Aeloorindire
Prayer Partner
I am still away from my home. My husband is still not communicating with me. I’m not sure if he is still impaired or if he has sobered up please pray that he does sober up, consider our marriage and reach out.
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We lift you up in this painful season of separation and silence, sister, and we grieve with you over the brokenness in your marriage. The Lord sees your tears and hears your cries—He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We also rejoice that you are turning to Him in this trial, for He alone is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). Your husband’s choices are not hidden from the Lord, and we pray fervently that God would break the chains of addiction that have enslaved him, whether it be alcohol, substances, or any other stronghold. The Scripture warns that no one can serve two masters—either we serve God or we are enslaved to sin (Matthew 6:24). Addiction is a cruel taskmaster, but Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18). We pray that your husband would encounter the convicting power of the Holy Spirit, that he would be sobered—not just physically, but spiritually—so that he may see the destruction his choices are causing to himself, to you, and to the covenant of marriage that God has established.
Marriage is a sacred bond, ordained by God to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). It is not to be taken lightly or abandoned without just cause. While we do not know the full details of your situation, we urge you to examine whether there has been unrepentant adultery or abandonment by an unbeliever, as Scripture permits separation in such cases (1 Corinthians 7:15, Matthew 19:9). However, if this separation is due to his struggle with addiction or sin, we encourage you to seek godly counsel on how to respond biblically—whether through prayerful waiting, confrontation, or setting boundaries that honor God. If he is an unbeliever, we pray that the Lord would save him, for "what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he professes faith but is walking in disobedience, we pray for repentance, for God disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6).
We also want to gently remind you that your hope must ultimately rest in Christ, not in your husband’s response. While we pray earnestly for reconciliation, your peace and identity must be rooted in Jesus alone. He is the one who will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). If your husband continues in hardness of heart, you must trust that God is still good and that He will sustain you. Seek support from your church body—you were not meant to walk this road alone. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable to walk in wisdom and holiness.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is enduring the pain of separation and the silence of a husband who has turned away. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask that You would intervene mightily in this marriage. Break the chains of addiction that have bound him—whether it is alcohol, drugs, or any other sin that has taken root. Sober him, Lord, not just in body but in spirit. Open his eyes to see the destruction his choices are causing and the grace You are offering him through repentance.
Convict him by Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Let him feel the weight of his sin and the urgency of turning back to You. If he is unsaved, save him, Lord! Draw him to Yourself, for no one can come to You unless the Father calls him (John 6:44). If he is a believer walking in disobedience, discipline him as a loving Father, and bring him to repentance. Soften his heart toward You and toward his wife, whom You have joined to him in covenant.
Give our sister supernatural strength, Lord. Guard her heart from bitterness, fear, or despair. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Provide for her every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround her with Your people who will uplift her in prayer and walk alongside her in this trial. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, and give her wisdom to know how to respond to her husband’s actions in a way that honors You.
If it is Your will, Lord, restore this marriage. Rebuild what has been broken, and let Your glory be displayed through reconciliation and redemption. But above all, let Your name be magnified in this situation. Whether You bring healing or call her to walk a different path, may she trust You completely and find her hope in You alone.
We ask these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. Memorize Scriptures that remind you of His faithfulness, such as Isaiah 41:10: *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."* Stand firm in faith, and do not lose heart. The Lord is working, even when you cannot see it. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience to Him. We are standing with you in this fight.
Marriage is a sacred bond, ordained by God to reflect the relationship between Christ and His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). It is not to be taken lightly or abandoned without just cause. While we do not know the full details of your situation, we urge you to examine whether there has been unrepentant adultery or abandonment by an unbeliever, as Scripture permits separation in such cases (1 Corinthians 7:15, Matthew 19:9). However, if this separation is due to his struggle with addiction or sin, we encourage you to seek godly counsel on how to respond biblically—whether through prayerful waiting, confrontation, or setting boundaries that honor God. If he is an unbeliever, we pray that the Lord would save him, for "what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If he professes faith but is walking in disobedience, we pray for repentance, for God disciplines those He loves (Hebrews 12:6).
We also want to gently remind you that your hope must ultimately rest in Christ, not in your husband’s response. While we pray earnestly for reconciliation, your peace and identity must be rooted in Jesus alone. He is the one who will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6). If your husband continues in hardness of heart, you must trust that God is still good and that He will sustain you. Seek support from your church body—you were not meant to walk this road alone. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you, encourage you, and hold you accountable to walk in wisdom and holiness.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, who is enduring the pain of separation and the silence of a husband who has turned away. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask that You would intervene mightily in this marriage. Break the chains of addiction that have bound him—whether it is alcohol, drugs, or any other sin that has taken root. Sober him, Lord, not just in body but in spirit. Open his eyes to see the destruction his choices are causing and the grace You are offering him through repentance.
Convict him by Your Holy Spirit, Lord. Let him feel the weight of his sin and the urgency of turning back to You. If he is unsaved, save him, Lord! Draw him to Yourself, for no one can come to You unless the Father calls him (John 6:44). If he is a believer walking in disobedience, discipline him as a loving Father, and bring him to repentance. Soften his heart toward You and toward his wife, whom You have joined to him in covenant.
Give our sister supernatural strength, Lord. Guard her heart from bitterness, fear, or despair. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Provide for her every need—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. Surround her with Your people who will uplift her in prayer and walk alongside her in this trial. Help her to forgive as You have forgiven her, and give her wisdom to know how to respond to her husband’s actions in a way that honors You.
If it is Your will, Lord, restore this marriage. Rebuild what has been broken, and let Your glory be displayed through reconciliation and redemption. But above all, let Your name be magnified in this situation. Whether You bring healing or call her to walk a different path, may she trust You completely and find her hope in You alone.
We ask these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
Sister, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily in prayer and in His Word. Memorize Scriptures that remind you of His faithfulness, such as Isaiah 41:10: *"Don’t you be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness."* Stand firm in faith, and do not lose heart. The Lord is working, even when you cannot see it. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience to Him. We are standing with you in this fight.
Aeloorindire
Prayer Partner
Thank you
We're here with you, sister, in this tough time. We know it's hard, but remember, God is always by your side. We're praying that your husband finds sobriety, both physically and spiritually, and that he sees the harm his actions are causing. We're asking God to give you strength, peace, and wisdom to navigate this. Please keep trusting in Jesus, who will never leave you. We're here for you, praying and believing for the best.
Brother James
Beloved of All
Praying for you and your request in Jesus.
Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?
Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!
We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...
There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!
Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.
Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.
I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.
Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?
Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!
We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...
There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!
Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.
Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.
I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.
Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!
Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.
Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.
Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.
Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.
Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.
Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
Brother James
Beloved of All
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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