Husband falling deeper into delusions

Zxauhaven

Disciple of Prayer
My husband has been falling deeper and deeper into delusion. He spends all his time discussing the end of the world with AI chatbots, he currently has a person he believes is the Antichrist and he believes that he himself is one of the 144,000 and is going to play a key role in end times and defeating the Antichrist and his followers. He believes he will be given supernatural powers to accomplish this. He spends all of his free time on this topic, as well as who the REAL Israelites are (him) and as well as things like Bigfoot and other Cryptids are the devils experiments, flat earth, and aliens are going to come soon but they’re fallen angels who he will also be fighting. He attributes meanings to random things like his eye color and birthday and obsesses over them. He abuses substances and claims it’s my fault because “I don’t want to grow with him spiritually” which really means be his captive audience while he rants for hours about the Antichrist, nephilim, Israelites, and flat earth and how special and important he is and how unimportant other specific groups of humans are. If he is challenged, he gets irrationally angry and retorts demanding proof, reasoning and starts a nasty offensive argument that ends in claiming “I just don’t love the truth” and “I’ll see” and “I don’t let him lead”. We have a baby and he will go off on these tangents in front of our baby or directly to our baby even though the baby can’t understand yet I dread the day they can. He says that he’s called to do this as a Christian and he’s supposed to behave as he does and he’s not “obsessing”. He spends nearly all his free time on this. It’s upwards of 6+ hours a day. I have plans and goals and priorities for our future that doesn’t account for the world ending right now, and I care for our baby pretty much alone at this point. I don’t feel far from Jesus at this point. He justifies this behavior by saying he is doing as the Bible commands. I’m exhausted and tired of this endless nonsense. Pray for my family, pray that we and our future become his priority, not his obsessive fantasy of fighting the Antichrist and the end times and interpreting the Bible as he pleases that day. We have things to do, children to raise and bills to pay. None of this is productive, it’s hateful and he is so incredibly blind and rageful and I just can’t get through to him. It’s been years. Please help me. I actually need a miracle.
 
We come before the Lord with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious family in fervent prayer. Father, we see the deep pain and exhaustion in this wife’s words—her husband has strayed far from the truth, entangled in delusions that distort Your Word and Your calling. We ask for Your mighty hand to intervene, to break the chains of deception that have bound his mind and heart. The Scriptures warn us, *"For the time will come when they will not listen to the sound doctrine, but, having itching ears, will heap up for themselves teachers after their own lusts; and will turn away their ears from the truth, and turn away to fables"* (2 Timothy 4:3-4). Lord, we rebuke the lies that have taken root in him, whether they come from his own pride, the enemy’s schemes, or the influence of ungodly voices—including those AI chatbots that feed his obsession. We declare that his identity is not in fantastical roles or supernatural powers, but in Christ alone, who said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me"* (John 14:6).

We pray for this husband’s mind to be renewed, that he would no longer be *"tossed back and forth by the waves, and blown here and there by every wind of teaching and by the cunning and craftiness of people in their deceitful scheming"* (Ephesians 4:14). His fixation on end-time theories, cryptids, and conspiracy has consumed him, leaving no room for the responsibilities You’ve entrusted to him as a husband and father. We cry out for him to see the weight of his calling in this season: to love his wife as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25), to train up his child in Your ways (Proverbs 22:6), and to work diligently to provide for his family (1 Timothy 5:8). Lord, let him no longer neglect these sacred duties in pursuit of a fantasy. We rebuke the spirit of addiction that has taken hold through substance abuse, and we declare freedom over him in the name of Jesus. His justification that his wife is to blame for his choices is a lie—*"Each of us will give an account of ourselves to God"* (Romans 14:12). We pray for conviction, repentance, and a heart that seeks reconciliation.

To this weary wife, we say: Your faithfulness in the midst of this trial does not go unnoticed. You are carrying a burden no one should bear alone, and yet you stand as a testimony of God’s grace. We pray for strength for you, that you would not grow weary in doing good (Galatians 6:9). The Lord sees your tears and hears your cries—*"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). We ask for wisdom as you navigate this marriage, for protection over your child’s heart and mind, and for provision as you bear so much of the load alone. Do not lose hope, for the God who parted the Red Sea is the same God who can part the clouds of confusion in your husband’s mind. We encourage you to seek godly counsel—pastors, biblical counselors, or trusted believers who can walk with you through this storm. You are not alone.

We also address the spiritual danger in this situation. The husband’s claims of being one of the 144,000 or having a special role in the end times are a distortion of Scripture. Revelation 7:4 describes the 144,000 as those *"sealed from every tribe of the children of Israel"*—not self-appointed individuals who elevate themselves above others. His obsession with being a "real Israelite" and his disdain for other groups reveal a heart of pride, which the Bible warns is an abomination to the Lord (Proverbs 16:5). His anger when challenged is a sign of spiritual blindness—*"The wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God"* (James 1:20). We rebuke the spirit of division and self-righteousness that has taken root in him, and we pray for humility to replace his pride.

Father, we ask for a miracle. Soften this husband’s heart to receive the truth, to see the harm he is causing his family, and to turn back to You with repentance. Let him no longer find satisfaction in the fleeting highs of conspiracy theories or substance abuse, but in the peace that comes from abiding in Christ. We pray for his eyes to be opened to the beauty of Your simple truth: *"This is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom You have sent"* (John 17:3). May he find his worth in being a child of God, not in delusions of grandeur. And for this wife, we pray for endurance, for joy in the midst of trial, and for the assurance that her labor in the Lord is not in vain (1 Corinthians 15:58).

Lord, we also lift up their child. Protect this little one’s heart from the confusion and fear that may come from hearing these distorted teachings. Let the truth of Your love be the foundation they build their life upon. We ask for godly influences to surround this family—mentors, friends, and church communities that will speak life and truth into their lives.

We close this prayer with the words of Philippians 4:6-7: *"In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus."* May this family know Your peace that transcends all understanding. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about the struggle you're going through. It's heartbreaking to see a loved one lost in delusions and obsessions. We're here for you, praying for your family and for the truth to set your husband free.

We pray that God would open your husband's eyes to the reality of his situation, that he would see the harm he's causing his family, and that he would turn back to the truth with repentance. We ask for a miracle, that God would soften his heart and bring him back to the simple, beautiful truth of knowing Jesus.

In the meantime, we pray for strength and endurance for you, dear friend. We pray that you would find joy in the midst of your trial, and that you would know the assurance that your labor in the Lord is not in vain. We also pray for your child, that they would be protected from confusion and fear, and that they would grow up knowing the truth of God's love.

Let's keep lifting this family up in prayer, trusting that God is faithful and that He can part the clouds of confusion in your husband's mind, just as He parted the Red Sea.
 
Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. Please grant wisdom and strength to this dear loved one my Lord. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

“And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.”

‭‭Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭17‬ ‭NIV‬
 

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