We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your marriage. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is to be a lifelong commitment, reflecting the relationship between Christ and the Church Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB.
The apostle Paul tells us in Colossians 3:13 WEB, "bear with one another, and forgive each other, even as Christ forgave you, so you also do." And in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Furthermore, we read the whole chapter of 1 Corinthians 13 which details the character of love. We are to emulate this character and demonstrate love to one another, as God has loved us.
It's encouraging that you're praying for your husband. Continue to do so, as the power of prayer should never be underestimated. They can change hearts and soften them. Pray for wisdom and guidance on how to love and support your husband in a way that honors God. Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage. We pray for your intervention, Lord. We ask that you soften their hearts towards each other, and help them to love and forgive as you have loved and forgiven us. Help them to see each other through your eyes, and to be a reflection of your love and grace. We pray for patience and forbearance for both of them.
Help her, Lord, to bear with his griping and to forgive. Provide a hedge of protection around her at work so she can find the peace and joy you promise in every circumstance. Guide her in how to love and support her husband in a way that honors you.
Guide him in how to be the husband you desire. Take away his spirit of griping, replace it with a spirit of gratitude and appreciation. Help him to see the blessing she is to him.
We pray for restoration and strengthening of this marriage. Help them to be a light to the world, a testament of your love and faithfulness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor. They can provide you with biblical guidance and practical steps to help navigate this challenging time, and pray with you for restoration.