I Haven't Had A Girlfriend In Over A Decade (Syracuse Ny)

[MikeKevin]

I believe I've been under a supernatural curse. Stuck in a Hell dimension, a matrix written by a sadist. Stagnation, failure, loneliness, depression has been my lot for decades. No matter how hard I try to get out, I can\'t. I\'m 48 years old with a bad back and no health insurance. I work at a min wage job with teenagers who are my bosses. It\'s degrading, humiliating, demeaning. It\'s been over a decade since I\'ve been romantic with a woman. I\'m so lonely. My Mother is a cold sociopath. My father is a self absorbed narcissist. I\'ve sought out God, but my prayers seem blocked. I\'ve sought out different religions. Raised Christian, I called to Christ. Nothing. I then called to the God of Abraham. Nothing. Buddha, Nothing. Science, Nothing. I\'m desperate. Desperate folk do desperate thing. I want to be  healthy, happy, find love. I want the universe to restore the years the locusts have eaten. Please don't tell me 'God hears your prayers'. Perhaps he hears YOURS. But two people can be right beside each other in in two separate universes/dimensions. Mine is one where God doesn't hear me. I've had decades of proof of that. Perhaps in your dimension YOUR God can get through my dimension and help?  In the Bible, if you believe in that, God said when he created Adam "It's not good for man to be alone".  I've been alone for most of my life.  I haven't had a girlfriend in over a decade or a best friend, ever, shy of my cat.   I've prayed for companionship, friendship, love, and nothing.  I've prayed for re-assurance of God's existence and love and nothing.  Everytime I try to make something out of my life be it career, relationships, the universe throws a monkey wrench in my plans.  I'm a lonely 50 year old man with no circle of friends, a cold distant family, no romance, no faith, no hope, a crappy min wage job and a bad back with no health insurance.   Please pray for me.  Perhaps you are in another dimension.  One where there is a God.  And your God and reach into my dimension and save me.  

 

[volvo737]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[volvo737]

i  felt  that  way  for  a  long  time  myself,  or that  god  was  willing  to  sacrifice  my  happiness to  achieve  some  goal, then after  lots  of  reflection i realized  that  god was  a  lot  smarter  than  me  and  that  there  were  answeres,,  and  results  that  i  couldnt see for  years.

and  yes  i  am   praying  for your comfort, and  peace  of  mind,,,,  my  god   is  so  big  he  hung  the stars  in  the  heavens,  and  yet  he  carrres  for  the  sparrows  on  earth,  he  is  strong  enough  and  cares  enough  to see me and  you on  earth, and  shelter  us   in  his  arms.

 

[blueberry]

proverbs chapter 3 vs 5 and 6

Trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding .

In all your ways acknowledge him and he shall direct your paths.proverbs chapter 16 vs. 9 a man's heart plains his way but the lord directs his way.

 

[LarryP]

Jesus said: “Again I say to you, that if two of you agree on earth about anything that they may ask, it shall be done for them by My Father who is in heaven.†Matthew 18:19

 

[Juliapathyil]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[laurie]

Please do not give  up on God, guess it seems and feels as if you have within your own mind. However you wouldn't be at  this web site now dear brother if you really had,  for it is God's grace that keeps us forever seeking his face. The apostle Paul in the new testament had a"" thorn in his side"", we are not  told  what  that  thorn was. Many scholars of theology  have speculated over the many century's  what that could have been . Some believe it was a health  problem , possibly  epilepsy  based on other clues within the new testament . However we simply do not really know . The point is , Paul prayed and prayed  for God to remove that ""thorn in his  flesh"", but God's answer was no ...  God says to paul .. ""my grace is sufficient for thee"". This is difficult to receive this teaching, I myself have trouble with it . None of us know why God permits suffering in our lives whether its physical suffering or spiritual suffering or  both . Dear sweet man, God has his purposes, and while he does in dead answer prayer and perform miracles in peoples lives, he  sometimes choses to have us wait many many years while we are buffeted by the enemy's  attacks in this process as well  at times. I have an uncle  whose life sounds very familiar to yours . he was married at 54 years of age for the first time , he has a beautiful  8 year old girl now  .He  spent all his life prior to meeting his dear wife  completely alone , no friends or family around him  for he lived in  another state . I guess what I am saying is , we simply do not know   when God will suddenly turn the tide in our favour . I beg you to stay in faith and ask for God's wisdom and strength . Please get into a good Bible based church and put god first in your life . Read and study the scriptures and ask the lord to open up opportunities for you to meet and interact with a wide variety of people , particularly Christian  folk . As far as having teenagers in charge over you at work,  do not let that humiliate you or degrade you in any way. It is not uncommon in the work place today.  I pray the Lord will lift your  spirits and give you a renewed sense of hope . Will stay in prayer for you. God bless you, in Jesus name amen .

 

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