anonymous7367
Humble Servant of All
My husband's hours were cut to 20/wk. He gets paid once a month. His total hours for July's ck--24. Aug-25, Sep-40, Oct-60 Nov will be 40, Development will be 40, January will be 20. My husband has made no effort to find a new job or an additional job. Our bills keep getting further and further behind. We stay in danger of our utility being shut off, our phone and so on. We managed to get a few food stamps and I have always been careful about what we buy but it still does not get us through the month. We have put 3 deer in the freezer which cost about $3/lb to process. My husband is out of his pain medication so his temper is even worse than normal. I am on disability which helps bring in a little extra money but it doesn't cover our necessities. My definition of necessity and my husband's are 2 different things. A can of snuff a day and a $4 iced coffee from McDonald's are NOT!!! Doesn't have the iced coffee every day but he does have the snuff every day. And I heard him very clearly when he stated I was crazy as you know what if I thought he would give up his snuff. I would be gone before the snuff. Nothing is getting through to him. Taxes are past due. All our bills are past due. His daughter stole his last pain pill so that bottle went flying across the room when he found out it was gone and realized she took it. What a suprize! Not!!! Take it out on her a not me! She's the one who took it. Nope says Nothing to her.
What am I supposed to do. I had to turn down a job because I would go further in the hole if I took it.. I want to work. But of course, as always he has the money spent before I can make it. My ex - husband died owing me close to $16,000 in child support arrears. My husband's comment---That would have been a Harley for me!!! I keep telling you he is a narcissist!!!
He tells people he does what he is told. Makes me furious. If he did we would still be living in the 4 bdrm house, we would have raised his youngest daughter and she would have ethics and morals and he would put others first. And we would not be in the predicament we are in because we would have had something to fall back on.
I have less than 4 days to come up with tax money, 2 month of bills, money for medication, doctor bill and the IRS. I have tried selling things and nothing has sold. Even tried giving away some things and no takers. So please tell me what I am supposed to do. I mean I pray every day about these situations and they are not getting any better. My husband filed for a reduction in child support and was given only a $25 reduction. They weren't going to grant that but the mom said okay. His support should have been cut in half based on his income and the mom and child both working. Don't get me wrong he should pay child support but the mother has a responsibility to support the child living with her not let the child support support the mother which is what she is doing. She lied to him in the court room. Sat beside him said she knew he couldn't afford what he is paying would agree to cut it in half and then said no to the judge she would only accept the $25 reduction. Mom and daughter live with the mom's dad and his mom scout free. She has no bills whatsoever. Excuse me. A $50/mo phone bill. Yet my ex was allowed to owe me nearly $16,000 and allowed to leave the country.
When do I get a break? When I am dead?
What am I supposed to do. I had to turn down a job because I would go further in the hole if I took it.. I want to work. But of course, as always he has the money spent before I can make it. My ex - husband died owing me close to $16,000 in child support arrears. My husband's comment---That would have been a Harley for me!!! I keep telling you he is a narcissist!!!
He tells people he does what he is told. Makes me furious. If he did we would still be living in the 4 bdrm house, we would have raised his youngest daughter and she would have ethics and morals and he would put others first. And we would not be in the predicament we are in because we would have had something to fall back on.
I have less than 4 days to come up with tax money, 2 month of bills, money for medication, doctor bill and the IRS. I have tried selling things and nothing has sold. Even tried giving away some things and no takers. So please tell me what I am supposed to do. I mean I pray every day about these situations and they are not getting any better. My husband filed for a reduction in child support and was given only a $25 reduction. They weren't going to grant that but the mom said okay. His support should have been cut in half based on his income and the mom and child both working. Don't get me wrong he should pay child support but the mother has a responsibility to support the child living with her not let the child support support the mother which is what she is doing. She lied to him in the court room. Sat beside him said she knew he couldn't afford what he is paying would agree to cut it in half and then said no to the judge she would only accept the $25 reduction. Mom and daughter live with the mom's dad and his mom scout free. She has no bills whatsoever. Excuse me. A $50/mo phone bill. Yet my ex was allowed to owe me nearly $16,000 and allowed to leave the country.
When do I get a break? When I am dead?
