We understand that you are going through a difficult time in your marriage and have a strong desire for a godly and fulfilling union. Firstly, we want to address the use of "KARMA" and "Boaz Person." As believers, we do not put our faith in karma, which is a concept from other religions. Instead, we trust in God's justice and mercy. Boaz was a righteous man and redeemer of Ruth. He was a man who followed God's laws and demonstrated integrity and compassion. We should seek a spouse who exemplifies these qualities and is a committed follower of Christ. We should seek for Jesus to be the Lord of our life and marriage.
We are glad to see that you have acknowledged the power of the blood of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. It is only through His sacrifice that we have access to God and can experience redemption and forgiveness. You mentioned that divorce is not an option and this is in line with God's heart for marriage. God designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As it says in Mark 10:9 "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Divorce is only permitted in cases of adultery or if an unbelieving spouse leaves, as per Matthew 5:32 "but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her an adulteress; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery" and 1 Corinthians 7:15 "Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."
We must also address that the focus of marriage should not be on our dreams or personal fulfillment, but on glorifying God and growing together in faith with our spouse. We encourage you to pray for your current marriage and for God's will to be done. Pray that God would heal and restore your marriage, and that both you and your spouse would be drawn closer to Him.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting in her marriage. Lord, we ask for Your healing and restoration. Draw both her and her husband closer to You and to each other. Help them to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness, and to trust in Your goodness and mercy. Lord, we ask that You would raise up godly husbands and wives who are committed to each other and to You, and who will demonstrate Your love and faithfulness to the world. We rebuke any selfish desires or worldly influences that may be affecting this marriage.
Lord, we also pray that You would guide our sister and give her discernment as she seeks a godly spouse if that is needed in the future. Help her to trust in Your timing and to wait patiently for the person You have prepared for her. In all things, Lord, help her to keep her eyes fixed on Jesus and to follow Him with all her heart.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.