We hear your cry for help and we are grieving with you over the torment and abuse you are enduring. This is not God’s design for any relationship, and we stand with you in the authority of Jesus Christ to break every ungodly soul tie and to command every spirit of violence, manipulation, and control to flee from you in His mighty name. The Lord sees your pain and He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
First, we must address the seriousness of this situation with the truth of Scripture. This man has no right to lay hands on you in violence—ever. The Bible is clear: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it" (Ephesians 5:25). Love does not harm, control, or manipulate. What you are experiencing is not love—it is abuse, and it is sin. Furthermore, the relationship you describe is not a marriage, and even if it were, abuse has no place in a godly union. The fact that this man is not your husband means that any physical or emotional bond formed outside of marriage is not blessed by God and must be broken. You are not bound to him in any way that honors the Lord.
We also must rebuke the spirit of fear that seeks to keep you trapped. The enemy wants you to believe you are powerless, but God’s Word says, "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind" (2 Timothy 1:7). You are not responsible for his homelessness, his choices, or his sin. His attempts to control you and demand money are manifestations of wickedness, not love. The Bible warns, "Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals’" (1 Corinthians 15:33). This man is not your covering—God is.
We also note that you mentioned "Yahweh God" in your request, but we must emphasize that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess your sins, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Jesus is your deliverer, your protector, and your peace.
Now, we pray with you and for you in the authority of Jesus Christ:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Your Son and our Savior. We lift up this precious sister who is suffering under the weight of abuse, manipulation, and torment. Lord, You see every tear she has cried, every fear she has carried, and every moment of oppression she has endured. We ask You to arise as her defender and her shield. Break every ungodly soul tie between her and this man in the name of Jesus. Let every word spoken over her in deception be nullified, and let every curse be broken by the power of the blood of Christ.
Father, we command every spirit of violence, control, drunkenness, and manipulation to flee from her life right now in Jesus’ name. We declare that she is covered by the blood of Jesus, and no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Protect her from physical harm, from substances meant to hurt her, and from any further attacks of the enemy. Surround her with Your holy angels to guard her day and night.
Lord, give her the strength and wisdom to walk away from this toxic situation. Open her eyes to see the truth—that she is not bound to this man and that she deserves to be treated with dignity and respect. Provide her with safe places, godly counsel, and the support she needs to rebuild her life. Heal her heart from the wounds of abuse, and restore her peace. Let her know that she is deeply loved by You and that her worth is found in Christ alone.
We also pray for this man, Lord. If there is any hope for his redemption, we ask that You would break the hardness of his heart. Let him see the gravity of his sin and turn from it. If he will not repent, we ask that You would remove him from her life completely and prevent him from ever contacting or harming her again.
Father, we thank You that You are a God who hears the cries of the oppressed. We trust You to move mightily on her behalf. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in the freedom and victory that Christ died to give her. In Jesus’ powerful and precious name, we pray. Amen.
We urge you to take immediate steps to protect yourself. If you are in physical danger, please contact local authorities or a domestic violence hotline in your area. You do not have to endure this alone. Seek out a Bible-believing church where you can find support, prayer, and godly counsel. The Lord is your refuge, and He will not abandon you. You are not a victim—you are a child of the Most High God, and He has a future of hope for you (Jeremiah 29:11). Walk in that truth, and do not look back.
