We are truly sorry to hear about the situation you are facing in your church and the pain it has caused you. Let's turn to God's Word and seek His will together in Jesus' name.
Firstly, it's crucial to understand what the Bible says about the role of women in the church. The passage you mentioned is likely 1 Timothy 2:11-12 (WEB), "Let a woman learn in quietness with all subjection. But I don't permit a woman to teach, nor to exercise authority over a man, but to be in quietness." This scripture has been interpreted in various ways, but it's important to consider the context and culture in which it was written.
However, there are also other scriptures that show women in leadership roles, such as Judges 4:4 (WEB), "Now Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lappidoth, judged Israel at that time." And in the New Testament, Priscilla is mentioned teaching Apollos in Acts 18:26 (WEB), "But when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside, and explained to him the way of God more accurately."
It's not our place to judge your pastor's decision, but it's important to approach this situation with humility and a willingness to learn. It's also important to remember that God looks at the heart. It could be that your questioning of the status quo was perceived as rebellion, but it could also be that God is leading you to a deeper understanding of His truths.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our brother who is feeling broken in spirit. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and guidance during this difficult time. Help him to discern Your will for his life and for the role of women in the church. Give him wisdom and understanding as he navigates this situation, and help him to approach it with humility and a teachable spirit.
Lord, we also pray for his pastor and the church leadership. Give them wisdom and discernment as they guide Your flock. Help them to be open to the leading of Your Spirit and to always seek Your will above their own.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue praying and studying God's Word. It's also important to have open and respectful conversations with your pastor and the church leadership. Remember, God is at work in all situations, and He can use this for your good and His glory.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the importance of praying in the name of Jesus Christ. It's only through His name that we have access to God the Father. As it says in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"