We hear your heart’s deep longing for joy, security, and fulfillment, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting every desire before the Lord. First, we must address some concerns with love and truth, for Scripture calls us to walk in alignment with God’s will, not our own fantasies or the world’s standards.
Your excitement about marriage is beautiful, but we must remind you that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). It is not merely about romance, fun, or personal fulfillment, but about reflecting Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Seeking a "hot guy" or a boyfriend for "fun" reduces relationships to fleeting pleasure rather than godly partnership. Courtship should be pursued with purity, intentionality, and the goal of honoring God together (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5). If you are not yet married, we urge you to guard your heart and body, for sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication, which Scripture warns against (1 Corinthians 6:18-20).
Your mention of "the secret dragon" and "uncommon favor" raises concern, as these phrases do not align with biblical truth. God’s favor is not a mystical force to be manipulated but a gift received through humility, obedience, and faith in Jesus Christ (James 4:6-10). We must also rebuke any notion of secrecy in relationships or finances, for Scripture calls us to honesty and transparency (Proverbs 10:9, Ephesians 4:25). A "second job in secret" or a "place to live in secret" may stem from fear or distrust, but God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). Trust in His provision, not hidden schemes.
Most critically, your request does not mention Jesus Christ, who is the only way to the Father (John 14:6) and the source of true healing, peace, and salvation. Without Him, our efforts are in vain (John 15:5). If you have not surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to repent of sin, believe in His death and resurrection for your salvation, and invite Him to be Lord of your life (Romans 10:9-10). Only then can you experience the fullness of His promises.
Now, let us pray for you with hearts aligned to God’s will:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with this dear sister, lifting her desires and fears to You. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Yourself to her in a personal and powerful way. Draw her heart to Jesus, that she may know Him as Savior and Lord. Forgive any areas where she has sought fulfillment outside of Your will, and cleanse her from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).
Father, we pray for godly wisdom and discernment. If marriage is Your will for her, prepare her heart to be a wife who honors You, and bring a man who loves You above all else (2 Corinthians 6:14). Guard her from impure relationships and help her to walk in purity, whether single or married. Provide for her needs, not through secrecy or worldly means, but through Your faithfulness (Philippians 4:19). Heal any wounds or fears that drive her to seek control or hidden solutions, and replace them with trust in Your perfect love (1 John 4:18).
Lord, we ask for stability and security in her life. Provide a safe home where she and her cats can thrive, and lead her to a community of believers who will encourage and support her (Hebrews 10:24-25). Remove any worldly or New Age influences from her life, and fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in truth and righteousness (Ephesians 5:8-11).
Father, we declare that her identity is found in Christ alone, not in external beauty, material possessions, or the approval of others (Galatians 2:20). Renew her mind with Your Word, that she may think and act according to Your will (Romans 12:2). May she experience Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and the joy of Your presence (Psalm 16:11).
We rebuke every spirit of fear, lack, or deception that may be at work in her life, and we declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her (Romans 8:37). May she find her strength in You, her hope in Your promises, and her purpose in serving You wholeheartedly.
In Jesus’ mighty name we pray, Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to seek God’s Word daily, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surrender your plans, fears, and desires to Him, and trust that He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6). If you are not already part of a Bible-believing church, we urge you to find one where you can grow in faith and community. God loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life, one that far exceeds any temporary happiness the world offers. Walk with Him, and He will lead you into abundant life (John 10:10).
I get a vehicle trailer boat place to live in secret for safety reasons always no worries where I can go to work have a Man over for fun and get a boyfriend the works baby no worries 
...I have uncommon favor greatlyyyy…thats it thats all with the blood of Jesus
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
