1:19 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger."* Sometimes, open and honest communication—bathed in prayer—can break down walls. If he is unwilling to listen or change, then we must trust the Lord to work in his heart, while you continue to walk in obedience and faith.

Now, let us pray together for you and your marriage:

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Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious sister to You, knowing that You see her heartache and her deep longing for love within her marriage. Lord, You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted and restores what has been lost. We ask that You would soften her husband’s heart toward her, that You would stir within him a godly, selfless love—the kind of love that reflects Your own love for us. Remove any hardness, distraction, or sin that may be hindering him from loving her as You have commanded.

Father, we also pray for our sister. Give her the strength to walk in wisdom, respect, and grace, even when it is difficult. Help her to trust You fully, knowing that You are her ultimate Provider and Comforter. If there are areas in her own heart that need surrender or healing, Lord, reveal them to her and grant her the courage to seek You first.

We rebuke any spirit of division, apathy, or bitterness that may be at work in this marriage. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we command those spirits to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Let Your peace, unity, and love reign in this home. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power.

If there is unforgiveness, resentment, or past hurts between them, we ask that You would bring healing and reconciliation. Teach them both to forgive as You have forgiven us. And if there is any sin—whether in thought, word, or deed—that is blocking Your blessings, convict them and lead them to repentance.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would surround this sister with godly counsel and support. If she needs to seek wise, biblical guidance from a pastor or counselor, provide the right person to walk alongside her. Let her not grow weary in doing good, but trust that You are working all things together for her good and Your glory.

We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
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Sister, we want to encourage you to keep seeking the Lord daily. Spend time in His Word, especially in passages about marriage like **Ephesians 5, Colossians 3:18-19, and 1 Peter 3:1-7**. Fast and pray for your husband’s heart to turn toward you and toward the Lord. And remember, even if you do not see immediate change, God is at work. **Galatians 6:9 (WEB)** says, *"Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season if we don’t give up."*

If your husband is unwilling to change or if there is unrepentant sin in the marriage, we urge you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or biblical counselor. You are not alone in this, and the Lord has not forgotten you. Keep trusting Him, and He will guide you every step of the way.

Lastly, we noticed that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"* And **Acts 4:12 (WEB)** says, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men by which we must be saved!"* We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and our Hope. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today, for He alone can bring true peace, love, and restoration to your heart and home.
 
We're here with you, sister, feeling your heart's longing for love and affection from your husband. We know that God sees your heart and He cares deeply about your marriage. Let's lift our hearts together to Him.

First, let's remember that God designed marriage to be a reflection of Christ's love for the Church. It's a bond of selfless devotion, respect, and cherished companionship. But we also know that marriages can face struggles, and in those times, we must turn to the Lord for wisdom, strength, and restoration.

Now, let's take a moment to examine our own hearts and our role in the marriage. Ephesians 5:22-24 tells us, "Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, as Christ also is the head of the church, being himself the savior of the body. But as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives also be to their husbands in everything."

This doesn't mean blind submission, but rather a heart posture of respect and honor toward your husband, just as the Church submits to Christ. Similarly, Ephesians 5:33 says, "Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

Respect is a powerful force in a marriage. When a wife shows genuine respect, it often softens a husband's heart and opens the door for love to be rekindled.

At the same time, we must acknowledge that your husband has a biblical responsibility to love you as Christ loves the Church. Ephesians 5:25 commands, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it." If your husband is withholding love, affection, or emotional connection, this is not aligning with God's design for marriage.

Before we pray, let's ask: Have you spoken to your husband about your feelings in a gentle, non-accusatory way? James 1:19 reminds us, "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger." Sometimes, open and honest communication, bathed in prayer, can break down walls. If he is unwilling to listen or change, then we must trust the Lord to work in his heart while you continue to walk in obedience and faith.

Now, let's pray together for you and your marriage:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious sister to You, knowing that You see her heartache and her deep longing for love within her marriage. Lord, You are the God who binds up the brokenhearted and restores what has been lost. We ask that You would soften her husband's heart toward her, that You would stir within him a godly, selfless love - the kind of love that reflects Your own love for us. Remove any hardness, distraction, or sin that may be hindering him from loving her as You have commanded.

Father, we also pray for our sister. Give her the strength to walk in wisdom, respect, and grace, even when it's difficult. Help her to trust You fully, knowing that You are her ultimate Provider and Comforter. If there are areas in her own heart that need surrender or healing, Lord, reveal them to her and grant her the courage to seek You first.

We rebuke any spirit of division, apathy, or bitterness that may be at work in this marriage. By the power of the Holy Spirit, we command those spirits to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Let Your peace, unity, and love reign in this home. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and let this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power.

If there is unforgiveness, resentment, or past hurts between them, we ask that You would bring healing and reconciliation. Teach them both to forgive as You have forgiven us. And if there is any sin - whether in thought, word, or deed - that is blocking Your blessings, convict them and lead them to repentance.

Finally, Father, we ask that You would surround this sister with godly counsel and support. If she needs to seek wise, biblical guidance from a pastor or counselor, provide the right person to walk alongside her. Let her not grow weary in doing good, but trust that You are working all things together for her good and Your glory.

We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."

Sister, keep seeking the Lord daily. Spend time in His Word, especially in passages about marriage like Ephesians 5, Colossians 3:18-19, and 1 Peter 3:1-7. Fast and pray for your husband's heart to turn toward you and toward the Lord. Remember, even if you don't see immediate change, God is at work. Galatians 6:9 reminds us, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season if we don't give up."

If your husband is unwilling to change or if there is unrepentant sin in the marriage, we urge you to seek godly counsel from a pastor or biblical counselor. You are not alone in this, and the Lord has not forgotten you. Keep trusting Him, and He will guide you every step of the way.

Lastly, we noticed that your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. John 14:6 declares, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" And Acts 4:12 says, "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved!"

We encourage you to always pray in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and our Hope. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today, for He alone can bring true peace, love, and restoration to your heart and home.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We are deeply moved by your heartfelt request and have been lifting you and your marriage up in prayer these past days. It is a sacred privilege to stand in agreement with you before the throne of grace, asking our Heavenly Father to pour out His love into your home and soften both of your hearts toward one another. We have prayed specifically that the Lord would mend any brokenness, restore tenderness, and help you and your husband to see each other through His eyes of grace.

If you have already felt the Lord’s answer—whether through a gentle word, a renewed sense of connection, or even the quiet assurance that He is at work—we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a powerful encouragement to others walking a similar path.

If, however, the need still weighs heavily on your heart, please do not hesitate to post this request again. We are committed to continuing in prayer with you, trusting that God is faithful even when the wait feels long. May He draw near to you in this season, filling you with His peace and reminding you of His unfailing love for you and your marriage.

We pray all these things in the mighty and merciful name of Jesus. Amen.
 

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