Husband heart to be soften

[Anonymous]

Father God, I ask that You put blinders on my husband regarding other women. Turn his eyes away from worthless things and help him to only have eyes for me.
Lord, deliver my husband from the temptation of lust. Help him to see himself as You see him and to treat me with the love that Christ has for the church.
Lord, I ask that You heal my heart from the pain of this, and restore the intimacy and trust in our marriage.
"Heavenly Father, I lift up my husband to You. You see his unhappiness and the way he blames me, causing pain and division and even saying painful words to downgrade me and belittle me.
Lord, I ask that You pierce through any hardness of his heart, pride, or selfishness and temptation and bring conviction to his heart to see his wrong doing and choices. Replace his bitterness, ego and pridefully spirit with Your peace and humility and fear of Lord. Please, Lord, heal the root of his unhappiness and help him to take responsibility for his own emotions, action and selfish choices. Strengthen me to be a supportive wife, and loving even though it's painful and emotional hurt is taking toll in my health and I am pregnant with our second child with him not being there to give any support but wants boy so keeps putting pregnancy down. For guide me in setting healthy boundaries to protect my own well-being. Also, every ungodly influence and friendship he talks about all day, I pray that you shut those friendships down who is not bringing joy into this marriage and causing confusion. Bring godly sorrow and conviction to his heart to see his mistakes and errors that's causing deep pain into my life and family and turn away from evil. Have mercy on him, Lord. Turn our hearts toward each other and restore our marriage, in Jesus' name. Amen. Help him see his choices and unholy desires and errors instead of blaming me and bring godly conviction to make him it better for his family and our marriage and growing family. Lord. Teach him how to father daughters and be and meet emotional need of his wife and daughters. Take away that selfishness, pride and ungodliness and teach him how to love his godly wife and children putting his wife and children needs before temptation and ungodly desires and friendship and worldly chase. As I forgive him as Lord forgives us but let him not keep repeating this hurtful things over and over again, help him to see what wife needs in postpartum and how to not be rude but supportive during this critical time for his wife. Lord, Bless the fruit of my womb and let her have no negative effects on her from my emotional pain throughout pregnancy in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ name amen with you, Lord, all things are possible, only You can work miracles. I put my faith in you, Lord, hear your daughter's cry. Lord, I pray for victory and breakthrough for myself in Jesus Christ mighty and matchless name, I pray amen .

 

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We hear your anguished cry, dear sister, and we lift you and your marriage before the throne of grace with deep compassion and urgency. Your heart is heavy, your spirit weary, and your body carrying new life while enduring such profound emotional pain. We stand with you in prayer, believing that God sees every tear, hears every silent plea, and is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we could ask or think.

First, we must address the foundational truth that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). Your prayer acknowledges this, and we rejoice that you are coming before God in the name of Jesus, for He alone is our mediator and advocate. We pray that your husband would come to know Christ more deeply, that his heart would be surrendered fully to Him, and that he would find his identity, worth, and purpose in Jesus alone.

The pain you describe is profound—the betrayal of wandering eyes, the sting of belittling words, the isolation of carrying a child without support, and the fear of generational wounds being passed down. We rebuke the spirit of pride, selfishness, and hardness of heart that has taken root in your husband. The Bible warns us, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers" (Hebrews 13:4). Lust is a snare that not only defiles the marriage bed but also hardens the heart toward one’s spouse. We declare that your husband’s eyes would be turned away from worthless things, as Psalm 119:37 says, "Turn my eyes away from looking at worthless things. Revive me in your ways." We pray that God would blind him to the temptations of the world and open his eyes to the beauty and value of the wife God has given him.

Your husband’s words and actions are not aligned with Scripture. Ephesians 5:25-28 commands husbands, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the church to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without defect. Even so husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself." His treatment of you is a far cry from this Christlike love. We pray that God would bring deep conviction to his heart, that he would see the weight of his sin and the damage it is causing to his family. May he repent—not just with words, but with a transformed heart and changed actions.

We also rebuke the ungodly influences in his life. The Bible warns, "Do not be deceived: 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals'" (1 Corinthians 15:33). We pray that God would sever any friendships or influences that are drawing him away from his family and from the Lord. May he be surrounded by godly men who will speak truth into his life, hold him accountable, and encourage him to walk in righteousness.

Your role as his wife is not to endure abuse or enable sin, but to love him as Christ loves the church. However, love does not mean tolerating mistreatment. You are right to seek healthy boundaries to protect your well-being and that of your children. Proverbs 4:23 says, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." We pray that God would give you wisdom to know how to respond to your husband in a way that honors Him, whether that means speaking truth in love, seeking godly counsel, or even temporary separation if necessary for your safety and spiritual health. Remember, even Jesus did not entrust Himself to those who did not believe (John 2:24). Your first allegiance is to Christ, and He calls you to walk in wisdom and discernment.

We also lift up your unborn child, asking God to shield her from the effects of this stress and pain. Psalm 139:13-14 reminds us, "For you formed my inmost being. You knit me together in my mother’s womb. I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well." We pray that God would knit this child together in your womb with His peace and protection, that she would be a testimony of His grace and a catalyst for change in your family.

For your husband’s role as a father, we pray that God would break the cycle of emotional neglect and selfishness. Psalm 103:13 says, "Like a father has compassion on his children, so Yahweh has compassion on those who fear him." May your husband learn to mirror God’s compassion, to nurture his daughters with tenderness, and to lead his family with humility and love. We pray that he would see the sacred responsibility of fatherhood and rise to meet it, putting aside his own desires for the sake of his family.

We also address the sin of bitterness that could take root in your own heart. You have forgiven him, as Christ has forgiven you, but forgiveness does not mean allowing sin to continue unchecked. Hebrews 12:15 warns, "Looking carefully lest there be any man who falls short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and many be defiled by it." We pray that God would guard your heart from bitterness, even as you extend grace, and that He would fill you with His peace and strength to endure this trial.

Now, we lift all these burdens to the Lord in prayer:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her marriage to You. Lord, You see the pain, the brokenness, and the desperation in her cry. You are the God who heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds (Psalm 147:3). We ask that You would move mightily in this marriage, softening her husband’s heart and breaking the chains of pride, selfishness, and lust that have bound him.

Father, we pray for conviction to fall upon him. Let him see the weight of his sin and the damage it is causing to his wife, his children, and his own soul. Bring godly sorrow that leads to repentance (2 Corinthians 7:10). Replace his hardness with humility, his selfishness with selflessness, and his pride with the fear of the Lord. Let him turn away from every ungodly influence and friendship, and draw him into relationships that will encourage him to walk in Your ways.

Lord, we ask that You would restore intimacy and trust in this marriage. Heal the wounds that have been inflicted, and let Your love be the foundation upon which they rebuild. Teach this husband how to love his wife as Christ loves the church, to cherish her, to honor her, and to meet her emotional and physical needs, especially during this vulnerable time of pregnancy and postpartum. Let him see the sacredness of his role as a husband and father, and give him the strength to put his family’s needs above his own desires.

For this sister, Father, we pray for Your peace to guard her heart and mind (Philippians 4:7). Strengthen her to set healthy boundaries, to walk in wisdom, and to trust in You even when her husband does not. Protect her unborn child from the effects of this stress, and let this baby be a blessing and a joy to her. Give her the grace to forgive, even as You have forgiven her, and the courage to stand firm in her faith.

Lord, we declare victory over this marriage in the name of Jesus. We break every chain of sin, pride, and ungodliness that has taken hold. We pray for a breakthrough, for a miracle of restoration, and for Your glory to be revealed in their family. Let this home be a place of peace, love, and godliness, where Your name is honored and Your Word is obeyed.

We trust in You, Lord, for with You all things are possible (Matthew 19:26). Hear the cry of Your daughter, and move in power to bring healing, restoration, and transformation. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you, sister, to seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian counselor who can walk with you through this difficult season. You do not have to carry this burden alone. Proverbs 11:14 says, "Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety." Surround yourself with believers who will pray with you, support you, and speak truth into your life.

Remember, God is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Even if your husband does not change, God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). You are not forgotten, and your prayers are not in vain. The Lord hears you, and He will answer in His perfect timing and way.

 

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Dear sister, we stand with you in your pain, lifting your marriage before the throne of grace. We are moved by your heartfelt plea and the weight of your burden. Here's what we pray:

Lord, we ask that You soften our sister's husband's heart towards her. Help him to see the beauty and worth in her, as You see it. Blind him to the temptations of the world and open his eyes to the precious gift of his wife.

We also pray for conviction in his heart, Lord. Help him to see the hurt he's causing and the damage to his family. Bring godly sorrow that leads to repentance, and replace his hardness, pride, and selfishness with humility, selflessness, and the fear of the Lord.

Heal our sister's heart, Lord. Give her strength to set healthy boundaries and to trust in You, even when her husband does not. Protect her unborn child from the effects of this stress, and let this baby be a blessing and a joy to her.

We declare victory over this marriage, Lord. Break every chain of sin, pride, and ungodliness that has taken hold. Bring a breakthrough, a miracle of restoration, and reveal Your glory in their family. Let their home be a place of peace, love, and godliness, where Your name is honored, and Your Word is obeyed.

In Jesus' mighty and matchless name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you, sister, to keep seeking the Lord and to surround yourself with believing friends who will pray with you, support you, and speak truth into your life. Trust in the Lord, for He is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, and trust that He is working all things together for your good.

You are not alone. We are here for you, praying with you and for you.