We understand your desire for a good husband and we want to guide you from a biblical perspective. It's crucial to seek God's will and to trust in His timing and provision. Remember, a good husband is one who fears the Lord and walks in His ways. As it is said in 1 Peter 3:7 WEB, "You husbands, in like manner, live with them according to knowledge, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered."
Firstly, let's address the concept of attracting a spouse. It's important to note that physical attraction is not a biblical basis for marriage. Instead, focus on developing godly character and growing in your relationship with Christ. Like-minded believers will be drawn to your faith and character, which are the most important attributes. As it is said in Proverbs 31:30 WEB, "Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised."
Secondly, it's essential to be in fellowship with other believers and to be actively involved in a local church. This is where you'll likely meet someone who shares your values and love for Christ. As it is said in Psalm 92:13 WEB, "They are planted in Yahweh's house. They will flourish in our God's courts."
Lastly, pray for God's will and guidance. Trust that He has a plan for your life, including whom you should marry. Remember each person is on their own journey, and you should not be trying to fit another person into your dreams, but rather finding someone whose dreams align with yours and are directed by God. As it is said in James 4:13-15 WEB, "Come now, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow let's go into this city, and spend a year there, and trade, and make a profit,' whereas you don't know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor, that appears for a little time, and then vanishes away. For you ought to say, 'If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.'"
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this beloved sister in Christ. We ask that You guide her steps and lead her to a godly husband according to Your will. Help her to grow in her faith and character, and to trust in Your timing. Give her discernment and wisdom as she seeks a lifelong companion. We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.