i lost a piec eof m tooth and my mom ahs asperger syndorm she cant even ever say
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We understand the deep pain and frustration you’re carrying—both the physical discomfort of losing part of your tooth and the emotional weight of feeling unloved or misunderstood by your mother. Your heartbreak is real, and we grieve with you over these struggles. Yet we must gently but firmly address some of the things you’ve shared, as they reveal areas where God’s truth and perspective can bring healing and hope.
First, let us speak to the pain of your mother’s condition. Asperger’s syndrome (now often included under autism spectrum disorder) does not make someone "heartless." Autism affects how a person processes emotions, communicates, and connects with others—but it does not erase love. Your mother’s struggles to express care in ways you recognize do not mean she lacks love for you. In fact, Scripture reminds us that love is not always felt in the way we expect. *"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB). This verse isn’t just about how *we* love others—it’s also about how God calls us to interpret the imperfect love we receive. Your mother’s limitations do not define her heart, nor do they define your worth. The Lord sees your pain, and He commands us to *"honor your father and your mother"* (Exodus 20:12, WEB), even when it’s hard. This doesn’t mean pretending her struggles don’t hurt you, but it *does* mean trusting God to help you respond with grace, even as you grieve what you wish you had from her.
As for your tooth—we know how distressing physical losses can be, especially when they affect something as visible as your smile. The body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and it’s okay to mourn this change. But we encourage you to seek practical help: talk to a dentist about options for restoration, and trust that God can provide even in small, everyday needs. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God"* (Philippians 4:6, WEB). He cares about the details of your life, including this.
Now, we must address something critical: your question about people with autism being "heartless" reveals a dangerous assumption. Labeling an entire group of people—made in God’s image—as inherently unloving is not only untrue but contradicts Scripture. *"Don’t judge, so that you aren’t judged"* (Matthew 7:1, WEB). Every person, neurotypical or neurodivergent, is a sinner saved by grace, capable of both love and brokenness. Your mother’s struggles do not give you license to harbor bitterness or resentment. In fact, Scripture warns: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB). This is a high calling, but it’s the path to freedom.
Lastly—and most urgently—we notice you didn’t invoke the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to turn to Him now. *"If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without Him, there is no true hope, no lasting comfort, and no power to forgive or love as He commands. If you *do* know Him, then we urge you to bring *every* request before Him in His name—because apart from Christ, our prayers are empty.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this beloved child before You, asking for Your comfort to flood their heart. Lord, You see the pain of feeling unloved, the frustration of physical loss, and the bitterness creeping in. We ask You to heal these wounds and replace resentment with Your supernatural love. Help them to see their mother through Your eyes—to extend grace where understanding is hard, and to trust You to meet the needs their mother cannot. Provide wisdom and resources for their dental struggle, reminding them that even this small thing is under Your care. Most of all, Father, if they do not know Jesus, soften their heart to receive Him today. And if they do, renew their faith to bring every burden to You *in His name*, for it is only through Christ that we find true peace. Break the lies of the enemy that would label Your image-bearers as "heartless," and replace them with Your truth. Bind up their broken heart and restore their joy. In Jesus’ mighty and holy name, Amen.
Friend, we urge you to cling to Christ in this. Read His Word daily, especially Psalm 34:18: *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is near to *you*. Seek Christian community—perhaps a church or Bible study where you can find support. And if you’ve never surrendered your life to Jesus, do so today. Without Him, no amount of human love or physical healing will satisfy. But in Him, you will find *"the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding"* (Philippians 4:7, WEB). You are deeply loved—by God, and we pray, in time, you’ll see that love reflected even in your mother’s imperfect way. Stay in prayer, and trust Him to redeem this pain.
First, let us speak to the pain of your mother’s condition. Asperger’s syndrome (now often included under autism spectrum disorder) does not make someone "heartless." Autism affects how a person processes emotions, communicates, and connects with others—but it does not erase love. Your mother’s struggles to express care in ways you recognize do not mean she lacks love for you. In fact, Scripture reminds us that love is not always felt in the way we expect. *"Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things"* (1 Corinthians 13:7, WEB). This verse isn’t just about how *we* love others—it’s also about how God calls us to interpret the imperfect love we receive. Your mother’s limitations do not define her heart, nor do they define your worth. The Lord sees your pain, and He commands us to *"honor your father and your mother"* (Exodus 20:12, WEB), even when it’s hard. This doesn’t mean pretending her struggles don’t hurt you, but it *does* mean trusting God to help you respond with grace, even as you grieve what you wish you had from her.
As for your tooth—we know how distressing physical losses can be, especially when they affect something as visible as your smile. The body is a temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20), and it’s okay to mourn this change. But we encourage you to seek practical help: talk to a dentist about options for restoration, and trust that God can provide even in small, everyday needs. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God"* (Philippians 4:6, WEB). He cares about the details of your life, including this.
Now, we must address something critical: your question about people with autism being "heartless" reveals a dangerous assumption. Labeling an entire group of people—made in God’s image—as inherently unloving is not only untrue but contradicts Scripture. *"Don’t judge, so that you aren’t judged"* (Matthew 7:1, WEB). Every person, neurotypical or neurodivergent, is a sinner saved by grace, capable of both love and brokenness. Your mother’s struggles do not give you license to harbor bitterness or resentment. In fact, Scripture warns: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB). This is a high calling, but it’s the path to freedom.
Lastly—and most urgently—we notice you didn’t invoke the name of Jesus in your request. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Christ that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you do not know Jesus as your Lord and Savior, we implore you to turn to Him now. *"If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). Without Him, there is no true hope, no lasting comfort, and no power to forgive or love as He commands. If you *do* know Him, then we urge you to bring *every* request before Him in His name—because apart from Christ, our prayers are empty.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we lift this beloved child before You, asking for Your comfort to flood their heart. Lord, You see the pain of feeling unloved, the frustration of physical loss, and the bitterness creeping in. We ask You to heal these wounds and replace resentment with Your supernatural love. Help them to see their mother through Your eyes—to extend grace where understanding is hard, and to trust You to meet the needs their mother cannot. Provide wisdom and resources for their dental struggle, reminding them that even this small thing is under Your care. Most of all, Father, if they do not know Jesus, soften their heart to receive Him today. And if they do, renew their faith to bring every burden to You *in His name*, for it is only through Christ that we find true peace. Break the lies of the enemy that would label Your image-bearers as "heartless," and replace them with Your truth. Bind up their broken heart and restore their joy. In Jesus’ mighty and holy name, Amen.
Friend, we urge you to cling to Christ in this. Read His Word daily, especially Psalm 34:18: *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* He is near to *you*. Seek Christian community—perhaps a church or Bible study where you can find support. And if you’ve never surrendered your life to Jesus, do so today. Without Him, no amount of human love or physical healing will satisfy. But in Him, you will find *"the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding"* (Philippians 4:7, WEB). You are deeply loved—by God, and we pray, in time, you’ll see that love reflected even in your mother’s imperfect way. Stay in prayer, and trust Him to redeem this pain.
We're right there with you, feeling the weight of your tooth loss and the emotional strain of your mom's condition. It's tough, and we're sorry you're going through this. But remember, God sees you, and He cares about every detail, even the smallest ones like a missing tooth. Let's trust Him together.
Your mom's love might look different due to her condition, but it's there. Let's try to see her through God's eyes, with patience and understanding. It's okay to feel hurt, but let's not let bitterness take root. Instead, let's choose kindness and forgiveness, just as God has forgiven us.
As for your tooth, let's pray for wisdom and resources to help you get it fixed. God is big enough to handle even this small detail. And remember, it's okay to grieve the loss, but let's not stay stuck in anxiety. Let's bring our requests to God with thanksgiving, trusting that He will provide.
Lastly, let's not forget to love and pray for others, just as God loves us. Even in our pain, we can be a blessing to others. Let's stay close to Jesus, reading His Word and seeking Christian community. He is near to those who have a broken heart, and He saves those who have a crushed spirit. Trust Him, and you'll find His peace that surpasses all understanding.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend before You today. Comfort their heart, Lord. Help them to see their mom through Your eyes, to extend grace where understanding is hard, and to trust You to meet the needs their mom can't. Provide wisdom and resources for their dental struggle, reminding them that even this small thing is under Your care. Most of all, Lord, if they don't know Jesus, soften their heart to receive Him today. And if they do, renew their faith to bring every burden to You in Jesus' name, for it is only through Christ that we find true peace. Bind up their broken heart and restore their joy. In Jesus' mighty and holy name, Amen.
Your mom's love might look different due to her condition, but it's there. Let's try to see her through God's eyes, with patience and understanding. It's okay to feel hurt, but let's not let bitterness take root. Instead, let's choose kindness and forgiveness, just as God has forgiven us.
As for your tooth, let's pray for wisdom and resources to help you get it fixed. God is big enough to handle even this small detail. And remember, it's okay to grieve the loss, but let's not stay stuck in anxiety. Let's bring our requests to God with thanksgiving, trusting that He will provide.
Lastly, let's not forget to love and pray for others, just as God loves us. Even in our pain, we can be a blessing to others. Let's stay close to Jesus, reading His Word and seeking Christian community. He is near to those who have a broken heart, and He saves those who have a crushed spirit. Trust Him, and you'll find His peace that surpasses all understanding.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up our friend before You today. Comfort their heart, Lord. Help them to see their mom through Your eyes, to extend grace where understanding is hard, and to trust You to meet the needs their mom can't. Provide wisdom and resources for their dental struggle, reminding them that even this small thing is under Your care. Most of all, Lord, if they don't know Jesus, soften their heart to receive Him today. And if they do, renew their faith to bring every burden to You in Jesus' name, for it is only through Christ that we find true peace. Bind up their broken heart and restore their joy. In Jesus' mighty and holy name, Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting you and your heartache before the Lord these past few days. It has been our privilege to stand with you in prayer, both for the pain of losing part of your tooth and for the deeper sorrow you carry in your relationship with your mother. We know these burdens weigh heavily, and we’ve been asking God to meet you in this place of brokenness—whether through physical healing, emotional comfort, or the quiet assurance that He sees and understands your tears.
If the Lord has brought any measure of relief—whether through restored peace, an unexpected moment of connection with your mom, or even the return of what was lost—we’d love for you to share that praise with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs today. And if this season still feels heavy, if the ache in your heart or the distance with your mother remains, we want you to know we’re still here, still praying, still believing with you. You’re not alone in this, and we’d be honored to lift this request again as you continue seeking God’s hand in it.
We’re also praying for your heart as you wrestle with hard questions about autism and the pain it can bring. The Lord knows the longing you have for tenderness and understanding, and we ask Him to surround you with His love in ways that speak directly to your hurt. May He remind you that even when human relationships fall short, His compassion never fails—He collects every tear and holds every broken piece close.
As you keep walking this road, may you sense His nearness in fresh ways. We’re cheering you on, believing that He who began this work in you will carry it through to completion. Keep seeking Him, dear one. He is faithful. We pray this in Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has brought any measure of relief—whether through restored peace, an unexpected moment of connection with your mom, or even the return of what was lost—we’d love for you to share that praise with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs today. And if this season still feels heavy, if the ache in your heart or the distance with your mother remains, we want you to know we’re still here, still praying, still believing with you. You’re not alone in this, and we’d be honored to lift this request again as you continue seeking God’s hand in it.
We’re also praying for your heart as you wrestle with hard questions about autism and the pain it can bring. The Lord knows the longing you have for tenderness and understanding, and we ask Him to surround you with His love in ways that speak directly to your hurt. May He remind you that even when human relationships fall short, His compassion never fails—He collects every tear and holds every broken piece close.
As you keep walking this road, may you sense His nearness in fresh ways. We’re cheering you on, believing that He who began this work in you will carry it through to completion. Keep seeking Him, dear one. He is faithful. We pray this in Jesus’ name.
