How to make sure I attract a good husband?

Anonymous

Beloved of All
I’m sorry to hear you’re feeling this way. It’s important to remember that not all men will view relationships in the same way, and it’s possible to find someone who values mutual respect, connection, and shared dreams. Building a relationship based on these values often involves open communication and finding someone whose intentions align with yours. It might take time, but there are people out there who seek genuine connections and want to nurture and protect their partners. Stay true to your values and seek out relationships that reflect them.
 
We understand your desire for a good husband and we want to guide you from a biblical perspective. It's crucial to seek God's will and to trust in His timing and provision. Remember, a good husband is one who fears the Lord and walks in His ways. As it is said in 1 Peter 3:7 WEB, "You husbands, in like manner, live with them according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered."

Firstly, let's address the concept of attracting a spouse. It's important to note that physical attraction is not a biblical basis for marriage. Instead, focus on developing godly character and growing in your relationship with Christ. Like-minded believers will be drawn to your faith and character, which are the most important attributes. As it is said in Proverbs 31:30 WEB, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised."

Secondly, it's essential to be in fellowship with other believers and to be actively involved in a local church. This is where you'll likely meet someone who shares your values and love for Christ. As it is said in Psalm 92:13 WEB, "They are planted in Yahweh's house. They will flourish in our God's courts."

Lastly, pray for God's will and guidance. Trust that He has a plan for your life, including whom you should marry. Remember each person is on their own journey, and you should not be trying to fit another person into your dreams, but rather finding someone whose dreams align with yours and are directed by God. As it is said in James 4:13-15 WEB, "Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow let's go into this city, and spend a year there, and trade, and make a profit,' whereas you don't know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor, that appears for a little time, and then vanishes away. For you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.'"

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this beloved sister in Christ. We ask that You guide her steps and lead her to a godly husband according to Your will. Help her to grow in her faith and character, and to trust in Your timing. Give her discernment and wisdom as she seeks a lifelong companion. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
 
We're here with you, sister, in your heart's desire for a godly husband. Let's continue to seek God's will together, trusting that He has a perfect plan for your life. Remember, as it's written in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Let's focus on growing in our relationship with Christ, and as we do, we'll attract the right kind of attention. Let's pray:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our dear ###. Guide her, Lord, in her journey towards finding a godly husband, a man who fears You and walks in Your ways. Help her to grow in her faith and character, to trust in Your perfect timing. Give her wisdom and discernment as she seeks a lifelong companion. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

Your Future Is In God’s Hands
 
We continue to uphold you in prayer, dear sister, as you seek God's will for your life partner. It has been a few days since you shared your heart with us, and we want you to know that we are still standing in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has already revealed to you that your prayer has been answered, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony will encourage and strengthen our faith as a community. If you are still waiting on the Lord, we encourage you to post your request again. Allow us to persist in prayer with you, believing that God is working behind the scenes.

As you wait, remember that God's timing is perfect. Continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. Pray that He would prepare you for your future husband and that He would also prepare your future husband for you. Trust that God is cultivating in you both the values of mutual respect, deep connection, and shared dreams.

May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him with all your heart. We are praying for open communication and clear guidance from the Holy Spirit as you navigate this season of your life. Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for you, and He will reveal it in His perfect timing. We are honored to be your prayer partners in this journey.
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray with you concerning your desire to attract a good husband. We are honored that you invited us to stand in agreement with you in this matter. If you have seen signs of God working in this area of your life, please share a praise report to encourage us all. If you feel that your prayers have not yet been answered, do not hesitate to post your request again, allowing us to continue praying with you.

We are reminded of Psalm 37:4, "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart." We pray that as you continue to seek God and His will, He will guide your steps and bring the right person into your life. We pray for discernment, patience, and wisdom as you navigate through relationships, and we trust that God, in His perfect timing, will bring someone who aligns with your values and values you for who you are.

May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray that you will feel His love and peace surrounding you every day. We agree with you in prayer that God will prepare both you and your future spouse for a godly union that reflects His love and brings glory to His name. Help ### stay true to her values and be open to godly counsel.

Break any ungodly soul ties and deliver ### from past heartaches that might be hindering her from receiving what God has for her. Give ### the spirit of wisdom, discernment, and boldness. Draw ### closer to you oh Lord we pray in Jesus name.
 

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