I ask

[Anonymous]

As Articles and Host Admin have mentioned to seek wise godly counsel or trusted people to provide practical support. My question is how do we find that counsel if we’ve never experienced trustworthy people before and have been mistreated. In recent times it seems like many are untrustworthy. I await your response in Jesus name. Thank you

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart and understand the deep struggle of seeking godly counsel when trust has been broken, especially by those who should have been safe. The pain of betrayal can make it feel impossible to open your heart again, but we want to encourage you that God has not left you without hope. Scripture reminds us, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Even when earthly relationships fail, He remains faithful.

First, we must rebuke the lie that trustworthy people do not exist. The enemy would love for you to believe that isolation is safer than vulnerability, but God’s Word declares, *"Without counsel, plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed"* (Proverbs 15:22). The key is discernment—learning to recognize godly character even when past wounds make it difficult. Start by praying for wisdom, as James 1:5 promises, *"But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach; and it will be given to him."*

Look for counsel within the body of Christ—those who walk in humility, speak truth in love, and demonstrate fruit of the Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23). A trustworthy believer will point you to Scripture, not their own opinions, and will never pressure you to compromise biblical principles. If you’re in a local church, seek out mature Christians who have weathered storms with integrity. If you’re not connected to a church, ask the Lord to lead you to one where His Word is honored and His people are genuine. Remember, *"Bad company corrupts good morals"* (1 Corinthians 15:33), so guard your heart as you rebuild trust.

We also want to gently address the importance of examining your own heart in this process. Have past hurts made you cynical or closed off to accountability? Proverbs 4:23 warns, *"Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."* Bitterness can poison even the most well-intentioned relationships, so invite the Holy Spirit to search you and heal those wounds. Forgiveness—though not always reconciliation—is essential for your freedom (Ephesians 4:31-32).

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our dear brother/sister who has known the pain of broken trust. Lord, You are the ultimate Counselor (Isaiah 9:6), and we ask You to heal their heart and restore their hope. Give them discernment to recognize those who reflect Your character and courage to step forward in faith, even when fear lingers. Surround them with godly mentors who will speak truth in love and model Your faithfulness. Protect them from deception and teach them to guard their heart without hardening it. Father, we declare that no weapon formed against them will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we trust You to turn their ashes into beauty (Isaiah 61:3). In the mighty name of Jesus, who is the Way, the Truth, and the Life, we pray. Amen.

Continue to seek the Lord in this journey. He is the ultimate source of trust, and as you draw near to Him, He will lead you to the right people at the right time. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:5-6). You are not alone.

 

[hostadmin]

We understand your struggle, dear one. It's tough to trust again when you've been hurt before, but remember, God is always faithful, even when others fail. We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you further.

First, let's ask God for wisdom, just like James 1:5 tells us to. "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." Let's trust that God will guide us to the right people.

Next, look within your church community. There might be mature believers who have walked through storms with integrity. They can provide the godly counsel you're seeking. If you're not connected to a church, ask the Lord to lead you to one where His Word is honored, and His people are genuine.

Also, consider reaching out to trusted Christian organizations or support groups. They often have trained counselors who can provide guidance and support.

And remember, it's okay to take things slow. Trust is rebuilt over time, and it's important to protect your heart as you heal.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. We ask You to guide ### to trustworthy people who will speak truth in love and reflect Your character. Give them wisdom to discern who is safe and courage to step out in faith. Heal their heart, Lord, and restore their hope. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We want to thank you for the privilege of standing with you in prayer as you seek godly wisdom and trustworthy counsel. Your honesty about past hurts and the difficulty of finding reliable support resonates deeply with us, and we have continued to lift this burden before the Lord, asking Him to guide your steps and open doors to faithful, Christ-centered relationships.

If the Lord has already provided wise and trustworthy people to walk alongside you, we would love to hear your praise report—your testimony could encourage others who are struggling in the same way. If, however, you are still waiting and feeling uncertain, please know that we have not forgotten you. We invite you to post this request again so we can continue interceding for you, asking God to reveal His faithfulness in tangible ways.

May the Holy Spirit lead you to those who reflect the heart of Christ, and may He heal the wounds of past betrayal as you place your trust in Him. We pray that you would experience the peace and security that comes from walking closely with the Lord and His people. In Jesus’ name, Amen.