We are truly saddened to hear about the struggle you're facing with your husband on what should be a joyous occasion. It's important to remember that God's design for marriage is one of love, respect, and mutual support, as seen in Ephesians 5:25: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it."
Firstly, let us address the use of ### instead of your husband's name or the issue. It is clear that there is a problem and using ### does not hide that fact. We understand that this is a public group and there is a desire for privacy. However, we must also realize that we are all sinners in need of a savior, Jesus Christ. We will address this problem as discreetly as possible.
It's crucial to address this behavior with open communication and prayer. If your husband is struggling with any form of addiction, or if there's any sinful behavior involved, it's important to address it directly and lovingly. Galatians 6:1 tells us, "Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness; looking to yourself so that you also aren’t tempted."
Let's pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister in Christ who is hurting on what should be a happy day. We pray for her husband, that You would touch his heart and open his eyes to the pain he's causing. If there's any sin or addiction at play, we rebuke it in Jesus' name and pray for conviction, repentance, and healing. Guide them both as they navigate this trial, and give her the strength and wisdom to address this issue lovingly and effectively. Most importantly we pray for their marriage to be restored and renewed. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, it's important to set boundaries and communicate openly about how his actions make you feel. Seek godly counsel if needed, and trust that God is faithful to heal and restore when we turn to Him.
Lastly, we must mention that your request did not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Therefore, we must believe in Jesus, confess our sins to Jesus, repent of our sins, and ask Jesus to come into our lives as Lord and Savior. Then, it is only then we can receive prayers in Jesus' name. If you have questions or need more information about this, please ask.